posted August 06, 2014 10:51 PM
I just saw that someone revived Ami's old post about her mother's Sado conjunct moon aspect, and it made me plug in asteroid Sado into my chart and then into my synastry with a number of people in my life.Imagine my jaw-dropping shock when I found that my ex-husband's Sado is exactly conjunct my Chiron (which is in Aries in my first house) and that my Sado is closely conjunct his Jupiter.
It's like we were scripted to be sadistic to one another.
Adhering to Ami's theory that our Chiron is in the house where we ultimately feel the most pain: I have had body image issues forever, and I do really have these short stumpy legs which tend to gain weight and hold onto it. So I have hidden my legs, always. No skirts for me. Chiron being in my first house kind of fits: my image, my appearance, has been a source of great pain for me.
And there comes my husband, who I fell in love with in 1998, and who I married in 2002. A charming stranger who I became absolutely besotted with... until ultimately he proved to be utterly horrid to me as a husband. And what do you know? That man, almost from the beginning, never missed a chance to openly ogle every hot looking woman with long, thin legs that we happened to pass on the street, or see on TV. He would comment about their legs, shake his head in wonderment, whistle under his breath. It's like he did it to make me feel bad. My Chiron conjunct his Sado.
Every day I believe in astrology more and more.