posted April 12, 2012 01:01 AM
This may seem a little odd, but I wanted to share what I figured out.. My epiphany.. My Destinn/Neptune conjuncts his moon..
So maybe for what ever reason, his feelings is part of putting me on my spiritual path, my growth.
My Mars also sq his Moon...
So I saw or do things sometimes,that hurt his feelings. He's a lot more sensitive than I realized.
He reacts when I so something, not in a bad way, he just says I dislike that, or he gives me the saddest look...
Or he says some out of the box thing, that just throws me to the floor..
Sometimes, the things he says to me, are upsetting... But I know its because he's upset with me..
When he says certain things to me, my first reaction is to calm him down,and just make it better.. My goal is to make him feel better. So I boost his ego,and I give him the reassurance he is looking for.
Now how have I learned???
If this was anyone else.. My reaction would have been screw you.. I would have went into defense mode and reacted with anger..
His feelings mean a lot to me, so if I need to give him that reassurance, then I will..
We all need it sometimes..
So I'm learning to look at the other perceptive and understand why the hurt feelings. To solve and discuss the issue at hand verses reacting in a negative manner.
But thats just with him... No one else can get away with it