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Topic: Hekate Asteroid(100)—Aspects in the Natal Chart
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71296 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 25, 2017 01:15 PM
I got requests for some examples of Hekate(100) in aspect. First, let’s review the nature of Hekate and then look at Hekate in aspect in the natal chart. Hekate is the shadow side. We, all, have one. The shadow side is that about ourselves that we do not want to FACE. Do you know when someone tells you something about yourself that is obvious to them, but you thought you hid it? lol That would be an example of your shadow side. People can, often, see it, but you are the last to know *sigh* Remember that an asteroid must have a very narrow orb. I allow up to three degrees in a conjunction, but three degrees is wide. In other aspects, I allow one to two degrees. Some astrologers only accept exact orbs. That is how very close asteroids need to be!Sun/Hekate In this case, the native may not want to face something about his own ego or something about his relationship with his father. Also, the person may not want to face how much he wants to succeed. Moon/Hekate In this case, the native may not want to accept something about his emotions or the relationship with his mother. Also, the person may not want to face his/her feminine side i.e softness, kindness, gentleness. Venus/Hekate The person may not want to face something about how he is when he loves i.e that he is too selfish, as one example. There could be many possible examples. Mars/Hekate The person may not want to face something about how he goes after goals, such as that he is too ruthless, for one example. He may not want to face his own masculine side, as well. Each sex has a masculine and feminine side. This native may not feel comfortable going after goals aggressively. He may think it is unseemly, so hides it from himself, for example. Saturn/Hekate The native may not want to face something about how he deals with responsibility. Maybe, he has a child and does not care for the child well enough. He may not want to face that, for one example. Perhaps, he does not study hard enough to get into graduate school. He may not want to face that. Jupiter /Hekate The native may not want to face the fact that he takes too many risks or not enough risks. He may not want to face the fact that he does not listen to his conscience enough. Chiron/Hekate This native may not want to face his pain. One can see the nature of his pain by the house of Chiron. Other Asteroids/Hekate I have seen the most interesting things when Hekate is conjunct other asteroids. Examples are escaping me now, but check out this fascinating asteroid in your charts. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Lion-I Knowflake Posts: 71 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted March 26, 2017 04:10 PM
I have Mars at 13 AriesHektate and Lillith at 15 degrees Aries And Lust at 17 degrees Aries What is your interpretation of this To Clarify Lillith is the Asteroid and is there anything I can do to remedy the Mars situation? Thanks in advance. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71296 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2017 04:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lion-I: I have Mars at 13 AriesHektate and Lillith at 15 degrees Aries And Lust at 17 degrees Aries What is your interpretation of this To Clarify Lillith is the Asteroid and is there anything I can do to remedy the Mars situation? Thanks in advance.
You may not want to look at the raw sexuality side of yourself, my Friend. remedy? I have one remedy for everything and that is God lol ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Stellia Knowflake Posts: 133 From: Yorks, UK Registered: Jan 2017
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posted March 26, 2017 08:49 PM
Interesting post, Ami, thanks as ever  I just realised I have moon conjunct hekate - by less than half a degree. I can certainly relate to having discomfort with my femininity. And it appals me to admit it, but there are things about my mum that really make me cringe 😳 As for other asteroids, a good friend of mine has hekate conjunct juno. A shadow side to his attitude towards marriage and intimate affairs? I'd say so - if only that he goes to quite an effort to conceal his personal affairs, never wears wedding ring etc. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71296 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 26, 2017 08:55 PM
Thanks Stellia. GREAT post  ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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TensionEmpire Knowflake Posts: 814 From: Hamburg Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 27, 2017 07:08 AM
Thanks Ami, I should have seen it alredy, but never thought much about it.I have it cnj. Mars, I can ressonate with your description very well. pretty sad uhh. Also because my mars is in Leo, I thought this behaviour came because it is in the 11th house, maybe the aspects add upp IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71296 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 27, 2017 08:54 AM
I am glad this gave you insights TE  ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Stellia Knowflake Posts: 133 From: Yorks, UK Registered: Jan 2017
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posted March 27, 2017 07:19 PM
I've been thinking about this, and moon conjunct hekate. There's something else here for me, and it's about not loving being a mother.I love my son more than anyone or anything in the world. But parenting sucks quite a lot. It's hard, and I don't know what I'm doing and there are days when I wish I wasn't a mother. That's not to say I don't love him - it's a more complete and wonderful love I have ever known and he teaches me more every day... But being a mother is hard. I am not a natural. That is a heavy shadow to live with. IP: Logged |
violet7887 Knowflake Posts: 1793 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 27, 2017 08:30 PM
hmm you're discription of hekate moon does not match the hekate moon person i am thinking of.the person i know who has this is very warm and emotionally in tune. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71296 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 27, 2017 08:44 PM
You are taking it wrong, Stellia. You are jumping to a conclusion you can't from one aspect. I bet you are an AMAZING mother. The Moon has many, many aspects.IP: Logged |
Stellia Knowflake Posts: 133 From: Yorks, UK Registered: Jan 2017
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posted March 28, 2017 01:46 AM
Don't get me wrong, I try really hard, and my son's doing great and I love that he came into my life.But sometimes it's really difficult being a mum, especially a single mum. The shadow element is in admitting it's hard or that you're not in love with being a mother. Society is very hard on people who say that parenthood is anything other than sunshine and roses. Eg I work full time do he's been in nursery since he was young - most of my peers go part-time when they have kids, and can be harsh on those who don't. For me, I needed to be back at work to stay sane, and it's worked out okay that we can see so far. I'm not saying I'm a bad mother (I hope I'm not!) - just that I don't love it. I get on with it, I am warm and loving and we like having a lot of fun - but I don't always enjoy it. My moon-hekate is in Leo, in the 6th house (maybe it's mothering as a 'job' that I struggle with), and is afflicted by a natal square to the sun, which maybe colours it harshly, too. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71296 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 28, 2017 08:39 AM
every mom in the world has mixed feelings and a single mom is sooooooooo hard. Look at the synastry with your son to see more. Please, don't put more guilt on yourself. You have the hardest job in the world. I love you  ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Stellia Knowflake Posts: 133 From: Yorks, UK Registered: Jan 2017
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posted March 28, 2017 05:37 PM
Thank you Ami ❤ Honestly tho, I am not beating myself up. I genuinely feel that it is a valid perspective in this context - if hekate is about the side of yourself you don't like to face - my uncomfortable truths and feelings about being a mother can 100% be suggested by a tight moon-hekate conjunction. Doesn't mean I follow through on it and neglect my son, if anything, the hint of guilt pulls me through to make more effort. Like any placement, there are good and bad sides, opportunities to grow or wither. I'm not a bad mother (I hope!) - but it doesn't mean that I have to lead a perfect pinterest parent life either 😬 I could never do that. I could also never give up my work (6house moon) to be a full-time mother. (Really do appreciate the kind sentiments however) IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 71296 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 28, 2017 06:20 PM
Thanks for telling me, S! We all have shadow sides. The people who hurt others won't face theirs a la Scott Peck--People of the Lie. I try to help people face themselves, but some people don't want to. I am glad you are someone who will because you will be OK if you don't have to lie to yourself xoxoxox------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 77531 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 03, 2017 09:09 AM
Good info on shadow sides.IP: Logged |