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Topic: Am I an emotional vampire?!?! :( HELP!! PLEASE!
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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted November 25, 2003 11:04 PM
 
I just read Alchemiest's post on her flatmate being a Vampire - and it made me realize that i am in a similar situation - except: I'M the one being ACCUSED of being a VAMPIRE!Now this is very disturbing because i thought that there was absolutely no way i could be 'sucking' someones energy away from them without it being purposeful. My boyfriend however disagrees. He tells me that i 'suck' his energy away from him - leaving him empty and down. I can't for the life of me work out why i would be doing this becasue i am always such a happy and positive person - and he is exactly the opposite (i.e. sad and negative). Its getting to such a stage that my boyfriend and i break up and get back together again and again becasue he can't handle me 'stealing' his energy. He says this happens the most when i am 'Happy' - like really high, bouncy and joyfull (Which i tend to do). He says that if we are to get back together, that i need to 'calm down' and stop 'stealing' his energy... Could someone PLEASE tell me whats going on?! Am i REALLY stealing his energy? This is really starting to upset me!  Nebel ------------------
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Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted November 26, 2003 05:26 AM
Not to worry. At the Soul level, they are agreeing to be open to you and are GIVING you Energy at times when you need it. It works both ways, though. Sometimes, do you feel drained, too? I'm no psychic, but at times I get a message or two.  The big difference is this is with people you Love and who Love you--not with strangers.  He can shield himself with White Light if he wants to. And some of that is just him feeling inferior to you when you are so "chippy." ------------------
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Oxychick
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From: neither here nor there
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 26, 2003 08:35 AM
Hi Nebel  Please forgive me for saying so, but it sounds like the positive energy is being drained out of you! Is your boyfriend depressed? Obviously, I don;t know your relationship, and knowing only what you post here, I think I can safely say you are most certainly not an emotional vampire of any sort! Often times misery loves company. I have been in situations involving what one may call "emotional vampires" and luckily I realized quickly that I was being manipulated into feeling bad for them. In my opinion, loving one another should never mean wanting the other person to be unhappy. I can't imagine why your happiness should be construed as a neagtive thing. I hope you weather this smoothly, Nebel. I always enjoy reading what you share with us.  IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted November 26, 2003 01:24 PM
Also what Oxy said. Although I think you give your permission to your boyfriend to rely on your Energy at times. ------------------
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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted November 26, 2003 07:59 PM
Thanks very much Randall and Oxychick
You help me to see this situation in a lot better light Thank you
LOL
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Oxychick
Moderator Posts: 2486
From: neither here nor there
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posted November 27, 2003 11:02 AM
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alchemiest
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From: baltimore, MD USA
Registered: Sep 2003
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posted December 02, 2003 08:08 AM
Nebel, you soooo do not fit the emotional vampire bill! Believe you me, they tend to be very negative people, and you being cheerful and optimistic in personality definitely removes you from any danger of being a vampire. Chances are, as Oxy and Randall have suggested, that HE is the one who is draining YOU, but perhaps you have been unconsciously shielding yourself and he's now missing his emotional feast (Seriously, it could be true... ) and so is taking it out on you by switching the tables. Cheer up girlie! You sound like a positive and wonderful person!!! Stay that way!!!
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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted December 02, 2003 07:45 PM
Awww Shuks
Thank you for your wonderful
words Alchemiest
My boyfriend and i are trying to make progress with this issue between us - but really i don't think he wants to work it out - he keeps saying things to me like - 'i don't feel that you and i have the 'right' kind of love to keep us together' Huh?!LOL
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Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted December 03, 2003 08:58 PM
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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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From: neither here nor there
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted December 04, 2003 09:13 AM
Hi Nebel, did you say somewhere that your boyfriend is an Aquarius?IP: Logged |
SunShyne
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Registered: May 2003
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posted December 06, 2003 12:12 PM
How've you been, Nebel? 
SunShyne P.S. You're no vampire!
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Nebel
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Australia
Registered: Aug 2002
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posted December 07, 2003 05:34 PM
Heya Oxychick Yeah, Michael is an Aquarius Sun, with a Scorpio Moon and Rising. I'm a Taurus Sun, Moon & Rising. Heya SunShyne
I've been good thank you And you?? Thanx for your kind words
LOL
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desert-rain
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Registered: Dec 2003
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posted December 15, 2003 12:41 AM
can emotional/psychic vampires read your thoughts?and, are they the same thing....emotional and psychic vampires? IP: Logged |
desert-rain
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posted December 15, 2003 12:41 AM
can emotional/psychic vampires read your thoughts?and, are they the same thing....emotional and psychic vampires? IP: Logged |
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