posted May 07, 2016 12:13 PM            

I don’t like to talk about morbid things, but I do like to talk about true things. This makes it necessary to delve into the morbid. I was sexually abused by my mother. That makes me someone who associates love with abuse. All abuse victims do. The love they knew was entwined with abuse, through no fault of their own. How does this relate to Astrology? That is the topic of this article.

First of all, I believe one can see abuse in the natal chart. I believe that one is destined to be abused( or not) I know many people disagree. However, it is what I have observed from doing thousands of charts. There are certain markers for abuse. However, this article is not about that as much as what happens later, when the abuse victim is attracted to someone.

There are several phases in an abusive relationship. The first is the honeymoon phase, which is better and sweeter than most any experience in life. One feels one has found one’s true love, FINALLY. One feels as if one has “come home”. Most people do not contact me while in this phase. Life is too perfect to seek help. One feels on top of the world.

The next phase consists of doubts. People do not contact me in this phase, either. They want to push the doubts away. Talking about them makes them more real. That is the last thing the person wants to do.

The next phase consists of reality intruding. The beloved seems dangerously like the abusive parent. However, she is hooked on the guy. This is the stage in which I receive requests for help.

The abusive relationship will have the certain markers. The most classic are the asteroids Nessus and Dejanira, on which I have written a great deal. Planetary markers include Mars/Pluto and Pluto/Saturn in hard aspects. Pluto/Saturn is classic for cruelty. Mars/Pluto is classic for physical abuse,often.

I, always, have a point in writing articles. This one is that the abuse victim is attracted to abuse. Hence, if one feels a wild attraction, one can check the charts and,often, see abuse markers.

I wish I had an answer to make abuse victims shed their pasts. Then, perhaps, the cycle could stop. I wish I had more answers and less identifying of factors.

My answer is, always, the same and that is a true relationship with Jesus. This allows for real change, not pop psych change. I know many of my readers are not Christians, but I leave this with you because this is my hope and I offer it to you.

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posted May 07, 2016 02:39 PM            

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posted May 07, 2016 03:13 PM            

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posted May 07, 2016 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
My favorite topic Ami Anne I love you!

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I love you, too, Angel!

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posted May 08, 2016 11:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This is Phase One, E
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZQNVd--Swk&nohtml5=False

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posted May 11, 2016 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by WhyMe:
Is it possible that someone destined to learn the lessons of being abused in this lifetime will attract a partner who is destined to learn the lessons of being an abuser this life ? Just curious what you think and what aspects in synastry would indicate such a match ?

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I don't believe in past lives, my Friend. I do think that if you were abused, you will probably be attracted to an abusive partner.

One could see this play out in the chart in a variety of ways.

His Nessus could conjunct a personal planet of yours or an angle(ASC. MC) etc

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