posted July 22, 2005 03:04 PM         

Love

posted July 22, 2005 03:24 PM         

Sue.. I know you hate the drama, but there is a difference between squabbles and defending ones reputation. I, for one, felt compeled to defend myself against a person that tried to get be banned for being a racist (when I am far from that). It is one thing to insult my head size (LMAO) or say I look like a dude, but an attack on my integrity will get me riled up.

Sometimes things have to be brought out in the open and shown for what they are. No one likes to undergo surgery, but it is a necessary evil to route out an infection.

posted July 22, 2005 06:58 PM         

Sue,

posted July 22, 2005 08:24 PM         

You're right I wouldn't and didn't use my Gemini friend. In sex, I find it utterly impossible to have a good time if my partner is not. In actuality, the Gemini got the better end of the deal in our brief time together. It was just a mistake on both our parts to let it reach the level it did before really understanding how we felt about one another.

There were aspects of truth in each of those vicious things TP said, but in each case the context, which accounts for a whole lot, was missing. I still don't know whether I ought to address it or not. It's highly disturbing and weighs so so heavily on my heart right now.

posted July 23, 2005 12:57 PM         

I hope you feel better soon, please feel free to share if if makes you feel lighter. Good luck to your Dad too xxx

Hi Pidaua

Good for you for defending yourself, and of course I know the difference between squabbling and defending onself (at age 46, I should do)! You are preaching to the converted here girl, that is why I put up the thread to Randall to complain of those who were acting like kids, but I never included you on that list, I can never remember you resorting to name calling. You come across as an extremely intelligent woman who wouldnt need to lower herself to become involved with petty argument. You were just fighting your corner, and good for you - JUSTICE FOR ALL!!!!

and

Love to all

posted July 23, 2005 02:42 PM         

Prior to last night I'd only gotten a few hours sleep for two days in a row, sO I've been completely wrecked. The first night had nothing to do with things here.

I'm gonna go ahead and offer here to give people some perspective if they want it. I only want to do this via email or Messenger, though, so I can just say what I want to say and point out pertinent threads within LL (that give a bit of perspective on the matters) without anyone getting in a huff or starting an argument with me. I've taken screen shots of the threads I'll point you to, so that even if someone were to edit their words I still have a visual copy of the original I can give you. Email or IM at acousticgod@sbcglobal.net.

Last night while spending time with that ministry that feeds the homeless in San Francisco I realized that this stuff doesn't matter a whole lot in the scheme of things. I'm still me, I'm still valued, and I'm still valuable. This stuff is just nonsense.

Thanks and love,

posted July 24, 2005 10:22 AM         

From an astrological point of view, with Saturn being in Leo for the next few years and therefore in his 5th house, he will need to watch the health of his heart (either metaphorically or physically).

Hope you yourself are feeling OK, and, again, DON'T WORRY. I think most of us at LL pretty much have one another's measure.

LOL

AT

posted July 25, 2005 05:05 AM         

Glad your dad's doing better.
Just focus all your positivity on helping him get better right now. People will believe what they want to believe. We make pacts with those that hurt us and those that we hurt, unintentionally or otherwise, to help each other learn. And we all do it at our own pace.

posted August 07, 2005 08:11 PM         

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Heart disease and heart attacks are caused by (a) the lonely longing resulting from not being loved (b) the inability to give or return love --or (c) the inability to love one's self. The emotion of love and the human organ of the heart are inseparable. -Linda Goodman, Star Signs page 38

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