posted February 09, 2015 10:13 AM            

His nessus conjuncts mercury which are both intercepted and this conjunction conjuncts my Sun very tightly and my sun is ruled by mercury which is retro natally.

Whether consciously or unconsciously he used communication or in this case the absence of it strategically to hurt my ego and this had deep effect.

The sun is such a sensitive point that I think is better to have jupiter conjunct Sun in synastry which uplifts your ego but nessus conjunct sun can make you sensitive to your ego been hurt over and over again via the relationship even if is not the other person's intention.

Its like with holding communication becomes about hurting the other; he is not been verbally abusive but it stings just as much..

Hope this helps...

Just check what Nessus is aspecting natally to see how nessus will play out is my advice.