posted May 16, 2012 03:52 PM            

I have never posted on these boards, but am experiencing some very real synastry and want to see if anyone has any thoughts.

I have been friends with a man for over a year now. We are unable to have a relationship at this time, but also unable to stop thinking of one another. We have a vesta/sun DW, both within a degree. Even when I've dated other men, I still think of him and compare my feelings to each man. No other man measures up.

Other interesting synastry:

My MC/IC is conjunct his nodal axis within two degrees. His moon is conjunct my MC also and trine my ascendant.

His pluto is sextile my IC/Juno conjunction. This is exact. His Juno also hits my IC/MC via trine/sextile. I think his pluto hitting these points adds to the emotional awakening he caused in me. I hadn't ever felt love before and can remember the exact second I fell.

For what's it's worth, we met when Jupiter was exactly conjunct my anti vertex. I had a child the last time this happened in the sky.

And what contributes to his fascination with me? Lust is also conjunct his Vesta, which conjuncts my sun within a few minutes.

All of these orbs are less then two degrees, FYI.

Is is the vesta/sun conjunctions? Is is the nodal axis on my angles? What has made us keep each other in our hearts all this time?

posted May 16, 2012 04:04 PM            

In my experience, Vesta can be an incredible bond with an already present sexual relationship. It can quickly shift everything over into tantra, which is (personally) very, very nice.