posted January 14, 2014 01:49 AM            

My speculation would be that the man is intensely sexually drawn to the woman's ability to be a very dominant, empowered figure.

PRIAPUS, in any case, tends to denote one's overwhelming desire for physical merging - namely, sexual union.

posted January 15, 2014 03:01 PM            

In our case

His Priapus: 0.47 Pisces
his SN: 1.23 Pisces
his Parvati: 0.02 Pisces

my natural Lilith: 27.58 Aquarius
my true Lilith: 28.37 Aquarius
my Parvati: 28.40 Leo

his true Lilith: 28.14 Leo

My own natural Priapus is on: 0.08 Leo (conj. composite DESC).

(the true Lilith-opposition of course relates to a true Lilith-true Priapus-conjunction, as in th case of the true ones they ARE exactly opposite by definition.
However, this is NOT the case with natural Priapus and Lilith, who are not usually opposite)

I don´t know how HE experiences it, for me however, there is a strong electrical current and at the same time an unbelievable strong pull, with me trying to stem my heels into the earth and resist the pull.
Sometimes the magnetism is mixed with repulsion, not that I feel repelled by him, but more so repelling the fact that the attraction exists and is too strong to stay in a detached distance, emotionally speaking.

The first thing I ever noticed aobut him was: "Oh my God he is so real!"along with the sense of physicality he oozes.

When we first talked, I had the impresion we were reacting on different levels. I was trying to maintain my intellectual analytical distance (talking about astrology for instance, and giving feedback about his show); he seemed to react on a level I had never really noticed before, felt "instinctual" for a lack of better word (within minutes of meeting he was practically sniffing my hair or the air around me, cause he would not believe me when I told him I was not wearing a certain fragrance he thought to have detected).

I went in total panic mode after that, it resulted in a huge Kundalini Rising (Kaali, Parvati and Siva were all playing a huge role, along with the Moon-Pluto conjunction on first meeting, and the Chiron-Neptune-NN-conjunction in the first meeting chart - Saturn also huge role,b ut that is for another day), it sounded a realy loud wake up call for me, though at first I was like paralysed. There was someone who did not only seemed to see me (despite me trying to stay at armlength and distant and invisible), but who seemed to see me as a physical being (I had identified with the intellectual independence and detachment of my Liliths, Psyche, Pallas AND Moon in Aquarius - and through meeting him I suddenly realized, that this is not all I am.)

BTW in the first meeting chart there was a very close triple conjunction of Sun, Priapus and Sappho. And on that day Priapus WAS actually opposite Lilith, near our composite Lilith, his natal Priapus/Lilith-mp and my Mars. lol

posted January 16, 2014 03:58 AM            

It's interesting that your PRIAPUS is just barely in the sign which his is leaving; that's got to have significance. It's like you're arriving, and he's been there and got the tee-shirt. But man, his PRIAPUS, being just into the next sign - conjunct, out-of-sign with yours being in the immediately preceding ... yeah. That's something.

Plus, you're looking at AQU / PIS, and LEO cusping CAN, and cusping VIR. Wow. What do you make of it?

And if I'm reading that right ... your TR.LILITH are exactly opposite each other? So are mine and my Hatter's BML.

Maybe that happens when one has their PRIAPUS conjunct?

posted January 16, 2014 11:05 AM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
How wide is wide?

For these, unless they're in an intense configuration, I cap it at 3° - or even 2.5°.

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Oops. Almost 6 degrees

posted January 17, 2014 01:39 AM            

"His PRIAPUS is hitting a LILITH point? Damn, girl. No wonder!"
LOL
I guess so.

"The PARVATI theme is quite cool there, too."
it seems that the Priapus/Lilith-theme is interlaced with the Parvati/Siva/Kaali one pretty much.

I will have to do a thorough check and get back.

"Or are you using KAALI?"
I am using both Parvati and Kaali in relation to Siva.

Parvati was his devoted wife, with whom he had the sacred marriage.
A nice retelling of the tale can be found here
http://www.yogajournal.com/wisdom/2617

Kaali is the fierce face of Parvati and has this insane energy.

EDIT:
BTW Mahakala is the fierce face of Siva and known as Kaali´s consort, so it really makes sense to check Siva/Mahakala to Parvati/Siva.

"It's interesting that your PRIAPUS is just barely in the sign which his is leaving; "
I did not really pay attention, but you are right, and actually his Parvati is just in Pisces as well on 00°08.
However his Priapus is actually retrograde moving back to Aquarius and my Lilith. interesting.
His Priapus and Parvati on his SN - he has done it all before?
But with Priapus retro, maybe he didn`t get it exactly right the first time around and has to repeat.

Interestingly Kaali is sitting on MY SN (albeit with a wider orb 2-3), and she is retrograde, too. (but on 12 Gemini so nowwhere near a signborder).

"Plus, you're looking at AQU / PIS, and LEO cusping CAN, and cusping VIR. Wow. What do you make of it?"
A lot of new beginnings maybe.

posted January 17, 2014 01:42 PM            

Of course in the case of True Lilith, her true Priapus is on the exact opposing point, so my true Priapus is on 28 Leo and his true Priaups is on 28 Aquarius, which means that if ther eis an opposition of true Lilith in synastry, it always comes with a mutual conjunction of Lilith and Priapus. But that is only the case for the TRUE Lilith/Priapus.

"I can't help but feel it's his 'turn' to 'surrender' in order to balance things."
Are you talking about Mr Sag and me, or yourself?

" This time around, it's looking like mine ... :grumble: Not easy for a MOON-URA! Oh - and a BML-SUN-PLUTO. Yeeeesh. "
Talk about strong inner tensions and dynamics there with Uranus and Pluto configured so strongly with the solar-lunar symbols.

posted January 18, 2014 12:53 PM            

I have Lilith rising, Priapus in the 6th.
SM has Lilith conjunct jupiter in the 7th. Priapus in 2nd
Conjunct neptune.

His Lilith/jupiter conjuncts my sun and his Priapus conjuncts my neptune and opposes my venus exact.

My Priapus is parallel his moon.

His Priapus is parallel my Priapus.

posted January 18, 2014 01:31 PM            

I thought it looked interesting.

posted January 18, 2014 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:

His Lilith/jupiter conjuncts my sun and his Priapus conjuncts my neptune and opposes my venus exact.

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You embody a Lilith-character to him, a fiercely independent woman, who can hold her own and deserves to be treated as an equal.
With His Jupiter there as well, I suppose it is quite positive, and he would want to encourage you, though at the same time, he might also feel like he can never really "posess" you (which is often what drives us crazy about Lilith-synastry) and of course LIlith is in a relationship ONLY to her terms, and never to just satisfy some social or security needs.

His Priapus on your Venus-Neptune-opposition. Priapus and Neptune both have a great desire to merge. So it might be that a certain elusiveness on your part or what he views as elusive, like you are just coming as near as to almost being touched, almost getting hold of, triggers a desire in him to be closer to you.

However, with Neptune there, it seems that you can provide a spiritual closeness; but Priapus is very much about physical, bodily closeness and intimacy. Put Venus into it, and the attraction might be very palpable.
But laced with a feeling that he can`t quite "get" or "have" you. Not that he will stop trying.

posted January 18, 2014 04:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
You embody a Lilith-character to him, a fiercely independent woman, who can hold her own and deserves to be treated as an equal.
With His Jupiter there as well, I suppose it is quite positive, and he would want to encourage you, though at the same time, he might also feel like he can never really "posess" you (which is often what drives us crazy about Lilith-synastry) and of course LIlith is in a relationship ONLY to her terms, and never to just satisfy some social or security needs.

His Priapus on your Venus-Neptune-opposition. Priapus and Neptune both have a great desire to merge. So it might be that a certain elusiveness on your part or what he views as elusive, like you are just coming as near as to almost being touched, almost getting hold of, triggers a desire in him to be closer to you.

However, with Neptune there, it seems that you can provide a spiritual closeness; but Priapus is very much about physical, bodily closeness and intimacy. Put Venus into it, and the attraction might be very palpable.
But laced with a feeling that he can`t quite "get" or "have" you. Not that he will stop trying.

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