posted September 02, 2013 08:44 PM            

I have a question for IQ on this. Why don't you add this post to it, FM?

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posted September 02, 2013 10:50 PM              

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Hmm
I am struggling with which asteroids are generational and so don't count that much and which are not and do.

I have a question for IQ on this. Why don't you add this post to it, FM?

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Good point, we were born 6 months apart and Juno and Lilith are slow moving, but from what I've looked up somehow I don't have these aspects in the composite with other people even closer in age (at least not as close and involving all 3)

Can I ask your opinion about composite asteroids conjunct natal planets/points? That's what really stood out to me...

His sun/moon midpoint: 5 Sag

Composite Juno: 5 Sag
Composite Valentine: 5 Sag
Composite Lilith: 8 Sag

My moon: 7 Sag
My vertex: 3 Sag

posted February 24, 2023 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Valentine conjuncts Juno exact, and Lilith by 3 degrees. Not to mention this also lands on his natal sun/moon midpoint and my natal moon and vertex... Never saw what in our composite made this feel so impossible to let go of, but things makes a little more sense considering the asteroids lol

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Can't speak for the composite but I have this aspect natally so I can lend some insight- haha, almost 10 years later! I am curious for myself as well, so lets see what's in here.

I can readily say I have a very idealized view of what Romantic Love is. I think the added element of Juno and Valentine make for a bed of almost Neptunian connection requirement. VERY unconditional! Probably to a level that, when younger, was problematic. I learned quickly that the ideals of love are not always mutually experienced- however in a composite, I think that would be just what it says!

Now adding Lilith into the mix ... This gives a fierce autonomous streak. I actually think Lilith and Juno make a beautiful companionship. Theres freedom, there's loyalty, theres compassion/compersion (Valentine)!

What I would look for in a composite mix however, would be that Lilith's desire for that autonomy is still respected within the relation. Whether it's you or them, there will be a (possible) natural quality of letting your partner just be who they are. Although, if it is something that feels a little triggering or unsettling, then I would suggest working on processing the emotion of Jealousy more. The urge to control the Lilith energy only comes from a place resisting something very uncomfortable. 9 times out of 10 it's jealousy/possessiveness stemming from something/where/when insecure in the self.

It's a theme that has been deeply there in my life, especially through my partners as I get older. I've worked on it a lot, so the combination of these 3 asteroid-y spots brings that all up to the surface in others.