posted March 02, 2016 08:06 AM            

I'm hoping those of you more experienced with asteroids can help... pretty please.

My beau's Eros,Venus conjuncts my Saturn exact and I am seriously wondering if that is having an effect on our sex-life. Of course planets are the first thing to look at. But this seems like my Saturn is choking the life out of his Eros and the sex too.

(His Eros,Venus is also conjunct my Juno, Alma by one degree)

I did find this about Eros/Saturn posted by IQ. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum28/HTML/003475.html

It's eerily accurate except for the sex part.

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The conjunction is evidence of a Karmic Soulmate: A Soulmate with whom you have developed so much karmic debt that you have to marry or live together for a few years to pay off the debts. Once the debts are paid, either he will transform into an even more loving person [and enhance the beauty of the relationship] or he will suddenly separate, allowing a better Soulmate into your life.

When Saturn is in aspect to Eros, the opportunity to transform lead to gold may come though the medium of erotic love. This can mix one of the most agonizing experiences with the most exquisite making pain hard to distinguish from the pleasure. When Saturn and Eros meet we come to know the depths of our flaw, usually appearing before the eyes, in full Technicolor, in the form of the beloved other.

Eros conjunct Saturn can suggest difficulty discerning between an experience of erotic attraction and an experience of abject fear. As Eros awakens, so does Saturn and the initial response can range from wise caution to absolute panic. The alarming thing is that Saturn seems to increase, not destroy, our sense of allure to the other. A kind of fascination develops that spirals around a catch 22 that says the closer we get, the more we fear, the stronger the compulsion for closeness. The magnet attunes to captivate someone with a similar flaw and commensurate fears. This alone can produce tremendous pain, and also tremendous growth and understanding.

Eros linked to Saturn by aspect is like the bond between Beauty and her Beast/Prince. At first, she is terrified of the monster in prince’s clothing, yet to save her father, also a symbol of Saturn, she offers herself to the creature. She willingly places herself in the Beast’s powerful domain, determined to protect her father in spite of her overwhelming fears. The conjunct, trine and sextile aspects may highlight this willingness to enter the realm of Saturn through the medium of erotic love. In this story, it is not long before the young maiden sees beauty where others only see retched ugliness.

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posted December 24, 2016 12:10 AM            

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Originally posted by VestasLight:
Thanks Ami!

Anyone have personal experience with Eros in aspect to Saturn?

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Saturn wants to learn, to reach that peak, to become the authority. In relation to Eros, Eros is the all knowing erotic god, bringing other gods to their knees with his potent arrows. Saturn will be the student if both people are open to a teacher/student dynamic and Eros will have to practically outline his technique. Think about being in a classroom with Saturn sitting there saying to Eros, the teacher "Yes but how do I stimulate (name an erogenous zone)? Do you have pictures? No, not a lecture, I want visuals!"

I have a friendship with someone who has their Saturn conjunct my Eros. One of the first conversations we had was on naming a sexual technique and we started working on it, literally bringing up a whiteboard to discuss names and watching videos to help him better understand. This is Saturn + Eros, working on sex.

If both people respect each other and understand one has more experience then this can work wonderfully. I think in a romantic relationship this would be a sort of slow building period where sex is stop and go. For example, halting forward momentum in the middle of sex and saying "wait, do this instead." and seeing if that works better.

Eventually, if this connection continues positively then Saturn will reach the top of that mountain and become a sort of sexual beast who knows how to practically apply all the techniques Eros so graciously taught him. Sounds like a BDSM sort of situation honestly. The apprentice becomes the master.

posted January 01, 2017 10:02 PM            

1. Sex never was, and still isn't dull. Far, far from it actually. It just felt like we couldn't find our groove together.

2.Most use a dumbed-down version of what Saturn encompasses in attempting to interpret aspects: restriction/hardship. But first and foremost, Saturn is the keeper of time, the student who refines their skills, who aims for mastery, and of course, karma.

KoreAbyss's post was fairly accurate of my experience so far. It's been a slow (yet wonderful) journey of learning and discovery with each other. Eros certainly is the teacher, Saturn, the eager student.

3. I've also discovered that this Saturn/Eros conjunction has provided Eros with the stability and security to fully embrace his passions, to be more authentic and true to himself as far as what his passions are and how to claim them. (This applies to both sexual and non-sexual passions.)

posted September 26, 2017 07:35 PM            

I have with him my natal Saturn Conjunct his Mars (which in part relates much like Eros, to sexuality). We also have the Eros Juno Square (my Eros at 1 degree Cancer and his Juno at 0 degree Libra...my own Juno and Eros are Square as I also have a that Cancer Eros Square my Juno in Libra at 2 degrees). Similar to her, I have my Eros and Juno touching (Square) in loose contact with my Asc in Cancer at 7 degrees.

It's so weird how the same energy can be seen in people we are into or are around. As far as him, I wouldn't have pegged him as the type to want a Saturn relationship as his Moon/Venus/Mars are deeply tied to Uranus, but it does make sense as his Saturn is Conjunct his Juno at 1 degree and loosely Conjunct his Sun at 7 degrees.

Personally, Saturn on Eros or anything can be tough (this includes he natal), I know some people here are talking about how the energy is positive. I wouldn't say it's positive or negative, It's just an energy. I will say it' is an energy that is by nature very restrained. It is an energy which doesn't ever truly let loose; a part of you is always kept in check. I personally think it would make a relationship sexually loyal but I don't think it would be like Eros Pluto or Eros Neptune in terms of sexuality. It is an energy that can be channeled into something productive. But if you like spontaneous sex in public (depending on your Mars) it's not that. Doesn't mean it's bad, it's just energy.

posted September 28, 2017 07:11 PM            

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
It's funny, a man that I have been tangled with for a bit has this with his SO (her Juno at 7 degrees Aqua & Eros at 8 degrees Aqua are Conjunct, and both are loosely Conjunct her Sun at 0 Aquarius. All of these are also Square her natal Saturn at 4 degrees Sco. His natal Eros is at 4 degrees Scorpio. That also means his Eros is Square her Juno. I always assumed they were karmic...I'm not sure what is the difference (or if there is a difference) between a karmic soulmate and a karmic partner. If anyone knows and can answer I would appreciate that.

I have with him my natal Saturn Conjunct his Mars (which in part relates much like Eros, to sexuality). We also have the Eros Juno Square (my Eros at 1 degree Cancer and his Juno at 0 degree Libra...my own Juno and Eros are Square as I also have a that Cancer Eros Square my Juno in Libra at 2 degrees). Similar to her, I have my Eros and Juno touching (Square) in loose contact with my Asc in Cancer at 7 degrees.

It's so weird how the same energy can be seen in people we are into or are around. As far as him, I wouldn't have pegged him as the type to want a Saturn relationship as his Moon/Venus/Mars are deeply tied to Uranus, but it does make sense as his Saturn is Conjunct his Juno at 1 degree and loosely Conjunct his Sun at 7 degrees.

Personally, Saturn on Eros or anything can be tough (this includes he natal), I know some people here are talking about how the energy is positive. I wouldn't say it's positive or negative, It's just an energy. I will say it' is an energy that is by nature very restrained. It is an energy which doesn't ever truly let loose; a part of you is always kept in check. I personally think it would make a relationship sexually loyal but I don't think it would be like Eros Pluto or Eros Neptune in terms of sexuality. It is an energy that can be channeled into something productive. But if you like spontaneous sex in public (depending on your Mars) it's not that. Doesn't mean it's bad, it's just energy.

Similar to people on here, I would think it would be learning or a teacher/student relationship (not literally lol) in which you learn and grow in time (Saturn) by sexuality (Eros). That can manifest in subdued sexual energies or a growing reserve (Saturn), or that can also make things deepen over time. It depends on the natal chart.

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Well, I understand how it would seem logical that Saturn/Eros would produce sexual loyalty however in our case he cheated... and I mean, had another full time partner for the entire 1.5 yrs we were together. So... in our case, yeah, no loyalty whatsoever, lol.

posted October 05, 2020 07:51 AM            

The other one is to this date, one of the best sexual experiences I ever had.

It all depends on the main aspects, I think! I know we love to concentrate on the asteroids, because they’re so enticing, promising and sexy.. it’s like they bear some sort of magic power and hidden message, and I think they do, but only when the other planets agree.

The first (not so good) experience, was with a guy, who was really into me at first. It all started very promising, but he had major commitment issues. Even though we said, we would not have a relationship so he could just relax, he still had the need to make the sex as free of emotion, as possible! Technically it wasn’t bad, but it felt like nothing to me, because the intimacy between us was completely missing. He took the word **** buddies, way too literal. I called him out on it, he tried to change, but it didn’t really make much difference. What worked well between us though, was role play and sexting. So we would write super long messages about what we want to do to each other, and it was really sexy, like the fantasy was amazing! Then I would show up in some outfit, sometimes dressed like an expensive hooker, and we would play around, and it was fun, but again, our texts were better than the actual experience, mostly for me, because sex without intimacy, and I don’t mean feelings or being in love, just passion and closeness, something that transcends the physical.. if I don’t feel that, it doesn’t work for me.

The other experience,(the good one) really blew my mind! It was a girl, she was my first same sex experience, and also the first time, where the whole act of kissing, making out, sleeping with each other, came just so naturally.. although I wasn’t really into girls, but I was really into her!! We didn’t know each other (in this lifetime at least), so there was no prior attraction or crush, just two strangers coming together and it truly felt like magic!

She is one of the sexiest beings I ever met. I say being, because her gender didn’t matter. We were both turned on, just by hugging each other and breathing and feeling the other’s warmth. The sex was intense, gentle, sometimes not so gentle, she just really knew how to **** . Let’s just leave it like that.
I was Saturn! She was Eros (conj my SN)!

Wasn’t Saturn supposed to be the teacher? I don’t know if I taught her anything though, she clearly was the more experienced one.