posted June 13, 2019 07:28 PM
Found what I was looking for!
More on asteroid Amor--
Quote
- http://www.mysticmarguerite.com/WebDocs/Texts/LoveAsteroids.html Asteroid Amor:
Amor is the Roman god of love;
the asteroid represents compassion, empathy and loving kindness.
As astrologer Demetra George notes,
Amor represents a state of loving
rather than falling in love.
Amor can represent love of anything dear to the heart;
George suggests that the archetype functions as the intermediary between the 'sensual' love of Venus and the 'higher, platonic' love of Neptune.
Astrologer Zane B. Stein relates Amor to 'idealized love' and related feelings.
This would be warmth and love as one believes it should be;
a person with a strongly placed Amor believes in the notion of "true love" and searches for the "soul mate".
Martha Lang-Wescott notes that the sign, house and aspect pattern associated with Amor demonstrates conditions that are put on "unconditional giving and loving";
therefore the natal placement can show what keeps us from living up to our own ideals and expectations of what love really is.
It can also symbolize what we substitute for love,
what were our role models for love and our experience and examples of true, perfect and ideal love.
The natal house Amor occupies is where the person believes they will be able to express this highest form of love.
Since the asteroid represents 'an ideal',
if it is afflicted the person can feel incapable of achieving his ideal love or unworthy of being given love.
One may even do self-sabotage in order to avoid experiencing love up close and real, since unconditional love does not easily exist within a framework of control and predictability.
Zane suggests that a planet in square or opposition to Amor can represent something else desirable that is preferred to love.
One person's Amor conjunct a planet in another's chart brings feeling of love, however if that person also has a natal planet in hard aspect to Amor, it conflicts with the other person's chart and the result is a volatile state of love/hate.
Amor in opposition to planets or other love asteroids can indicate a situation where opposites attract;
the loved one functions as a devil's advocate or as an expression of one's own shadow.
Hard aspects in general tends to link the native up with people whose concept of love and sharing is very different from their own, resulting in various distortions of the impulse to love such as withholding, manipulating, caretaking, domination-submission scenarios etc.
{text continues...}
go to http://www.mysticmarguerite.com/WebDocs/Texts/LoveAsteroids.html
ADD--
The music selection I left by 'Julio Iglesias' wasn't the best choice for the energy of Amor, as interpreted in a natal chart. The artist is from country of Spain!, which complements your 'From'!
How about this one? LOL
(music) It's 'You' I Like (Fred Rogers, TV Show for Children in US; guitarist Dan Heidt) [2:07] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5kSDN03qmE