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posted June 11, 2011 01:11 AM            

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What would you say is the perfect age? I think 30 is great. At 30, you are treated with respect and can accumulate a couple of college degrees, but you are still young enough (by society's standards) to enjoy life and put that wisdom to use.

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posted June 11, 2011 03:23 AM            

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Age 2

absolutely NO responsibilities

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posted June 11, 2011 04:14 AM            

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From: u.k
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posted June 11, 2011 05:26 AM            

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The age I am now. And I'm serious.
With each passing year my life gets better. I never look back, only to remember what I learnt.
How can life not get better when you have more experience and guidance to work with?
Plus I feel freer than at any time before which to an Aquarian is the ultimate pleasure.
It's great to see my kids happy and getting on with their own lives and I take enormous pleasure in my family as I hope they do with me.
But now I can have my own little adventures without feeling guilty that I have neglected anyone.
I can be as crazy as I want without disapproval from society.
There's no flippin' agenda I have to stick to...good job, looking after a family, keeping a partner happy, paying a bloody mortgage (well I still do but if they take the house off me? So what! It's only me who's going to be homeless and that's just another form of freedom.
If I want to tell my boss to shove the job I am able to....so therefore I don't feel the need.
I'm there because I can...not because I have to be.

I've got a few wacky adventures I want to try. And the difference being, that they are not prefixed with a longing sigh of "If only"
Plus....and no one will understand the liberation this brings, until it happens.
I am no longer driven by sex or sexual desire.
I thought it would be a sad loss but it's bliss.
When you look back at your life you see so many (sorry ALL) your decisions have some basis in sex. Not the act but the procuring of it, looking for a partner, trying to keep a partner, Trying to keep each other happy. Trying to remain attractive. Competing competing competing.
A constant exhausting and on reflection ultimately fruitless bloody search
I am now like a dog.
Only two states of being.
Happy, or waiting to be happy!

Sorry this is so long.
But you did ask.

P.S My next adventure involves Invercargill in N.Z. Anyone been there, live there??

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posted June 11, 2011 11:24 AM            

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Self esteem wise at 21, I'm wiser then I was a few years ago. But I still have energy when I want to let loose, and have fun. I feel more comfortible in my own skin. I'm at the age where I get to be selfish and put my self first. And I feel respected by people wheather I'm being silly or mature. I feel like the teenage years are the hardest. All of a sudden you are more complicated and changing, and it's difficult to express at first. And things that are not a big deal, are such a big deal. lol

So I like childhood and adult hood the best.

Like for I feel like my self esteem was starting to go down hill the older I got. 17 and 18 was the bottom and the rest have been a climb going up.

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posted June 11, 2011 08:54 PM            

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59 would be a wise age when you finish your first and second saturn return.You become a complete and a whole person.

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posted June 11, 2011 08:56 PM            

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How about 59 and look 30?

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posted June 11, 2011 10:56 PM            

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Wrinkles Are God's Makeup.

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posted June 11, 2011 10:59 PM            

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A healthy mind in a healthy body is called being 59 and looking 30!You become charming and young at soul.

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posted June 11, 2011 11:04 PM            

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The Masters and GURUs tend to prefer looking around 50ish (by illusory societal standards).

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From: u.k
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posted June 12, 2011 04:06 AM            

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What is the next stage after your first and second stage Saturn return?
When you become a complete and whole integration?
What happens then??
What is the next challenge?

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posted June 12, 2011 09:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
How about 59 and look 30?

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Do you know that Yogi's can make themselves appear any age

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Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality
Jung
You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it .
Jesus

He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city
Proverbs

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posted June 12, 2011 06:59 PM            

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I often think of this very question in terms of: If I were to be turned into a vampire, what age would I like (or in my case would have liked) it to happen? I'd say 29 - 33ish. It too late for me now though LOL

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posted June 16, 2011 01:53 PM            

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i really don't know. i'd say probably 40. maybe this is when your life really starts.

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posted May 04, 2013 02:03 PM            

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24 for a woman, 30 for a man.

At 24, a woman has had her second Venus Return and her second Jupiter Return. Women mature earlier than men, so the Saturn Return is not as important.

For men, it's essential. Although to be honest... Men are like trees; it takes 50 years for them to grow up.

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