posted March 10, 2012 07:43 PM            

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Originally posted by BrightStar23:
Hi everyone. I just looked at the synastry of Myself and a good friend of mine and I found out that My "Lie" is conjunct his sun and his Lie is conjunct my Nothnode (and his south node we have a nodal reversal) also his own karma. When I saw this I actually felt sick. I would never hurt him! and I know he would never hurt me. Its hard to explain but it made me upset. (Maybe some past life emotions tied to this feeling...) But In this life this person is a dear friend. Someone who I will always have his back no matter what and him mine, this has been proven time and again. I am going to ask something- it might sound stupid- but I just cannot imagine ever lying to this person in a deceitful way! However I am holding back my true feelings from him...I think i might love him but have never and probally wont ever tell him that. Could this placement indicate that? Thanks heaps

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Aww I don't know enough to answer so I won't. I am sorry you are hurting, Friend!

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posted March 10, 2012 08:12 PM            

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Originally posted by BrightStar23:
Thanks Ami Anne x. Maybe IQ could offer some wisdom??

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Maybe address a thread to him specifically. That is a good idea, BrightStar!

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posted March 10, 2012 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by BrightStar23:
I think I will do that!
I guess this relationship means alot to me. We have alot of really nice placements too!. Moon trine moon, pluto conjunct moon, mercury conjunct mercury, his destinn conjnct my midheaven, psyche conjunct amor. Theres alot of Love between us, and we always want the best for eachother. We are not in a romantic relationship, just really good friends. so thats why the lie thing seems odd. I do think we hold back our true feelings from eachother though.

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Aw I see! Well, you are right to comb every asteroid as all parts of the chart are very important and very meaningful Sweetheart!

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posted March 11, 2012 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
A lot of people hold back their true feelings. They lie to themselves at times, without realizing it, as well. Please don't worry! You know you would never intentionally hurt him, and that's what matters.

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You got a point Teasel. Lie could be not being direct in a situation such as not expressing one's feelings to the person directly as you indicated was the case if I heard you correctly

Bright Star--where is Lie in the Composite Chart? Have you done that? Where is lie in each person's natal chart?

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posted March 11, 2012 11:31 AM            

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posted March 11, 2012 06:12 PM            

My Lie 26 degrees aquarius - 5th house
His Lie 12 degrees Gemini - 3rd house
Composite Lie 19 degrees Aries - 4th house

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posted March 12, 2012 05:48 PM            

But then you have your Mars and Moon in the 12th so it will be very hard to feel your emotions and your drive of which passion is one.

Then you have Saturn conj the NN which shows a theme of sort of restrictions, delays and a drudgery kind of thing.

To me, I think the NN is very very important. My longest relationship had Chiron conj the NN.Indeed, it was a Chiron theme. I think a NN alone would stop me from a relationship. I did your synastry a while back, didn't I?

If so, it was fabulous but the Comp is not very good imo.

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posted March 12, 2012 06:10 PM            

We do have a strong energy together- people often comment on how we seem "perfect for eachother" and yet are not in a relationship- That would be the "sexy vibe" you are talking of and possibly sun conjunct amor- but yes the relationship, in terms of actually being together, is full of restrictions despite a deep soul connection- I imagine this ties into the saturn conj northnode and 12 house moon/ mars - like you say

posted March 12, 2012 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by BrightStar23:
Thankyou Ami Anne!!

We do have a strong energy together- people often comment on how we seem "perfect for eachother" and yet are not in a relationship- That would be the "sexy vibe" you are talking of and possibly sun conjunct amor- but yes the relationship, in terms of actually being together, is full of restrictions despite a deep soul connection- I imagine this ties into the saturn conj northnode and 12 house moon/ mars - like you say

Things I find werid:- Aura and part of fortune make 11 11 !! -- conjunct south node( opposite northnode and saturn)- I dont know much about 11 11 but I thought it meant some kind of spiritual awakening?? which is interesting because this has happened for us both since being in eachothers life. Also heaps of pluto trines! what do you think all the pluto is about? Thanks again!

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I am glad you can accept the hard things Bright Star.It is very hard to say hard things to people. This is my single biggest struggle with doing charts. IQ says things straight out with love and kindness lol

Anyway, I will look! x

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posted March 12, 2012 06:17 PM            

The other interesting thing is Pluto in the 10th(house of career) opposite Lie. I think this this shows your struggle with your relationship being a "lie" in that you really want it to consummate but you can't/won't.

At any rate, it is a back and forth struggle represented by the opposition which IS a yin/yang, back and forth between different opposite stances.

Man, that opposition kind of defines your struggle! How amazing is that?

Any other questions?

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posted March 12, 2012 06:34 PM            

Also can you see any indication of a past life connection...

posted March 12, 2012 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by BrightStar23:
I love your interpretations! I guess the other question I have is about Uranus...We have alot of Uranus energy I think thats partly the fireworks- but It is quite an unstable energy! am I right?

Also can you see any indication of a past life connection...

Thanks again Ami!

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Aw Sweetie
Well I don't look at past lives as I am a Born Again Christian and we believe in one trip per customer.

I will look at Uranus a little later as I need a fresh mind with which to meditate.

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