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Topic: BML and Lilith 1181 in synastry
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misslani Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 17, 2014 07:36 AM
I'd recently met an guy whom I've developed an almost instant crush on. We have a lot in common. Though we don't get to spend much time together because we both travel a lot, we chat a lot.Anyway, I'm an Libra Rising with Lilith 1181, Venus, Vesta and Pluto, all in Scorpio, in 1st house. He's a Cancer Rising, Leo Sun and Moon in a first house, Venus in Virgo and BML in Libra and Lilith 1181 in Scorpio. Now, his BML is conj. my Asc. and my Lilith 1181. I'm starting to develop a serious crush on this guy, so I was wondering if these aspects would help me "scoring" him (LOL)or hurt me (you know, Lilith being the woman men fear the most, who could drive him of the edge)? Please, answer. IP: Logged |
misslani Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 18, 2014 06:19 AM
BUMP! Here's his chart.
This is mine. Him being the outer wheel: Me as the outer wheel:
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misslani Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 18, 2014 06:22 AM
Btw, for some reason, it doesn't say so in the grid of my chart, but my Lilith is conjunct my Asc (and it shows in all the other astrology programs).IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Knowflake Posts: 1470 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 18, 2014 10:11 AM
I think the issue is that your other astro programmes' orbs were too wide; for asteroids, at least. If his BML is 19° LIB, anything lower than 17° or higher than 21° will be too wide. So, your ASC being 27° LIB won't hit it - nor will your 2° SCO LILITH. Just too wide. You'd need it to be 29°, or 25°. Honestly, I've seen the best interplay between PRIAPUS (h22) and BML. Having BML and LILITH is like a double-dose of femme fatale. I can only assume it'd denote similarity in Lilithian concepts: egalitarianism, personal power, independence, and, in some ways, matriarchy. Where is his PRIAPUS? You'll get further there. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Knowflake Posts: 1470 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 18, 2014 10:18 AM
Romantically-speaking, he does appear to be attracted to a Lilith type of woman, even if long-term partners are more Neptunian in nature. A pragmatic spiritualist, so to speak. Someone who has practical dreams which create a solid foundation - who has clear boundaries. But, yes, in 5H terms, he likes the drama-factories and über controlling types. The divas. Since it's in SCO, the more crazy-making, sexual, and capricious the better. These women won't become long-term partners, though. They're not that material. IP: Logged |
lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 583 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 18, 2014 05:44 PM
On topic: i don't see the BML conjunction, far too wide Off topic: how about BML in composite? What would it mean if it would fall in the 8th house?
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misslani Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 07:17 AM
Here's the chart with Priapus (he's the outer wheel) And this is the composite. Thank you, guys, for helping out. I'm truly grateful. IP: Logged |
misslani Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 07:35 AM
Btw, when I put our info on astrotheme, his BML is at 27°40'Libra, so that's what got me so confused.IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 369 From: 12th House with pr.moon Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 19, 2014 09:41 AM
He has his BML Lilith/Eros/cupido. Square your MOON! I think his primal /sensual/erotic touch your emotional...strongly. That's why you 're lured by him and it is supposed to be vice versa too because the lilith's person is activated his/her own instinct by your moon and His Lilith is not conjunct you Ac , I think it's too wide. Asteroid conjunct anything should not be more than 3 degree. IP: Logged |
misslani Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 19, 2014 12:06 PM
Actually, I figured out why's there such a difference between an astrotheme chart and astro.com chart... Astro.com lists Belgrade as CET+2, but it's CET+1.Sorry for being such pain in the butt, lol. Here's his CORRECT chart: And THIS is our real synastry chart: IP: Logged |