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Topic: Scorpios reactions
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jani_jean
Knowflake Posts: 77
From: India
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted August 14, 2006 02:41 AM
 
Well i think the subject title is not conclusive or conveying my quetsion..
well its very wellknwon that scorpios in general be it male/female or those having venus mercury etc in scorpio are intense, emotional, passionate ppl ..
I guess they expect compleet attention, preference and surrender in a mental psiritual and physical level from their partner.. Rather soemone who leaves or prepared to forego/leaev everything else for scorpioons would be blessed iwth scorpios genuine incomaparable intense devotion and passion ...
I have venus ,mercury and uranus in scorpio .Why is that we want (or is it only me ???? )soemone ,(especially in love /spouse relationship) to be dependant entirely on us........Words like i am nothing without you , my life means nothing without you, i ahev no one else except you and teh faiy tale like phrases Ofpcurse spoken with truth move me or i would love to hear them...I feel insignificant if they ahev so many otehrs to lean on or if there are otehrs whom they thing are equally or even more important than me.Ok my question now would be how do scorpios react or perceive when the depth , surrender or watever u call is not acheived by them? All scorpios or venus mars in scorpis are welcome to share ...And offcourse other souls who have understood scorpios..BTW i have 8 th house sun too.
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jani_jean
Knowflake Posts: 77
From: India
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted August 14, 2006 02:54 AM
Opps sorry this was meant to be in astrology at LL...IP: Logged |
Alex
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Europe
Registered: May 2006
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posted August 26, 2006 04:18 PM
HI jani_jean  I was very pleased to read ur message cause I had (and still have) the same problem. I’m a Scorpio with ascendant in Cancer (don’t know more-sorry)
i was thinking about my feelings towards other people or men in general- that I want them to pay total attention to me, sometimes I’m too possessive and I care to much for other peoples´ emotions (I think it’s the cancer ascd.) that it hurt me so much when I found out they don’t do the same. To answer ur question: I’m trying to be more relaxed in the relationships, have to remind myself that everybody is different and needs its own kind of personal freedom, then it’s more interesting if u can share different experiences and behaviors.
Because, as u perfectly named-the depth and surrender and even more –I didn’t achieve in my previous relationship and I had exactly the same feelings as u did. I also think these feelings you named have a lot to do with ur self-confidence.
Cause my motto is ,, I want all or nothing” (have to say sometimes it’s very unreasonable:insane 
I just pray there is someone right for me and that person will give me all I need. Wish u all the best and hope I did help a bit  p.s. Are u living in India? My sister went there to work(Hyderabad) and she feels good over there Take care Alex 
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jani_jean
Knowflake Posts: 77
From: India
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted August 27, 2006 04:45 AM
Hey alex,
thanks for replying to my post though posted in wrong forum
For teh apst 4 months i ve been living in melbourne...  will stay here for another 6 -8 months
hmmmm i am able to relate with u and the feelings we go through...ur post did help me - i will rememebr what u have sd each one is diff and needs some personal freedon. convincing to me...
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aquaspryt69
Knowflake Posts: 319
From: Arizona
Registered: Feb 2004
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posted September 10, 2006 10:49 AM
"I guess they expect complete attention, preference and surrender in a mental spiritual and physical level from their partner.. Rather someone who leaves or prepared to forego/leaev everything else for scorpioons would be blessed iwth scorpios genuine incomaparable intense devotion and passion."Scorpio Venus conj Asc and Scorp Sun here. To me, those who think, act, and expect things to be like this are insecure. Even with all of my issues, I have never felt this way. To me, if someone caved in to these expectations, they would appear weak and be a total turn off. I prefer strong, independent types like myself.
Now, don't get me wrong. I LOVE snuggling, cuddling and kissing my sweetie and I do expect faithfulness from BOTH of us, but I would never try to control someone else like this. Fug that!
That's just my take on it. Who knows, maybe someone else sees it differently?  IP: Logged | |
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