posted February 15, 2019 05:39 PM            

Tardy for Valentine's day but -- A good " love " related asteroid I happened upon recently was 264 Libussa. In slavic it is Love    http://www.behindthename.com/name/libus18e

As far as my own chart goes it is sextile  with my Neptune  by 0h5m48s. Neptune is also my closest body (planet) to my Asc so this is interesting. Explains my romanticism.

I used it in synastry between myself  and others
- my father's  Libussa is cnj my Child asteroid by 7m.

- my mother's  Libussa is cnj with my natal TrueBlood by 7m.

- My uncle and I were extremely  attatched to one another, until he passed. We had a 2° earth trine between both our natal Libussa asteroids. 

- For my husband, his Libussa hits in cnj at a 0° with my natal Iduna, which it likened  to Venus.

- My former fiancé had his sextile 0° with my Ascendant.

- Another past love had his located just cnj 0° my Desiderata.

posted February 16, 2019 03:48 PM            

264 Libussa Sagittarius 10.40 rx H12scorp cusp ASC 11.30 Sag

conjunct
h21 "natural apogee" Lilith 9.01 rx
.. {being your genuine and original self-- whole self acceptance}
567 Eleutheria rx 9.03
.. {liberty and victory over obstacles is a theme}
F.S.Antares 9.08
.. {devil's advocate, is transformative;
gives an influence of passions and intensity, Courage in convictions; Regenerational experiences that can lead you to great heights and power;
neg here is to check jealousy and obsession.. which leads to self destruction-- several marriages}

<several marriages.. turned out to be true in my earlier life >

Part.of.Happiness 9.09

11768 Merrill Sagittarius 10.18 rx
264 Libussa Sagittarius 10.40 rx H12/ASC

(music) Smoke Gets In Your Eyes! (Jerome Kern, perf by Robert 'Merrill', baritone) [2:01] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Dp2o7gKgNk

- http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Merrill,_Robert

lyrics
They asked me how I knew
My true love was true
I of course replied
Something here inside
Can not be denied

They, said some day you'll find
All who love are blind
When your heart's on fire
You must realize
Smoke gets in your eyes

So I chaffed them, and I gaily laughed
To think they could doubt my love
And yet today, my love has flown away
I am without my love

Now laughing friends deride
Tears I cannot hide
So I smile and say
When a lovely flame dies
Smoke gets in your eyes

posted February 19, 2019 10:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Nadja:
Hmm... I have Libussa conjunct my Mean SN, exactly to the minute, and just 1.5 degrees off my Ascendant.

Not sure what to make of that. I guess it depends what love we are talking here... I'm no stranger to love overall, but romantic love is something I'll never understand, and feel no need for (asexual aromantic here). But it does look nice close to the Ascendant. I'm good at self-love, so maybe that's how it makes itself known... Or maybe I give off a loving vibe. On the South Node, no idea...

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posted February 20, 2019 05:12 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Do you feel you attract love or maybe crushes easily?

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No, I really don't. As I said, I'm aromantic, meaning I've never felt romantically attracted to anyone. Not a single crush to date (and I'm 31).

posted February 20, 2019 03:08 PM            

MoonMystic Thanks for your kind comments.

haha..
I see that transiting 264 Libussa is retrograding in LEO at 10+.. in my H8cancer which is trine my own position in Sagittarius.

I have a super-duper stellium of 2progressed LEO in planets now.

Transiting Mars in Taurus is in my 5th Taurus, with Uranus at the last degree of Aries. My 5th House Taurus starts at 0.42. My Venus is in the 5th.

Transiting NN in Cancer 26 is in-between my Jupiter Cancer 27+ and narrowing-in on my Uranus 25+-Vertex 24+ in H8 right now..
quintiles Venus H5 Taurus.

It will be interesting, indeed!

posted February 20, 2019 09:15 PM            

I wasn't meaning to imply that you had anything 'lacking' at all. sorry

Maybe I read your comment more in the context that we were speaking of romance and love.

Really, I haven't dated in decades.
I have been living with a person (non romantic) for the past 12 years, who has "touch" phobia.. (sorta autistic).

My Venus Taurus has kind of learned she won't be touched or hugged, and not to expect I'd ever find someone. (That's why *they* will have to find me?.. ~oy)

ADD..
I also had a mother who never was into holding hugging or touching. I got used to that message growing up too!
Very cold person.
I thought that at-least, when I had children, they would "like" to be held and cuddled??? .. nope! LOL .. very independent-- didn't want to be rocked and cuddled!!
*laughing.. my Venus Taurus gives up*

When I meet people, IF they are huggers, then I LOVE giving hugs. I'm a good hugger.

Sometimes, some of the little children in my neighborhood run up for hugs when they see me-- (the parents freely allow them, I have a good reputation in the 'hood).

Anyways..
It's GOOD to be Whole, and to know one's own self.
I guess my Venus (opp Saturn) .. has semi-accepted that she's probably not going to have a physically oriented life? (unless God sparked something in someone else, and drew them to me)

Costs a lot of money to go out with people.
And, I dislike frivolous "idle games" for too-far past a short time, and too much social faking things. I want real. I want to go deep in exchange with 'genuine' people, deep friends and honest attractions.

Well.. I'm so used to just-being a 'regular person', and intellectual exchanges-- that, I don't know if I'd know what to do with myself, if someone actually said they liked me, in a deeper 'I want to get to know you' way! ..

Oh gosh, just thought of a song from JCSS!

(music) I Don't Know How To Love Him ('Mary Magdalene's song from JesusChristSuperStar) [4:04] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y1ev49weFWQ

I guess, I just haven't been "close" to anyone AT ALL for decades. It would feel strange?
It might even be a distraction, spiritually?..

It would take a really special person--
Lots of people don't know that behind my socialness, and ability to talk to 'anyone', and make them feel comfortable and wanted and included, .. that I'm sorta shy and have a deep and inward side. Am deep and intense, yet still playful, humorous, creative.. I'm 'complicated'? .. *smile*

Anyway! .. haha Onward!!!

posted February 21, 2019 02:28 PM            

and no over-heavy-weighted constant emotional obsession about the person (both ways).

Someone who has a magnanimous heart and soul, and trusts, and is trust-Worthy.

I want a kind of 'telepathic' admiring Loving-connection and awareness of and to each other. That we'd be available to help each other work out things inside {or out}, AND, for each to be working on their own growing.

Someone into God-spirituality, music, art...
Definitely into being hugged!!!

Maybe a whole community or tribe like that.
Utopian Ideals?!! haha..

I have

282 Utopia ON H3 cusp Aquarius 25+ trine Neptune-rx Libra H10, trine Mercury Gemini 27+ H7.

Am an "air"-head today??? *laughing*
Moon in Libra all day!! H10

from my Generational background --
How MUCH we fall-short these days!

The tune is more self-centeredness. *sad*
When you don't have (money) resources, you not 'accepted'?!!

Oh well....

posted March 11, 2019 06:40 PM            

His Cancer 14.06rx (3rd house)
- conj. 3rd house cusp 0.9
- conj. Sphinx 0.31
- trine Athropos 0.89 (pis 11th house)

Her Pisces 13.50 (8th house)
- conj. Lempo 0.27
- conj. Thule 0.41
- trine Requiem 0.27 (sco 4th house)
- trine Klotho 0.12 (can 12th house)

I am sure there's more but this is about all calculations i have energy for right now

posted March 12, 2019 04:51 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Hi implosions. 5th house is an excellent place for it. Have you tried a comparison chart? Synastry study might also enlighten your understanding of it perhaps moreso.

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posted April 08, 2019 02:13 AM            

Other asteroids from the myth:

posted May 17, 2019 11:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Nadja:
No worries Mirage! Most people need and/or want a romantic relationship.

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posted May 18, 2019 01:10 PM            

Constantly requires sacrifice of time and care.

Fortunately, the 'work' of a relationship is often rewarded by the Bond of Love formed between two people. That energy grounds and nurtures a couple, and allows their lives to blossom even more because of the support of the partners. Both-together become greater and more productive through synergy than what could be accomplished as alone-singles.

Someone by your side brings company and better balance and feedback --

"Two or more of you, gathered... for a common purpose"

(music) Peter, Paul and Mary - Wedding Song "There is Love" (25th Anniversary Concert) [3:33] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrTfNTzAvYY