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From: Houston Texas
Registered: Nov 2011

posted July 15, 2013 10:46 PM            

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Ok so in a synastry with my bf i have my nessus tightly conjunct his ascendant and sun? and he has his nessus conjunct tightly my mars. How Can i interpret these? anyone have info on these aspects i seem to have no luck finding anything on these.
Today I even asked him if he felt i was abusive towards him and this was his response "o_O are you reading that astrology *beep* again?"

*facepalm* I have been trying to get him into astrology but no luck :P

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From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013

posted July 15, 2013 11:48 PM            

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Lol!!! Funny response from your bf.

If I were making assumptions (though I haven't read anything on nessus myself). I would think you might be controlling of his appearance and ego. And he might be controlling of your energy or sex drive. *shrug* I don't put much thought on nessus. I mean everyone's going to have nessus in there chart making aspects, but not everyone's abusive. I think nessus might be a stronger indicator of an abusive personality in their natal charts, not so much syanstry.

I have nessus rx conj my MC. I've had no luck at work and have no career right now. But oddly this goes against my earth planet and house trine. I also have my nessus conj my bf Venus/mars conj...and haven't seen any affect of this. His Saturn conj my moon however, makes me uneasy at times.

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posted July 16, 2013 12:45 AM            

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I see it possibly meaning in a past life you had together, he saw you as abusive.
Yes this has potential to play out again because we are brought back to relationships with people to reopen that pain to be able to correct the karma made by it!
You might feel aggressive, and be seen as abusive at times, esp regarding things that affect his ego...perhaps you have been the cause of some great ego blows to him in past incarnations....i would be careful and try to stay very aware of how your treating him. Don't react out of emotions, think before you act and try to make sure to inspire instead of hurt his ego!
His tightly conjunct your mars could be where he was abusive, possibly sexually abusive or hurt your sexuality, demeaning or made you feel you weren't desirable through cruel behaviors directed at you. You'd have to look deeper for more information on how it played it.
This relationship has a lot of healing potential. Theres work to be done! The places you've hurt each other together are going to brought out in this relationship giving you both a chance to heal, forgive and release any negative energy between you...it wont be easy but stay soft and let love heal and it will work out!
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