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posted January 22, 2013 07:05 PM            

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In the 1st house. What could this mean?

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posted January 22, 2013 07:29 PM            

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Is it in your natal?

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posted January 22, 2013 08:02 PM            

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Welcome Cottonball

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posted March 08, 2014 09:37 AM            

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I was looking this up and came across this thread. Hope no one minds me bumping it. I have Dejanira conjunct Venus natally and I was curious as to what it means. I hope it doesn't mean anything too bad. Dejanira isn't a nice one :/

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posted March 08, 2014 09:42 AM            

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How close, FL? if it is 2 degrees or less, you may associate love with being victimized. Does that fit?

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posted March 08, 2014 10:13 AM            

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Oh, its actually 3 degrees and separating.
I'm always afraid of unrequited love though, so I don't like falling in love- not really. I never make the first move (even though the conjunction is in Aries). I say this, but it's not a big deal. I fall in and out of it quickly. Victimisation isn't the word I'd describe it, but there is always that fear of rejection- for anyone I guess. But yeah, thanks for the reply btw!

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posted March 08, 2014 10:19 AM            

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3 degrees would be ambient and maybe not even a factor imo.
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posted March 08, 2014 11:42 AM            

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I have Dejanira conjunct moon, expressing emotions leaves me feeling very vulnerable and exposed, I would think falling in love would do the same for you!
You probably think and rethink if your willing to do it, even as it's happening.
Do you find yourself going from hot to cold n back again because you fear rejection, humiliation and pain might be the outcome of falling in love?

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posted March 08, 2014 11:49 AM            

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Hi Gabby
Oh yeah, I do do that, but like ami said, its more ambient. As ive got older im more wary of those feelings. I need to know what someone feels first before I do anything.
Hows the moon for you?
Also, is feeling ugly a trait of this? Or not liking your love style?

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posted March 08, 2014 01:12 PM            

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Mine is 3 degrees away also, so even though I do feel it, it doesn't completely stifle me from showing emotions and I can get over the insecurity after I get comfortable with someone and grow to trust them!

N yes, I do think it makes you dislike your style of loving or for me my emotional style....it's like you don't trust it to be the best and that's why your insecure about sharing it or opening up to another in that area....your vulnerable to rejection by others because your rejecting and judging it yourself as a bad thing!
You don't realize others might not see it like that, you think everyone will see it like you do...unworthy!
Really the answer to Dejanira is to stop judging yourself and start loving and accepting your love style AND appreciate it!!!!
Don't hide it, make it your pride and joy, even if you don't feel it at first, force it!!
Pretend your Gods gift to love until you feel like your Gods gift to love!!
If someone tries to say something different....tell them "I'm happy you have enough brain cells to make coherent thoughts, but that particular thought is DUMB, because I'm AWESOME!!"
Scream your love out loud, and don't be afraid of others opinions!! Someone will absolutely adore your love style, they are looking for it! So don't hide it out of fear, they won't be able to find it!
Love it, live it and let everyone see it. Doing this has helped me to see and respect my emotions are just as valid, important and normal as anyone else's are! I've learned to let them fly and not be afraid or worry what everyone will think! It's still a struggle, I still feel emotional exposure will end with me in pain...but I have to push through it, it's a fear that serves no purpose at all!
We don't need to be insecure, what your judging as bad...really isn't...it's probably kind of great!! You just got to let yourself see and feel that!!
In the end, nobody matters but you anyway so love yourself and all your lil quirks....it's you that's beautiful and who cares what anyone else thinks!

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posted March 08, 2014 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I have Dejanira conjunct moon, expressing emotions leaves me feeling very vulnerable and exposed, I would think falling in love would do the same for you!
You probably think and rethink if your willing to do it, even as it's happening.
Do you find yourself going from hot to cold n back again because you fear rejection, humiliation and pain might be the outcome of falling in love?

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Great way to look at it, Gabby!

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posted March 08, 2014 01:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Great way to look at it, Gabby!

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Thank you Ami!!
Is your Dejanira conjunct anything?

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posted March 08, 2014 02:31 PM            

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Ahaha aww thank you Gabby- that was really sweet! And you're right, I know It's just a Dejanira thing isn't it :P

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posted March 08, 2014 03:06 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
Ahaha aww thank you Gabby- that was really sweet! And you're right, I know It's just a Dejanira thing isn't it :P

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Yep, it is just a Dejanira thing!! But not forever...just a lil work and it will be your place of triumph over fear of vulnerability! Yeah!!

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