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Vixen
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posted June 26, 2016 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What stuff would you expect to see in charts of people who have sexual fantasies about things like rape, domination, snuff etc. ?
Because I found that someone has Lust conjunct sun opposite Pluto and Waldemath Lilith (h58) conjunct Eros and probably square Moon.

Also, Nessus is square my name in his chart...

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Ami Anne
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posted June 27, 2016 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
12th House Uranus would be one

12th House Pluto, but less so

Nessus conj Mercury

Nessus in many,various aspects lol


There are others, too, but these come to mind first

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posted June 28, 2016 06:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know if you could see the sexual fantasies themselves, as these are unlikely to have been innate at birth, which the birth chart relates to.

Violent fantasy, in most cases, is created through the mind's attempts to rationalise, validate, or purge, unwanted feelings of submission or domination.

So we are already far from birth and the birth chart, as it would take very specific types of experiences with others to create these urges.

I suspect you are more likely to see this in synastry than in the birth chart.

A thing to note about violent fantasy is that someone who experiences them will often be fixated on one or several people and these are the people who feature in the fantasies. So again, I think this is more likely to be found in a relevant synastry.

Someone who fantasies about raping their mother will not necessarily fantasise about raping their sister.

The fantasy can often (not always, some will rape indiscriminately with very broad criteria) be triggered by certain traits and physical attributes in the other.

So, again, synastry.

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posted June 28, 2016 06:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, and beware of fatalistic thinking when it comes to Nessus.
He is conjunct my NN. If we run with fatalism then my life path is to be an abuser.
However, I was actually the one who experienced repeated abuses, which forced me to explore many facets of the darker human nature.

This understanding has carved a life path where I work with others who are walking through the dark of their own abuses.

It is a choice how you wield the power of any aspect.

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posted June 28, 2016 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You can see EVERYTHING in the chart, in my opinion xxx

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posted June 28, 2016 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The question is about violent sexual fantasies, which 9 times out of 10 involves another person/person(s).

You cannot see how you will relate to another person by looking at a single natal. You need to see the interaction with the other's chart.

Sure you can see fantasy in a natal by analysing Neptune. Violence and sex? What are Mars and Pluto doing in relation to a stressed Neptune?

HOWEVER, most fantasy requires protagonists, so I believe this would be seen most strongly in synastry with the relevant object of the fantasy.

As for seeing EVERYTHING in the chart, that depends on the bias of the chart reader, Ami.

To see EVERYTHING in anything, we must take off our filters.
We have discussed Nessus before, and based on your "sight", I am destined to be an abuser of others.

Had I been naive, or vulnerable to other people's issues, that would have been a very harmful thing for me to take on board, and something that could have plagued me psychologically for a long time, given I was actually a SURVIVOR of abuse.

I say this now to protect other survivors of abuse with a prominent Nessus who may be damaged by your "opinion".

Now, who is REALLY being abusive here.

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posted June 28, 2016 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Voix... ty {{ }} and Healing Prayers and Support for every Survivor here. Abuse is SERIOUS whether you're being innocently~accidently accused of the wrong-doing, or you've BEEN the victim of others.

It's GOOD to see Survivors standing up for what is Right.... Too many hurt people in this world.

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posted June 28, 2016 01:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mirage29:
Voix... ty {{ }} and Healing Prayers and Support for every Survivor here. Abuse is SERIOUS whether you're being innocently~accidently accused of the wrong-doing, or you've BEEN the victim of others.

It's GOOD to see Survivors standing up for what is Right.... Too many hurt people in this world.


Hi Mirage! I agree. If that is ALL I do with the rest of my life, I will die happy.

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posted June 28, 2016 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:

We have discussed Nessus before, and based on your "sight", I am destined to be an abuser of others.

Had I been naive, or vulnerable to other people's issues, that would have been a very harmful thing for me to take on board, and something that could have plagued me psychologically for a long time, given I was actually a SURVIVOR of abuse.

I say this now to protect other survivors of abuse with a prominent Nessus who may be damaged by your "opinion".

Now, who is REALLY being abusive here.


Thank you for being so clear, Voix.

So sorry for your hard life and its troubles.

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posted June 28, 2016 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
Thank you for being so clear, Voix.

So sorry for your hard life and its troubles.


Hiya Faith, you're welcome.

Don't worry about me, I am just fine. Wouldn't change any of it!

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posted June 28, 2016 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 28, 2016 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 29, 2016 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This reminds me of an article I want to write to put Nessus with the various moons. I think Nessus would play out differently with different Moons. My research indicates that

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posted June 29, 2016 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This reminds me of an article I want to write to put Nessus with the various moons. I think Nessus would play out differently with different Moons. My research indicates that


Sounds interesting Ami!

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posted June 29, 2016 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, V.

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posted June 30, 2016 04:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for florence     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
12th house Pluto does sound a good indicator. I might have this in equal house system and I'd normally leave it as a maybe but the description of it is so relevant to me, I would shift my chart to that house system on that alone.

I've definite power issues but I mostly invert them within. The tension is quite something, though. I need to project that onto someone a lot.

Sun opp Pluto .. Is about power & the aura of power but I'm not sure it would channel into those fantasies, it's more on the concrete level. Saturn probably would incubate that kind of need for power into those fantasies, more, IMO. But I don't know which asteroids .. Waldemath, I agree with

I wonder if something like kaali could become interpreted in this way?

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posted June 30, 2016 05:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My son had Nessus conj his girlfriend's Moon and according to advice here he was going to abuse her. But they split up amicably about a year into their relationship because her career took her abroad. So much for Nessus!

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posted June 30, 2016 07:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astro keen:
So much for Nessus!

It's an extreme asteroid and most people aren't that extreme.

Edit

I was told that I sounded angry in my comment here. I didn't feel angry, and I apologize if I offended anyone.

'Really would love to see actual research to back up what people are saying about Nessus.

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posted July 02, 2016 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Faith.

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posted July 02, 2016 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry, Ami. I will try to be less obnoxious in the future.

You have some wise people pulling for you.

I hope you will make them proud.

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posted July 02, 2016 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, for your responses, darlings!

Well, as I am thinking about this stuff I don't really think person with prominent Nessus will ALWAYS be an abusive ******* .
We should remember that us humans have free will. And evolved person won't be swayed by Nessus as easily as ... i don't know... some random dude whose only meaning of life is drinking protein shakes and screwing 10/10 hot "sloots" (as ******** like that say).

The guy (yes, it's my beloved Taurus ) I'm talking about, seems to be genuinely nice and warm person. But who knows, I still don't know him THAT well...

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posted July 03, 2016 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
Sorry, Ami. I will try to be less obnoxious in the future.

You have some wise people pulling for you.

I hope you will make them proud.


That is so sweet, Faith. It makes my heart warm.

I sprained my ribs doing yoga and I am really sad and that lifted me up

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posted July 03, 2016 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by florence:
12th house Pluto does sound a good indicator. I might have this in equal house system and I'd normally leave it as a maybe but the description of it is so relevant to me, I would shift my chart to that house system on that alone.

I've definite power issues but I mostly invert them within. The tension is quite something, though. I need to project that onto someone a lot.

Sun opp Pluto .. Is about power & the aura of power but I'm not sure it would channel into those fantasies, it's more on the concrete level. Saturn probably would incubate that kind of need for power into those fantasies, more, IMO. But I don't know which asteroids .. Waldemath, I agree with

I wonder if something like kaali could become interpreted in this way?



Hi Florence!

kaali is your body energy/energy system. If you ever studied acupuncture, it works on this. The aura is part of this etc

Kaali is important especially if it is too OUTER like conj the ASC .

In this case, the person may get very tired around people because the inner energy is too outer xxxx

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posted July 07, 2016 01:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am surprised no one has mentioned 8th house.

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posted July 07, 2016 09:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually, the hypothetical Waldemath Lilith is not a 'bad' asteroid.

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