posted January 04, 2013 02:07 AM            

Well mine is Libra 4th house and it's very conflicted lol.

It's pretty much exactly square my Saturn which I've read indicates a lack of early nurturing even in wealthy families with an abundance of resources, and therefore an adult who feels caring in that way is out of reach or that it's "impractical" to give or receive nurturing. That's definitely true for me.

But it also squares my NN and Chiron, as well as my Sun widely... Not sure what all of that indicates? As if Sun conjunct Saturn in 7th didn't already spell out issues in relationships, does this mean I am just forever screwed?? (rhetorical question, am just feeling sorry for myself right now sorry lol)

Anyway does anyone else have a conflicted Ceres and how do you overcome that in relationships?

posted January 07, 2013 07:55 AM            

I have difficulty being affectionate toward others, but Ceres does not necessarily have to be affectionate in order to nourish. I find a lot of fulfillment in sharing experiences and skills (Ceres in Sag 8th House). I get that feeling of fulfillment when the rules of a relationship involve learning and spiritual transformation.

Part of Ceres's energy has to do with feeling like we "belong", and utilizing the skills she offers us can generate that feeling for us. When we feel like we belong, the feeling of safety arises and that can cause Saturn to lighten up.

Libra Ceres in the 4th has lots of great skills to pick from. Art that touches people deeply, the ability to relate with other people's memories and emotional foundations, the ability to generate a nonthreatening approach to people and gain access to their personal space, the ability to create personal spaces where people can come and relate, interior design, a general ability to respect other people's humanity and validate their past experiences, etc... With an Aquarian Venus 8th House, your uniqueness (a facet of your personality which Saturn may perceive as oddness or weirdness) may leave a lasting impression on people. Ceres can make that impression a very positive one.

Having respect for others is a beautiful gift which is as equally prized as affection. Ceres is sextile your Mercury, so all it should take is listening to your gut about when to open your ears or your mouth.