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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Thank you for your reply, Ail.
It`s an interesting take, and would fit with the myth.My instant thought was actually quite a simple one and probably influenced on IQ`s take on Nessus as being very sexual (well all centaurs were quite close to their animalistic nature).
My thought was also influenced by the fact that the guy`s JUNO/PSYCHE/NESSUS is EXACTLY conjunct my KARMA and exactly trine my Moon and at the same time squares my JUNO exact. And his KARMA conjuncts my Draco JUNO.
The links to JUNO are really not to be missed in this one. lol
So, all of that led me to think that there might have been a past life marriage
(also, his KARMA opposes my Venus/ISIS/OSIRIS and his own Mars - yes Venus-Mars-conjunction- and squaring my own Pluto and his Draco Venus opposes my Draco KARMA)
So there are these Juno-aspects, there is Venus-Karma on two levels (tropical and Draco) - oh wait on three levels (composite helio Venus on 9 Cap opposes helio Karma on 11 Cancer as well).
So all of that might have been puzzle pieces to my instant idea about this.
It was actually a simple one.
There might have been a past life relationship, possibly marriage; not sure if the conjunction on its own would show abuse, but maybe there was a quite selfish desire involved, which did only care for (sexual) selfgratification, but lacking any kind of emotional maturity or responsibility.
And the tropical Heracles-Dejanira-conjunction might simply show that there was an added nuance of protectiveness. Heracles had his faults, definitely, but it seems from the myth that he really loved Dejanira and wanted to protect her and actually fought for her more than once (once to win her hand in marriage, and then to defend her from Nessus).
Of course the fact that his Neptune is exactly conjunct my Amor, and both trine the Heracles-Dejanira-conjunction, might imply that I am a wee bit too idealistic. 
BTW I always found it strange and interesting that my Draco DEJANIRA is conjunct my draco ISOLDA as well as both falling onto my tropical EROS and Vertex and Destinn, all oppospite my Sun/Moon-mp and ARTHUR.
Especially thta Eros on my Draco Dejanira.
It is in Cancer also.
Being able to let down my guard with someone and actually show myself as vulnerable definitely feels quite erotic to me, and it is a rare occurence, especially with tropical Saturn conjunct my Draco Dejanira and Eros loosely (3-4 degrees).
I was thinking about the concept of the wheel of karma ex. say you bully people throughout one life and then in another life your the one that's bullied for your past actions by being forced to walk in another person's shoes.
But I don't think the conjunction is necessarily bad rather it makes your connection even more present. It could have been a love-hate sort of relationship or possibly you were married in a past life to someone out of say obligation but then there would probably be some jupiter aspect, anyway maybe he interfered with a "divine" or "political" with the dejandira, Isolda, isis/osiris aspects that feels like a possibility. Isolda/tristan story was also about feuding families of similar socio-political statues and they hated another. Perhaps it represents being a victim of obligation, being romantically tied to that person maybe they betrayed your trust, their is also a aspect of self abuse and deception within the Nessus myth he deceives her because he's dying and cannot have her anyway.
Those neptune aspects blurs things a bit because it seems evident that there was a legal union but the neptune aspect makes me think it wasn't a union in which or could have envisioned it.