posted August 25, 2013 04:59 PM
I could use some help interpreting these aspects in synastry. I realize one can't really do it without looking at everything, but what are the possibilities? My Nessus retrograde in the 5th house Taurus conjuncts exactly his Amor (this may be the tightest aspect in the chart at about 5 minutes). Except for Nessus, I've got nothing in the 5th. We have a Vesta/Vesta conjunction (1 degree) in Taurus, but it falls in my 6th house. His Sun also touches my 5th house and trines tightly my Mercury and Venus in the 9th.
His Nessus touches my 5th house, trining at less than 1 degree my Uranus in Cancer in the 7th (my only planet in the 7th). My Uranus is tightly conjunct his Anteros.
My Dejanira is in the 8th widely conjunct his Saturn in Leo (2 degrees). His Dejanira is in Virgo touching my 9th house conjunct my Mercury (1 degree, and Venus at 3 degrees, if you want to go out that far) and squaring my Chiron (0).
And just for fun, his Karma in Libra tightly conjuncts my Sun in the 10th, while my Karma in Virgo in the 9th conjuncts his Psyche at less than 2 degrees, as does my Amor and Anteros more widely (both less than 2.50).
The standard measures of compatability don't look too bad, with several double whammies, but we do have lots of Chiron contacts, as well as Saturn (mostly positive and/or minor, plus we're both old as the hills) and Uranus (this is an interracial relationship).
Thoughts? Should one of us run, and if so, in which direction?
On a more general note, how does the house and sign placement of these asteroids modify the interpretation, and how do the more positive love asteroids modify Nessus and Dejanira when they are in aspect?