I don't know whether that's the aspect to blame but for me relationships have always been painful.
My understanding is that Juno is partnership and Lilith causes some distortions and illusions in this sphere. Somehow in almost all my relationships synastric Venus was hitting this spot. I also have Asc in Scorpio but all these Venuses were attracted to Juno & Lilith in the 12th house very widely conjuncting my Asc from the 12th house side. Instead of getting on it from the 1st house side. All this made me think that this spot is sensitive in relationships.