luckab
Newflake Posts: 1
From: houston,tx
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 21, 2013 12:21 AM
  
Hi !I am new to this forum. I am a strong taurean female in the early 30's.I met this Capricorn guy while reading for my license exams 3 months ago.He is 5 years younger to me.This is not the first time I ever had a study partner and have excellent touch with them as my friends till today.But this one was quite different. We seemed to click right from the first day. Initially it was strictly studies. But one day he caught me singing and realized that I have other talents other than academics. The same talents which we both shared. He used to mention to me that I had the tactics to get him to my side with my punning compliments and that I was a unique piece who possessed all the talents he loved.He also told me that I was the only girl whom he took time to listen to all the emotional blah blah and that I was the one who taught him tolerance which he never had even for his sister. Also, he kept mentioning all along re how close he was to his sister and that how innocent both of us were. He also loved the fact re how close I was also to my sister and family.Don't get me wrong. He never flirted or misused our friendship in any way. But we shared the basic chemistry. Even without looking at my face , he would know when I was upset or angry and will never start studying till I was fine. Everyday after our studies, we used to have our own music sessions for almost 2 hrs where more than me he opened up re his college life, friends etc. Once he even asked my date of birth and photo to check my horoscope for career prospectus.It was then I mentioned to him regarding how I am mutually getting separated from my spouse after years of misunderstanding. He was totally understanding and our study and music sessions continued for at least a month. It was strange feeling which he dismissed initially but guess he also got drawn into it. One week before we decided to end the study, he mentioned that guys don't mention anything abt their friends to their siblings unless they are really close. A week later , he told me that he told about me to his sister ( that too early in the morning). Few days later, he mentioned that he wants to read on his own too as his exam was only 2 wks apart. We ended our study mutually. After that he only picked up the phone once normally when I called him . After that I had to leave him 2-3 messages before he would call me. This was then that he also wanted me to talk to his sister during one of the phone calls which I did. She was very sweet but we only stuck to her topics ( nothing abt her brother). Few days later, again he went back into his shell. Never responded to phone calls again. End of the day, I wrote a long email that how upset I was and then he responded back via text that his nature is like that and there's no offense from my side and apologized if his nature hurt me. After that I only called him after his exams just to know how he did. He never picked up the phone. I sent him an email again saying that there is no point in talking to him and went to sleep. I get a text re when my exams were at 3 am . He never responded to any of my questions re exam but only texted me for the dates of my exam. Eventually, I gave up and gave him the dates after which he wished GL and never responded to any of my messages after that. But I got notification that he is still awake and reading the messages.In the end after 3-4 messages , I told him that I am very disappointed and would never call or text him . i also mentioned that he will always be my best friend and that I will pray that he will get a job.No reply for that too and none so far even to wish me for my exams which I did 2 days ago.I sent him an inspirational poem a day before his exam for which he texted saying thanks and how I am preparing. Never replied back to the text.My question is : why he should he totally avoid me all of a sudden. Could have just carried on as friends which we were.Will he ever come back after all the common bond we shared for each other?Can someone kindly advice what I should do as I became really hurt by the way he is doing this to me but deep inside I did develop feelings for him. I know this is a long post but would appreciate if someone can guide me.IP: Logged |
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posted December 21, 2013 11:01 AM