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Topic: Valentine in the houses
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Seimei Knowflake Posts: 751 From: n2thedust Registered: Apr 2015
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posted July 28, 2015 11:16 PM
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 28, 2015 11:33 PM
S, I just think they are a lot of fun. I have gotten the sense over time that there is something to them and they enhance and give more details to the big picture. I will tell you there is definitely something about Psyche and Juno IMO and that made me open up to other asteroids and I am noticing that Valentine is very powerful too. Transit Saturn was conjuncting my valentine and his northnode when we started dating and we felt right away we loved each other and have been devoted to each other ever since, strong loyalty and unconditionally being there for each other from the start no matter what.I suppose if you want to test validity of asteroids check the transits, e.g. transit jupiter was conjunct my juno the day I got married (I didn't plan that, I didn't know how to read transits back then). IP: Logged |
3l3n Knowflake Posts: 333 From: Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 29, 2015 07:35 AM
My Valentine is in the 3rd house Virgo. Conjucts my NN, also Angel asteroid.Would love to know what this signifies  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 21513 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 29, 2015 08:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: You do love studying past lifes and dreaming. Maybe you had a great love in ancient Sumeria times. Do you love alone time and solitude? Do you feel you love humanity? Do you enjoy meditating a lot?
Yes, the ancient Sumerian times were very pivotal to me. might have started my journey there. (after Atlantis - at least that is what my dreams were about in my childhood. lol) and yes, I need my alone time, and meditating comes easy to me. sometimes it feels more difficult to get out of that mode, even while operating in daily life. though I have become better in that regard. do I love humanity? That is such an abstract thing, that I have to say that of course I love humanity as a whole, actually i love life. But I find it a little to collective and abstract as a term.
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Gabby Moderator Posts: 7293 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 29, 2015 09:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: hahaha I have Tesla in scorp @ 8d46 conjunct Plato in scorpio @8d56 conjunct my Hypothetical Cupido in scorpio @9d31 in the 11th and my singleton pluto rules my 11th and 12th and falls in my 10th.Einstein conjuncts my Mars under 2d in the 8th. Jung conjuncts my DC and Vesta and opposes my Neptune near my AC. Freud opposes exact my Psyche.
Wow, they are very active in your chart!! Do you feel connected to them to? I have- Neptune saggy@11--Ceres gemini@10 Pluto libra@11 Einstein libra@11 Discovery libra@11 Tesla aqua@11 Spirit aqua@12 Midas aqua@11 Merlin aqua@10 IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 6423 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 29, 2015 09:33 AM
Lines things up those squaresValentine in Scorpio IC/South Node in Leo MC/North Node in Aqua Trines Valentine in Scorpio Dulcinea in Scorpio Cupido in Pisces Sax in Pisces Pallas in Cancer Tantalus in Cancer IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 4180 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 29, 2015 01:26 PM
I have Valentine conjunct jupiter and my ASC in my 1st house Cancer.IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 29, 2015 02:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: I have Valentine conjunct jupiter and my ASC in my 1st house Cancer.
Do you have a lot of self love lol... Do you feel in love with yourself? Do people sometimes find you narcissistic? Lol All joking aside it must be nice, you must be very dedicated to yourself and filled with so much self love that hopefully it boils over and gives you a lot of love to spread around and makes it easy for love to flow out of you instead of it leading to a lot if self centeredness. I bet you have a very nourishing loving vibe is my guess. Do you attract admirers and suiters easily? What do you think?? IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 4931 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 29, 2015 03:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: I have Valentine conjunct jupiter and my ASC in my 1st house Cancer.
That makes me think of family ties as well. Are you proud of your family culture and religion? IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 4180 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 29, 2015 04:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Do you have a lot of self love lol... Do you feel in love with yourself? Do people sometimes find you narcissistic? LolAll joking aside it must be nice, you must be very dedicated to yourself and filled with so much self love that hopefully it boils over and gives you a lot of love to spread around and makes it easy for love to flow out of you instead of it leading to a lot if self centeredness. I bet you have a very nourishing loving vibe is my guess. Do you attract admirers and suiters easily? What do you think??
Actually I suffer from lack of self-love. I'm always putting others needs and wants before my own and am always sacrificing myself to make others happy. I actually have self esteem issues. I love nurturing because I crave to be nurtured myself which I never got. But yes, I do attract the opposite sex quite easily. IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 4180 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 29, 2015 04:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenegoddess: That makes me think of family ties as well. Are you proud of your family culture and religion?
I wouldn't say that, but I am close to my family and have an extremely close bond with my only son. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 29, 2015 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: Actually I suffer from lack of self-love. I'm always putting others needs and wants before my own and am always sacrificing myself to make others happy. I actually have self esteem issues. I love nurturing because I crave to be nurtured myself which I never got. But yes, I do attract the opposite sex quite easily.
What planets do you have in the first house and what aspects does it make? What aspects is Valentine making?? IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 4180 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 29, 2015 07:48 PM
The only planet I have in my first is jupiter conjunct the ASC. It is semi-sextile moon (1) square nodes (exact) sextile Chiron (1) conjunct ASC (3) trine MC (2) and parallel venus, ASC, Pallas, Eros, Cupido and contraparallel Ceres.Valentine is conjunct jupiter (1) trine MC (exact) square nodes (1) sextile Chiron (exact) quincunx juno (exact) and contraparallel Ceres. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 29, 2015 08:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: The only planet I have in my first is jupiter conjunct the ASC. It is semi-sextile moon (1) square nodes (exact) sextile Chiron (1) conjunct ASC (3) trine MC (2) and parallel venus, ASC, Pallas, Eros, Cupido and contraparallel Ceres.Valentine is conjunct jupiter (1) trine MC (exact) square nodes (1) sextile Chiron (exact) quincunx juno (exact) and contraparallel Ceres.
Come to think of it self steem is a second house domain. What is the ruler of your second house and what aspects does it make?
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tgem Moderator Posts: 4180 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted July 29, 2015 08:44 PM
2nd house is ruled by the moon as well. No planets in the 2nd and my moon is unaspected short of a very wide square to saturn and a semi sextile to jupiter (1). However, it is parallel my sun.IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 29, 2015 09:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by tgem: 2nd house is ruled by the moon as well. No planets in the 2nd and my moon is unaspected short of a very wide square to saturn and a semi sextile to jupiter (1). However, it is parallel my sun.
If your moon rules both the first and second house that sounds like you have an intercepted sign and house and would love to see your chart to figure that out, interceptions are interesting, I appear to have one too and my partner as well (same signs, different houses). I am thinking that the moon changes a lot so maybe your self esteem fluctuates a lot and if the self esteem tends to be low consistently then I would think the unaspected moon is why bc your first house seems blessed. Moon and its nature of changing ruling the house of self-worth and been unaspected could mean low self worth esteeming from childhood emotional neglect, maybe your mom was absent and not around or present but uninvolved, cold and distant which made you feel unloved leading to low self esteem and a desire to please and accommodate to others in order to get that approval and affection you crave so much. You say you are very close to your family specially your son and that fits with Valentine in cancer which would have a similar interpretation to valentine in the 4th, you are the type to sacrifice a lot for her family and are very devoted to her family and perhaps it falling in the first just indicates that you have this romantic alluring vibe about you and as you confirmed that you attract suitors easily which is pretty cool. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 29, 2015 11:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Wow, they are very active in your chart!! Do you feel connected to them to?I have- Neptune saggy@11--Ceres gemini@10 Pluto libra@11 Einstein libra@11 Discovery libra@11 Tesla aqua@11 Spirit aqua@12 Midas aqua@11 Merlin aqua@10
I love Jung and Freud a lot even though I don't agree with all of Freud's theories 100%, he was a bit stubborn and rigid in his thinking not opening himself up to other ideas or constructive criticism. He was a genius non the less and love his contribution to defense mechanisms expanded further by his daughter, his Thanatos versus Eros theory, his Id-Ego-Superego theory, and his contribution in reference to the unconscious and subconscious. I like his interest in the dream world a lot as well which I am fascinated by but did not like his hyper focus on sexuality although I am not a big fan of his psychosexual stages of development but I do have a little bit of oral fixation and is why I use to smoke and like to smoke (I feel that has to do with humans enjoying their senses and not a deprivation from childhood though). I fantasize about creating a joint that is not a drug but just pleasurable bc it tastes nice and smells nice, a joint purely to enhance your senses and for grounding but it doesn't' get you high or is bad for you like cigarettes, it would appeal to your senses; holding the joint, putting it in your mouth, it tastes and smells like ginger with mint, helps you with deep breathing and is fun to see the smoke coming out of your mouth while you exhale but the smoke smells like aromatherapy, that would be soo cool, I would buy that but I digress.. I also love Einstein and Tesla. Einstein seemed to be a big goofy genius adult child. Tesla got screwed and in turn we all did, how nice would it be to have nearly free energy. As for Plato I dont like how he debates or the words or style he uses to try to get his points across, I find it confusing and many people do, I like Socrates more. Plato however seems to be quite the hopeless romantic and a big believer of soulmates, I do feel a big connection with his romantic ideals which makes sense since plato conjuncts my hypothetical cupido and not my mercury. I do find interesting his fascination with that which changes, decays and is temporary versus that which is eternal. I probably agree with him a lot more than I realize, after all a table will decompose but the idea of a table is eternal. His beliefs seem to resonate with belief "you are the universe, expressing itself as a human for a little while" which I belief. Very cool how you have discovery conjunct Pluto and Einstein and Tesla maybe you were part of that generation that witness their discoveries..Now I need to check out discovery. Add: I just found that my husband has Jung conjunct valentine in the 7th house and he did marry a therapist into astrology so that is pretty spot on. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 30, 2015 01:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by 3l3n: My Valentine is in the 3rd house Virgo. Conjucts my NN, also Angel asteroid.Would love to know what this signifies 
You must be devoted to accumulating knowledge and learning a little bit about everything. Perhaps also you feel very devoted to your siblings and are the type to help out a neighbor in need. Maybe you use the internet and youtube a lot to teach yourself how to do things, you are probably self taught and like DIY projects. Or maybe you tend to find love online or you love reading romantic novels and like to collect love stories, maybe you love poetry and like to write about love stories. Do any apply? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 4612 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 30, 2015 01:52 AM
Oddly, the 4H placement isn't really that applicable to me. Yes, I'm a homebody, but that's due to having a need for solitude and preference for keeping my own company and that of a very select few. Perhaps it's the Sagittarian placement that denotes how I'm hardly domestic and quite poorly suited to housewifery. In fact, I've never had a desire for children, or even a traditional home and family. I rather fell into my circumstances, and found them logical and appealing. I love my family -- as well as my family of origin. Now, there's a lot of love in my family of origin. We are quite free spirited, idealistic, philosophical and deeply devoted to each other. I'm also an only child, so it's just us three. The aspects are intriguing. I remember always being a touch concerned about my boyfriend's VALENTINE conjunct his SWINDLE -- wide, at 3°. But still there. What on earth? What an awful spot! Swindling out of true love? Or being swindled? Either way, I thought it strange, and, undoubtedly unfortunate. I grew momentarily paranoid for the briefest bit: I thought of his training; his expertise in deception, and how I have always been so grateful for the strength of his moral integrity. I figured it must be the latter; perhaps he's been 'swindled' out of true love. Falling for the wrong types. Making the wrong choices in love. Maybe. I couldn't quite nail it down. Then I saw mine. Yep! My very own. SWINDLE conjunct VALENTINE, 2°. Even closer! Mine in 4H, Sagittarius, 5° from the IC. His in the middle of his 7H in Gemini, part of that stellium of his: LUST-VALENTINE-ANTEROS-RUDRA. It got me thinking; especially as they're loosely opposite one another, and meeting 'in the middle' as part of a beautiful composite conjunction: VALENTINE-JUNO-AETERNITAS and MERCURY. And sure enough, it's there. 2° conjunct JUNO, 1° MERC and VALENTINE. That's concerned me. I admit, it brings out a deep, dark paranoia. Or maybe just a fear. I worry that I'm wasting his time. That he was right to end it years ago when he did, and concentrate upon finding a woman he could marry and begin a family with, even if the ship for that really has likely sailed. He tells me I'm being foolish; he can't marry anyway -- he's dedicated his life to ensuring that his elderly mother never sees the inside of a nursing home, since his father's sudden and untimely passing (when he was in his latter twenties) during a major earthquake. He's forty-eight now, with his mother in her eighties. He did want to marry me, incredibly enough, even if he logistically couldn't. So while I'm genuinely grateful (and no longer a shell of a person) because he did come back to resume our relationship (a few years later), I have dark thoughts which tell me that I'm monopolising the time in which he should be finding a woman to marry. But then I also have to remind myself: he really isn't going to find anyone remotely similar to me. That's not hubris nor narcissism. It's just fact. We have such a deep simpatico that, while he may at times wish for more than we have, he knows full well himself why he never married -- and it's hardly to do with strictly caring for his mother. I'm surprised he's not the one with the 4H link, but then it's his CHIRON that's smack on his IC. And yes, those wounds run very, very deep. I suppose our composite VALENTINE stellium with SWINDLE's involvement denotes how our relationship was 'swindled' out of ever taking full advantage of JUNO (being legitimised through marriage) and thus, it's something with which we always contend. Our 'illegitimacy' in the eyes of society. Anyhow. I found all of that interesting. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 4612 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 30, 2015 02:07 AM
Or, maybe ... the ultimate sacrifice we make for true love is JUNO, which we've been 'SWINDLED' out of due to circumstances (MERCURY?) which is the 9R, 11R and 12R by interception. Higher values and metaphysics? Societal concerns, organisations and causes? Karma and dedicated service through mystical means? You got me. Though, it's funny what's widely conjunct the stellium, on the earlier side of the 11H: LANCELOT. It's even parallel JUNO-VALENTINE. Well, Guinevere could never marry Lancelot; she was already married to, and the consort of, King Arthur. So ... there's that. And a big T-Square with cTISIPHONE in the 8H, too; 'justice' of a kind, 'vengeance' would be had, in some form or another regarding intimacy, sexuality, and the powerful merging of resources and soul involvement. Fitting, with our cSUN-cVENUS on REGULUS, high, in the 10H. Definite sense of the regal and proud. Sophisticated and, well, rather 'royal'. And you can't argue with cDESTINN rising. Even with cURA there. There would need to be rule-bending and taboo-breaking and plenty of space and room to grow without conventional constraints for sure. But destiny is destiny. IP: Logged |
3l3n Knowflake Posts: 333 From: Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 30, 2015 04:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: You must be devoted to accumulating knowledge and learning a little bit about everything. Maybe you use the internet and youtube a lot to teach yourself how to do things, you are probably self taught and like DIY projects.
This does apply very much. Also my love for poetry.. it's something not many people know. Thanx for the response hypatia238  IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 30, 2015 11:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by 3l3n: This does apply very much. Also my love for poetry.. it's something not many people know. Thanx for the response hypatia238 
My pleasure, thanks for confirming. IP: Logged |
mereiposa Knowflake Posts: 68 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 03, 2015 08:30 PM
my valentine is 3Leo, on the cusp exact of 9th house, conjunct nemesis by 2 degrees, conjunct boda 2 degrees the other way, conjunct moira 3 degrees (too far?) square child by 30 seconds opposite juno by 30 degrees... so spirituality and higher learning, but beyond that I am not sure. opposite juno? IP: Logged |
Lerena Knowflake Posts: 57 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted August 03, 2015 09:10 PM
My Valentine is in 6th house. The sign is Aries. To be honest though, I have no idea what this means.IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 1381 From: Miami for now, New England Next! Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 22, 2015 01:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Seimei: tiptoes in quietly, erases life excerpt
This is yet another example of why I belief in asteroids as I confirm their worth via transits:I feel this is worth mentioning. The ruler of my second house is Saturn and conjuncts the ruler of my husband's second house Mercury. My saturn squares my Eros and his Mercury conjuncts Eros. On November 5 2013 Transit DEJANIRA in SCORPIO conjuncted both of our 2nd house rulers and all our money and possessions we worked hard for together for over a year was stolen and taken from us; we lost everything that day from our truck to our computers to our printer to our passports to a lot of cash and all our savings which was a lot too. Further Transit Nessus was transiting my 2nd house and opposing exact his Venus and opposing by 2 degrees my Venus, the natural ruler of the 2nd house. Transit Pyramus was squaring both of our second house rulers which signify a forced ending of how we use to make a living. In addition transit pholus was on my southnode forcing me to move back to Miami and leave my life in Colorado behind while Transit Chaos was on my Northnode, what can I say it all fits. That day can only be explained with asteroids, if you just look at the planets you will not understand why all that happened and that day was a crucial day in my life and in my husband's life too. IP: Logged |