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Topic: Personal story/question: North Node conjunct Nessus in 7th house...bad marriages?
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 6294 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 28, 2016 12:01 PM
My brother has this placement, and as far as I can tell (without looking at very many asteroids), he seems to have bad experiences with his marriage partners.He's a Libra Sun with a Libra stellium, so marriage is something that he seems to really want, but... His divorce isn't finalized (because his wife refused to sign the papers, I assume out of spite), and he's planning his marriage next summer to a woman he met online, quickly moved in with, and hasn't even been dating for a year. Even without astrology, none of this looks particularly well thought out to me, and I worry about him. There's something in my gut that tells me that although everyone in my family loves his new girlfriend/fiance, I just don't feel as though this will turn out much better than his last marriage. I looked at their synastry, and there's not much there to hold things together from what I can gather. Anyway, wondering about this placement, and if it would indicate a path that leads to rather vindictive marriage partners? If you respond, please don't quote. I'll probably edit this, I'm just wondering about my gut instincts. I have DW hard Mars/Pluto aspects with his fiance (who I've not yet met), so it might just be that making me feel uneasy about the situation. IP: Logged |
MermaidDreamz Knowflake Posts: 524 From: In the clouds Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 28, 2016 02:51 PM
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 6294 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 28, 2016 03:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by MermaidDreamz: In the Interpersonal Astrology board, there are a lot of awesome minds on synastry. As well the LL search box has asteroids pairings to try out. Maybe here Ami or another brill minds can offer some asteroids. By nemory I know 2: Eros (433) and Psyche (16). Valentine (447) with Venus and there's Adonis.I hope you can find some insight and everything works out for your brother.
Oh, thanks. I forgot about the Interpersonal Astrology board! I'm not really looking to compare their charts, just wondering about this specific natal placement, mostly. I generally don't bother much with many asteroids because I don't have the time to study them (and there's not much information on a lot of them), but since it's pertaining to Nessus and NN I thought to post here. Hopefully someone will have some insight into whether or not that indicates what I'm sort of thinking it does. Hopefully I'm wrong! IP: Logged |
MermaidDreamz Knowflake Posts: 524 From: In the clouds Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 28, 2016 05:25 PM
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 6294 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 28, 2016 11:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by MermaidDreamz: My learning curb is not as solid as many others but imo, it does look less positive. However, like Ami would probably say -I believe she has- , the whole chart really tells the story better. Did you check both Draconic and tropical? I have found they both show different angles, especially in synastry.
Thank you for responding! No, I'm not really wanting to delve incredibly deeply into his chart, just wanting some opinions about Nessus conjunct NN in 7th, and the potential for rather vindictive partners, or marriages that just end on unpleasant terms. IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 1524 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 30, 2016 06:27 PM
Hi Violets, my hubby has Nessus/Dsc/NN. I also believe his Dcs in Cancer and not Leo. Cappy Asc fits him waaay better. He also, like your brother, has a Libra stellum. Well, like an every crazy person, I'm gonna say I'm not crazy... I'm not abusive, mentally nor physically (would be hard, considering he's 6'5 haha). None of his exes were vindictive. They found it hard to let go of him, though. Let's look at other traits of Nessus. He was obsessive, lustful, posessive... I can seemyself having these traits, yes. I don't really know what to say haha. Just thought I'll share since it seems like a rather uncommon placement. I'll think of it more and may add later Please don't quote IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 6294 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted September 30, 2016 10:39 PM
Thank you, Liliya! I'm glad to hear it's not entirely gloom and doom, lol. It is a funny coincidence, though! IP: Logged | |