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Topic: Venus Chiron - clash: What does chiron feel?
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Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 05, 2013 06:07 AM
I realized that I have venus opposition chiro with all the men I´ve been in love with. I´was Venus. I have venus oppsiotion chiron in natal too. Anyone who was the chiron person in this aspect? How does the Chiron person feel about Venus? Do they love Venus as much? What makes Chiron hurt Venus, and be hurt by her? Why is this the impossible dream? Give me your personal stories. Thanks
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Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5625 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 05, 2013 10:05 AM
My parents have this.My Dad`s Chiron on 18 Sagittarius squares my Mum`s Venus on 18 Virgo. HOwever this is embedded in a piece of larger planetary geometry: his Chiron: 18 Sagittarius his Pluto: 17 Leo his Saturn: 18 Virgo his Neptune: 17 Libra his Mercury: 18 Capricorn her Venus: 18 Virgo her Neptune: 19 Libra her Pluto: 21 Leo However, concentrating on the Venus-Chiron alone (though I am not sure this s even possible if it is part of larger geometry).
First of all the good news: They have met in 1971, married in 1974, and have been inseparable ever since. Still to the very day, over 40 years later, you can still sense how attracted they are to each other, and how much they love each other. They are even still holding hands, when going for a walk together. lol However, they also have their disagreements, and there can be a lot of nagging going on, into both directions, though for some reason it is nver really "serious", or at least not damaging in any kind of way. What I noticed though is that sometimes there is a misfit in "timing". Especially my Dad has the knack to trying to steal a hug or kiss or tease her, just when she has REALLY a lot going on and needs to finish her work. On the other hand I think my Dad`s playfulness is a good counterbalance to her somber moods. Sometimes it is also the other way round, but much more rarely. I don´t know if that is true for all people or even just for that aspect, but I`d say my Dad is the more openly affectionate and vulnerable, while she is more receptive and reciprocrative. And both can feel easily hurt by a perceived lack of appreciation of the other, even though bystanders don`t even get why the mood suddenly changed and it often is due to miscommunication or misunderstandings. They sometimes read too much into each other`s actions or words or just the tone of voice or sometimes the absence of words. lol IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3194 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 11:21 AM
I was Chiron and he was Venus Venus sq Chiron Mars sextile Chiron Chiron conjunct Chiron Proserpina sq VenusHis Venus in Libra 17'19 Mars in Virgo 18'9 Chiron in Cancer 14'29 Pluto in Scorpio 12'49 My Proserpina in Cancer 17'18 Chiron in Cancer 19'21 Pluto in Scorpio 14'59 Overall I felt the most hurt when things ended, beforehand we were both really playful but when we spoke to each other there was a lot of mis-understandings especially when other people entered the situation or decided to share their input.
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Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 05, 2013 03:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: My parents have this.My Dad`s Chiron on 18 Sagittarius squares my Mum`s Venus on 18 Virgo. HOwever this is embedded in a piece of larger planetary geometry: his Chiron: 18 Sagittarius his Pluto: 17 Leo his Saturn: 18 Virgo his Neptune: 17 Libra his Mercury: 18 Capricorn her Venus: 18 Virgo her Neptune: 19 Libra her Pluto: 21 Leo However, concentrating on the Venus-Chiron alone (though I am not sure this s even possible if it is part of larger geometry).
First of all the good news: They have met in 1971, married in 1974, and have been inseparable ever since. Still to the very day, over 40 years later, you can still sense how attracted they are to each other, and how much they love each other. They are even still holding hands, when going for a walk together. lol However, they also have their disagreements, and there can be a lot of nagging going on, into both directions, though for some reason it is nver really "serious", or at least not damaging in any kind of way. What I noticed though is that sometimes there is a misfit in "timing". Especially my Dad has the knack to trying to steal a hug or kiss or tease her, just when she has REALLY a lot going on and needs to finish her work. On the other hand I think my Dad`s playfulness is a good counterbalance to her somber moods. Sometimes it is also the other way round, but much more rarely. I don´t know if that is true for all people or even just for that aspect, but I`d say my Dad is the more openly affectionate and vulnerable, while she is more receptive and reciprocrative. And both can feel easily hurt by a perceived lack of appreciation of the other, even though bystanders don`t even get why the mood suddenly changed and it often is due to miscommunication or misunderstandings. They sometimes read too much into each other`s actions or words or just the tone of voice or sometimes the absence of words. lol
Sweet story!
Funny how magi astrology says it´s the impossible dream. Does any of your parents have a venus chiron clash in their natal? Thanks for sharing. IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 05, 2013 03:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: I was Chiron and he was Venus Venus sq Chiron Mars sextile Chiron Chiron conjunct Chiron Proserpina sq VenusHis Venus in Libra 17'19 Mars in Virgo 18'9 Chiron in Cancer 14'29 Pluto in Scorpio 12'49 My Proserpina in Cancer 17'18 Chiron in Cancer 19'21 Pluto in Scorpio 14'59 Overall I felt the most hurt when things ended, beforehand we were both really playful but when we spoke to each other there was a lot of mis-understandings especially when other people entered the situation or decided to share their input.
Sorry to hear that. Misunderstandings seem common with this aspect. Do you still feel that there was something magical about that relationship/bond, even after you broke up? It is after all meant to indicate life-long attraction.. I as venus feel like I will always love those chiron men, but it really is over and I wouldn´t go back. Maybe to ONE of them, that is my ex-husband, but I feel like it would still never work. I will always love him, and all the others though. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 5625 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 05, 2013 03:34 PM
No, neither has it natally.Their wedding chart has Venus conjunct Chiron. IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3194 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 05, 2013 03:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Little Doe: Sorry to hear that. Misunderstandings seem common with this aspect. Do you still feel that there was something magical about that relationship/bond, even after you broke up? It is after all meant to indicate life-long attraction.. I as venus feel like I will always love those chiron men, but it really is over and I wouldn´t go back. Maybe to ONE of them, that is my ex-husband, but I feel like it would still never work. I will always love him, and all the others though.
No it was a fleeting experience I wouldn't go back because it just wasn't meant to be. IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 05, 2013 03:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: No, neither has it natally.Their wedding chart has Venus conjunct Chiron.
Ha! according to magi, that will make the marriage work despite the venus chiron clash. Seems weird, but maybe there´s some truth to this..
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Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 05, 2013 03:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: No it was a fleeting experience I wouldn't go back because it just wasn't meant to be.
Gottcha. thanks. IP: Logged | |