posted September 20, 2015 11:21 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
This might be the most in depth description of the Lilith personality I've ever read. I loved it. Thank you. I find it to be very true. I want intimacy very much but never EVER at the expense of my pride. I'd rather be alone than be the one who needs the other more. Hence I am alone and will probably be for some time.

Thanks for a great read, I saved it.

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Thank you wheresthemoon, I agree with you wholeheartly, never settle for just anyone. Everyone deserves that special someone, it really is worth the wait

posted September 21, 2015 01:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Comatoes:

Lilith doesn't like to be on display, she is deep and dark, Lilith doesn't do well in the 1st because she is so private. People with Lilith in 1st can have odd relationships, escapades, multiple marriages etc. relationships or a lack of them are public viewing. She does better in other houses where she can go as deep as she wants too. That's my opinion though.

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I appreciate your in-depth response! Thank you much.

posted September 21, 2015 01:27 AM            

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Originally posted by mereiposa:

At other times, I feel like I give too much away to others, and then am treated without reciprocation. And that brings out Lilith. I don't really retaliate, but I get mad and I draw lines in relationships. People who cross those lines don't usually get to come back.

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I'll cut you off with the quickness. Either reciprocate, or get the hell out of my face.

Don't feel guilty about that.

posted September 25, 2015 10:59 PM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
Well I've been told several times that I exude a lot of strong sexual energy and that people are either intimidated by me or attracted to me. But I have no intentions on intimidating. I would say Lilith here makes me very creative and gives me the urge to forge my own path. I've had to deal with self-repression throughout my childhood and I've had to "break out of it" because Lilith backfires when you allow people to hold you back. Lilith and my MC is in my 11th house of Sag, so I feel it when it comes to my community. And I only befriend those who i know can relate to what i go through.

I feel like this is a martyr aspect. But that could also be because of my 12th house stellium..

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Lilith in the 1st House at 4 degrees Libra, opposite the solar eclipse on 9/27 actually.

The above resonates with me a lot. My whole life, a long one so far, I've done a ying-yang between taking a leading role in group activities/events and being a hermit. I had always attributed that to my 11th House N. Node in Leo and a 12th House stellium in Virgo (Sun, Uranus & Pluto). I'm good at the leadership role but need long breaks or I burn out.

I am definitely a strong, independent woman, as others have posted about regarding Lilith's characteristics, and supportive of other women. Men are intimidated or turned on, very few middle ground though some. Pluto energy works for me due to my stellium.

I'm re-thinking the "No Vacancy" sign that seems to flash above my head, metaphorically. I used to think it was because I was faithful in my marriage but now I think it's because I really, really don't have time for the malarky. i.e., "You want to play games? I suggest you keep walking."

Oh yeah, and I definitely like to keep my business private and have been described by more than one person as 'guarded'.