posted March 28, 2014 02:16 AM            

Both my Juno and Mars are in Aries, in the 9th house. Juno aspects Neptune and the NN

I think it paints a pretty accurate portrait of my ideal 'type'; I need someone to protect me (Aries), yet have a distinct pacifistic and spiritual side (Neptune) and share my academic+religious interests (9th house).

posted March 28, 2014 05:29 PM            

I have a Stellium in Aquarius. Venus is Conjunct my Stellium. Juno is Square my Stellium. I don't want to sound like I completely ignored LP's answer. I didn't. I understand what she said completely. But even with the loyalty and stability, I need movement and independence. The relationship can't be stagnant.

How can there be stability in a relationship that's constantly changing and moving?

Loyalty is huge. I will concede that. I consider myself very unique and probably very difficult to live with because of that, lol. My lifestyle is different. So I definitely need someone who likes or at least accepts that. And I absolutely hate dishonesty and disloyalty, both in and out of a relationship.

posted March 28, 2014 09:17 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by KingofCups:
I have a Stellium in Aquarius. Venus is Conjunct my Stellium. Juno is Square my Stellium.

---

Wow that does sound polarizing. If Juno is the wife and Venus is the lover, then your expectations for a wife are in conflict with your expectations for a lover. It's tough, but maybe you have some kind of a psychological barrier that keeps you from blending the two energies?

You might also want to examine your attitude toward women; are there any paradoxes or prejudice? Does your ideal fit the real world, and if not, can some points be removed so that the archetype can work?

My personal method for self exploration is through writing stories; see if your 'character' can function like a realistic human being, and whether they will end up in joy or ruin. If their life unfolds in a tragic manner- change them, or re-invent them.

posted March 29, 2014 01:17 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by whaaat:
Wow that does sound polarizing. If Juno is the wife and Venus is the lover, then your expectations for a wife are in conflict with your expectations for a lover. It's tough, but maybe you have some kind of a psychological barrier that keeps you from blending the two energies?

You might also want to examine your attitude toward women; are there any paradoxes or prejudice? Does your ideal fit the real world, and if not, can some points be removed so that the archetype can work?

My personal method for self exploration is through writing stories; see if your 'character' can function like a realistic human being, and whether they will end up in joy or ruin. If their life unfolds in a tragic manner- change them, or re-invent them.

I wish you the best of luck in finding what you are looking for!

---

I'm not sure. Maybe.

There are TONS of paradoxes, lol. This entire topic for me is a paradox. I even think my expectations and ideals are unrealistic.

My ideal person would definitely end up in joy. How couldn't they? They'd be a perfect mix of everything. Which is impossible… but great. I'm not saying that I'm looking for someone who's a perfect mix of everything. I might have high ideals, but I'm not that idealistic either. And plus, perfection is subjective. But if the story was unravelling in my head, the main character would always end up triumphant. I'm not one for tragedies. That's kind of how my mind functions (and also why I hardly ever enjoy Shakespeare, lol).

Thanks

quote:

---

Originally posted by Kerosene:
Our Juno are conjunct!

but Taurus women are just so attractive....
Plus they love me because I'm amazing at cuddling and they aren't so bad themselves.

---

Whoo!

Yes. They are. They're generally gorgeous.
If that's all that mattered to them, then I'd be set as well, lol. But it isn't to them, nor is it to me.

The problem isn't about physical attractiveness. It's about a way of thinking. I have bad experiences with the two Taurus women in my life, so I speak from bias. I accept that my views of them are totally bias, but I've never found a counter example. The funny thing here is that I get along really well with Taurus men, but I don't know how important that is.

I have a way of thinking that tends to clash with Taurus energy. For example, I hate money. I absolutely hate money and the concept of money. I think it is completely worthless and would be in an ideal society. No, I'm not a socialist. I believe in rewards for effort and all of that. But money has been the cause of so much evil. And it's terrible.

Another thing is that they're really rooted and stuck in conservative beliefs. I am progressive. I believe greatly in change. I believe that things need to change and can be changed for the better. The Taurus women I've known have all wanted to stick to tradition, whereas I always move away from it.