posted January 24, 2013 12:41 AM
Your lover has also to be your friend first and foremost. You seek people who have the same ideals and visions about things you find aesthetically pleasant. What attracts you to your partner in the beginning: looks. Then, if you really become smitten, the first thing you try to find about her/him whether you're compatible in the Uranian and 11th house matters. You might inquiry his way of envisaging the evolution of things which pertain to your 11th house cusp and how much she/he dreams about revolutionizing them in the nicest way possible. He or she will have either (a) planet(s) in the sign governed by your 11th house cusp or at least one significant Venus aspect in the Natal.
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