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sand
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posted December 25, 2012 10:04 PM
  
Will list mine later lol!IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted December 25, 2012 11:37 PM
I've decided to be completely selfish this year.  IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted December 26, 2012 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
I've decided to be completely selfish this year.
 DITTO! XD <3 IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted December 26, 2012 01:34 AM
Eat lots of fresh vegetables and fruits
Go running with my bff
Hang out LOTS with my other bff (she won't escape!)
Save money for some trip on my birfday or on next ChristmasBut for now, survive my boxing day shift, see my moved away bff, then hide out for a week or two.  IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 05:50 AM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
I've decided to be completely selfish this year.
oh i've been like that for the past 28 though. just kidding!  i know a lot of people that have this credo though. especially when i was in sales. it seems someone has also hurt them in the past. jeez they were all crying by the beach this one time and i can't help but think to myself that it wasn't about that for me. i wanted to actually give. to stop being selfish. i couldn't connect with those sentiments. oh well must be y i didn't last in that job. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 09:32 AM
1. grow my hair out
2. drop some muscle mass
3. stop wearing sunglasses indoors
4. explore sexuality with my partner
5. drive myself
6. focus on career
7. stop drinking (beer at least )
8. focus on sexuality
9. sex
10. sex
11. stop being a d1ck IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted December 26, 2012 10:00 AM
I don't think it has anything to do with being hurt... it has to do more with finding your resolve, after neglecting it, and finding a sense of self appreciation. ~ dunno about Vi~ but I've lived the past 10 years trying to be someone else's rock, their punching bag (literally in my last relationship), being their second mommy (with manchild), and abandoning my family, and every earthly ambition and passion I held dear, for the sake of someone else's idea of perfection, of the "ideal" life, roles.... and whatnot... If I'm selfish this year, and I reckon that each and every in-law I have will say I am after this January.... It is because I've "rediscovered" what I need to be doing... and because I'm reconnecting with my true self... and all those things I'd left behind... Being selfish is only a negative trait, when you ignore feeling compassion towards other humans, when you have no interest outside of your own, it becomes a huge, nasty, character flaw... Directed in the right way, however... I believe it is an invaluable strength... that's why there are so many philosophical mentors, success icons, celebrity icons, which preach to "love yourself" ~ as a virtue!~ quote:
“To help yourself, you must be yourself. Be the best that you can be. When you make a mistake, learn from it, pick yourself up and move on.” - Dave Pelzer
- A Capricorn, and a survivor of abuse, author, wise soul.... <3how about another Capricorn ~ if you don't know that one...
you will this one... quote:
“Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence. Love others as well as you love yourself.” - Jesus Christ
surely, if Jesus did it.... we all can.
(and, I'm not even an active practitioner of Christianity, still value the wisdom in the Bible though~ anyone can... surely...) Anyway -
Everything starts with "the self" ^^ <--- can u tell my frickin' Piscean dsc is being transit/activated something major!!!
damn Lilith! >.< lulz ---- as for any customer service occupation~
~lacking empathy~ is definitely a sign of someone who takes self-absorption to the extreme, needing to practice humility, sincere reciprocity, and compassion goes a very long way... imho. ~_~
-------- Sand --- 4,8,9,10 ---- redundant much!? XD
~ lol why do you put your leonine ambitions before your taurean ones! ><; lmao career should be first!!! -derp- IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 10:08 AM
my sag south node stuck to objectivist philosophy for a long time.  IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 10:12 AM
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-------- Sand --- 4,8,9,10 ---- redundant much!? XD~ lol why do you put your leonine ambitions before your taurean ones! ><; lmao career should be first!!! -derp-
u should know our mars strives and i mean really strives to be the best at 4,8,9,10! it's not numbered accordingly silly!  IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted December 26, 2012 11:02 AM
ayn rand fandom <3 very Aqua-Cappy philosophy there ~ one of my favourite kinds, after Scorpion-Geminine/Libran that is~ although my brand of philosophy has always been existentialism~ for objectivity and existentialism I think of Stig Dagerman. My SN in Sag forces expansion! haha Your mars and my mars are two different animals entirely, I don't need to strive to do anything when I already know I own it. XD Plutonian Martian, is not the same as a Venusian-Martian ~ sorry. ^^; All they have in common is Scorpion flavour~ everything else is gravely different! it's not ranked!? bahhhh~ I thought it was literal! haha my Capricorn nature wants to see things put in order, all the time... soooooorrrry!!! haha Career really should be 1st tho IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 11:25 AM
u know i underestimated u lots!  i.. may have thought u were just sexbrain lol! gosh the female sexual ego is truly something!  #letstauntit ..and i'm not martian venusian btw. i am martian martian. mis opp sun. mars in h1. u leave my pretty venus out of this!  r u even mars dominant? pullen/ color? IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted December 26, 2012 05:06 PM
oh dandy sand~ I will answer this ^ in the other thread... so not to derail your awesome topic all too much~@ Sand's Venus -- I apologize, really, I thought you were quincunx!~ I'd give it a coddle, but I have enough to deal with *points at the Leo Moon* I've got an arrow aimed at that one, Mister... we gotta get the hot air out of it, so it will match that air-void! underestimated! harrrumph! sexbrain...? only! T_T ~ grrrr... the sexbrain was your fault!!!!
*feelsslighted* ....I was always top of my class...  no taunting the feral women, Mister!!! *Venus Return*
Picking/pot-stirring on the frustrated, starving cougar-kitties is only gonna make em more peeved, sexbrained or not!  underestimated..... geeze. *huff* IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 07:57 PM
i'm sorry lol.. should i make it up to you by sending you shirtless pics? IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted December 26, 2012 08:24 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
oh i've been like that for the past 28 though. just kidding! i know a lot of people that have this credo though. especially when i was in sales. it seems someone has also hurt them in the past. jeez they were all crying by the beach this one time and i can't help but think to myself that it wasn't about that for me. i wanted to actually give. to stop being selfish. i couldn't connect with those sentiments. oh well must be y i didn't last in that job.
lol sand no need to go dr phil on me..i was half joking...but yeah i just meant i will try and give myself more time this coming year. i hope we all get to fulfill ours, especially you, you'll have a busy year ahead of you IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted December 26, 2012 08:31 PM
No. The exchange rate is too severe. We're even, Stephen in that regard, despite My SN activation right now, there'll be no refunds or returns to external parties during this Venus transit, sad to say. *pout* you're the devil, after all... Driving a hard bargain is your "thing"... Mine is avoiding Hades. . Lol IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 08:33 PM
don't worry i was just talking out loud lol! it's still a rather alien mindset to me.i hope you fulfill yours too. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 08:40 PM
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
No. The exchange rate is too severe. We're even, Stephen in that regard, despite My SN activation right now, there'll be no refunds or returns to external parties during this Venus transit, sad to say. *pout* you're the devil, after all... Driving a hard bargain is your "thing"... Mine is avoiding Hades. . Lol
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violet7887
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posted December 26, 2012 08:52 PM
^^ aww did you watch rise of the gaurdians too? ...im such a kid sometimes but i loved it!....lol maybe you should have posted this one instead...(sand-man)  hes more powerful isnt he? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 08:58 PM
haha violet u r so cute!  yes i saw it. maybe i am both of them but i really get more flashes of the villain. his face shape, features, and hair. i could look like that with a lil charcoal lol!IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted December 26, 2012 09:11 PM
lol...yeah it is cute that you watched it too! i can see what you mean lol but he dies in the end so stick to sand-man. then we can be friends cuase id me jack frost IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 26, 2012 10:40 PM
i had hoped u were the toof fairy! 12. singing lessons IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted December 27, 2012 12:58 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
i had hoped u were the toof fairy! 12. singing lessons
hmm.. shes purrtty too..but i feel like him more. ..lol imagine a girl version of him.
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sand
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posted December 27, 2012 01:04 AM
13. pay for readings (tarot, astro, in person, online)IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 27, 2012 01:55 AM
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hmm.. shes purrtty too..but i feel like him more. ..lol imagine a girl version of him.
my sister said he was cute! libra influence lol! IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 27, 2012 02:01 AM
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hmm.. shes purrtty too..but i feel like him more. ..lol imagine a girl version of him.
btw i tink i underestimated you too! ..i mean if ur like him! IP: Logged |
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