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hippichick
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posted April 23, 2013 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am 51.

I have had the nice cars, the beautiful homes, kidz grown, trying to the the 21 yr old out of the nest...

I am about to put my house on the market, cant take care of it anymore, too big.

The plan:

When the house sells I am going to help my youngest and her bfriend rent a home. I will shack up with my mother for a while, till my credit gets back to being excellent like is used to be.

I will sell the sports car, keep the old truck at my mom's house for her or my daughters to use when they need a truck.

I will buy a travel trailer and a bigger truck that can haul a small trailer.

I will do travel nursing for a while, then settle at my grandpa's lake home in northern Indiana.

My mother, my brother and myself agreed that we want to keep the house in the family as it has been in my grandpa's family since the early 1900's, well the property anyway.

When my grandpa passes I will live at the lake.

The big city has never appealed to me anyway and San Antonio is growing every day.

I want the simple life.....

My soul craves it~

Thanks for reading~

terri~

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posted April 23, 2013 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That made me smile to read.

And that is SO you! I can see it now.... !!!

What a great dream to have! I'm in the process of simplifing too.

Hope it all happens quicker and better than you imagined.

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hippichick
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posted April 23, 2013 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, T

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Lexxigramer
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posted April 23, 2013 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lexxigramer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow!
Despite woes in your life in the past;
sounds like you were also lucky in some ways;
and oh my the lovely and very fortunate options to have now!
You know that you are very blessed.

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posted April 24, 2013 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
make sure to keep us posted with photos when you do...
and along your way....

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posted April 24, 2013 03:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for somethingexcellent     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mom is 56 and only buying a house now...I gotta help her with that mortgage! "Death contract". I kinda wanted to move out soon-ish but I don't want to leave her with a house to pay off...

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hippichick
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posted April 24, 2013 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
Wow!
Despite woes in your life in the past;
sounds like you were also lucky in some ways;
and oh my the lovely and very fortunate options to have now!
You know that you are very blessed.

Yes, Lexx I am very blessed, I even think of all the stress and trouble in my life now and in the past as blessings for they are windows to look thru and see the otherside.

Scorpio asc, nothing can beat me down, totally, just makes me stronger

t~

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posted April 24, 2013 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
My mom is 56 and only buying a house now...I gotta help her with that mortgage! "Death contract". I kinda wanted to move out soon-ish but I don't want to leave her with a house to pay off...

Why dont you want to leave her, at her age with a traditional mortgage, the house may outlive her.

It's her choice and I am pro buying real estate,, you really cant loose on realestate.

My house is my savings account.. Lots of people especially my mother dont understand why I have not invested in stocks, bonds, etc. but it is because of my job. As a RN if I ever were to be sued in Texas they cant take my house. They can take everything but they have to leave you with one car and one house.

After I vagabond myself around, and the place I settle will be not mortgaged since it is part of the estate my grandpa will leave my mother, brother and I,, I will eventually buy something somewhere, for the tax write off if nothing else.

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posted April 24, 2013 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ps my home is worth approx 170-180k, I owe 70k on it....yea...my equity is my savings.

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posted April 24, 2013 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by T:
make sure to keep us posted with photos when you do...
and along your way....

O. I will! I am tired this week from working on the house so much.

Bfriend, not bfriend, whoever he is to me now did alot of work on it before he went back to Ohio, but there is still much to do. And I am doing it all myself.

I am going for the wow curb appeal, the wow entrance into the living room then hopefully the little things wont matter so much.

It is a beautiful home, I call her Mirkwood, after the forest in The Hobbit, cause the first time I looked at her the backyard was filled with spiders, rats, etc, lol!

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posted April 24, 2013 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It sounds beautiful. I'm sure you'll make a lovely new home up north and enjoy the change in scenery too. Nice to be able to live on a lake.

Enjoy the journey.

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posted April 24, 2013 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by T:
It sounds beautiful. I'm sure you'll make a lovely new home up north and enjoy the change in scenery too. Nice to be able to live on a lake.

Enjoy the journey.


Especially for a Pisces!!!

My grandma was a Scorpio and my grandpa is a Cancer....perfect place for us water's and all his gardens and my Bull moon.....LOVE it there!!!

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posted April 24, 2013 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
was trying to post a pic of the lake, photobucket is not cooperating

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hippichick
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posted April 24, 2013 02:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
geezzzzz wont post pics anymore

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posted April 24, 2013 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can you try it from here

http://tinypic.com/

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posted April 24, 2013 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The shoreline from my grandpa's lake house last December~

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posted April 24, 2013 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dee:
can you try it from here

http://tinypic.com/


THANKS DEE!!!!!!!

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posted April 25, 2013 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 25, 2013 07:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mockingbird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lovely

Just looking at those lake pics makes my muscles unbunch and brings a smile to my fave

- A fellow Pisces Sun, Scorp Asc

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If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device.
Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects.

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posted April 25, 2013 11:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Lovely

Just looking at those lake pics makes my muscles unbunch and brings a smile to my fave

- A fellow Pisces Sun, Scorp Asc


I LOVE it there, no sirens, people still leave their doors unlocked,its a small 600 acre private lake, neighbors take care of eachother....

Paradise!

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posted April 25, 2013 01:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is great news, hippichick. I hope you find life much richer and more satisfying, close to nature. Best wishes!

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posted April 26, 2013 02:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I think, one of the things that drives me is creating a simple life, but a quality one.

It's difficult to describe, however, what if one does not have the gadgets, or simply uses those that others cast aside, to make something useful in the same way?

A timely piece of knowledge can change everything.

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posted April 26, 2013 02:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hippichick:
Especially for a Pisces!!!

My grandma was a Scorpio and my grandpa is a Cancer....perfect place for us water's and all his gardens and my Bull moon.....LOVE it there!!!


Yeah, it sounds like the perfect blend of earth and water scenery to go with those elements in your chart.

Nothing is more relaxing to me than being near a body of water. Which is why I never live too far from a coast. I could not imagine living in the middle of the country. I think i'd die (though they have lakes out there...i guess, the ocean is what i prefer)

Cannot wait to see and hear about life from you once you get up there and settled.

Love the pic too. It reminds me of Lake Winnipesaukee and some other lakes in New England from when I was a kid.

Doesnt get much better. I'm looking forward to finding a more peaceful quiet spot to set some roots myself.

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hippichick
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posted May 05, 2013 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi friends! A change of plans.

Seeing a therapist now, for PTSD and depression.

He just shook his head after taking page after page after page of my history..

He said, I have ptst, on ptsd, on ptst.....

So, My new plan is to sell my home, and move up north to the lake.

My grandpa still has he little cottage behind the main house. No plumbing, so I will move in there, small 600, sq feet, have a bathroom added and a kitchen sink plumbed.

I will heal there body, mind and soul....

So excited!!!

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