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T
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posted December 27, 2014 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a place - a cozy off-road for friends to gather amidst the hustle and bustle and sometimes dangerous neighborhoods and unsavory characters that we find on LL. I said: "a place for friends to gather".

Which means, if you are someone who is only looking to start trouble and make people uncomfortable with your presence, then i suggest starting your own "campground" & sticking to threads there. What is so hard about that? While yes, anyone can post in whatever threads they want, there is no reason to post in threads in an attempt to start drama or start trouble where there was none. There is no reason to post in threads in which you know people you have instigated trouble with before hang out in.

I'm asking that the handful of people who like to start trouble find some better things to do. There are a bunch of people who come here to connect with people they have an affinity with. It's tiring when others butt in in order to try and disrupt the harmony - relentlessly.

The name Camp Cordial came from the last post in this closed thread:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum32/HTML/000486-27.html

It's a shame that almost everyone in it was being cordial and things were going along fine until the usual suspects came along and disrupted it. Pages upon pages of comments and instigations had been ignored, but there's only so much one can take.

Bella, I'm sorry you are going through now, what i have experienced for years here.

If anyone can see through serious ******** it's you. I know how often painful it can be to witness - or to witness and not speak up about.

I'm tired of a few rotten apples spoiling the bunch.

Here at Camp Cordial you must go through an application process and background check before you are allowed to camp out here.

If you are turned down, please start a camp of your own and stay there. This place is big enough for all of us. When you have had issues with certain people here, please do not constantly post in their threads and try to be all up in their faces. Most people have enough to deal with in their own lives and don't need to come here and deal with a few people who have nothing better to do than make flippant or passive aggressive remarks in their threads, just to try and get noticed.

Can we all respect each other's personal spaces and not intrude on certain people's safe havens please?

I've gathered some tinder and firewood and would like to see some familiar faces gather here around the glow.

Hobo sandwiches for all!

(except those who are only looking to start drama)

To them: Please go away.

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Barbiegirl19
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posted December 27, 2014 11:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
T, why can't you just let the crap go? Why create another thread adding in your last two cents about the closed thread? To stir and create more upheaval and drama that's why.

If the passive aggressive, snarky comments continue I will close every thread that you make. This crap needs to end. I'm sick of every darn time a thread gets closed the drama continues in a newly created one.

Just stop it.
Don't even bring it up.

Move on. Don't start a thread about the closed one. Start fresh and positive, be happy.

Ignore and be cordial with those that you aren't fond of. LL is not limited to you or anyone else who feels that their entitled. Any member is allowed to post where ever they would like.

Thank you.

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posted December 27, 2014 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Barbie. I do ignore those I'm not fond of. Some people here have a hard time returning the favor. And that's what I'm pointing out here.

This thread is not about drama or trying to continue it. Read again. I'm starting a new thread in hopes that the old one that was closed unnecessarily can continue with the same energy.

Sorry you see it as passive aggressive but it's not. I'm simply asking that a few people here who continuously like to cause trouble with certain other members, just keep to themselves and not do so. I'm trying to STOP the drama. If you can't see that, then I'm not sure what to say to you.

I'm probably more sick of the thread closings than you are. I'm a peaceful person and I like to have fun here, believe it or not.

Things can go on just fine if you don't inject any drama where there wasn't meant to be any.

Have a nice night.

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Barbiegirl19
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posted December 27, 2014 11:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The same could be applied to those who constantly complain and cry foe about it, and are the one's who continue to be passive and rude in their comments. That's continuing drama is it not?

Just please let it go. That's all I'm asking. Your comments about the thread being closed weren't necessary nor pertained to this new thread. Keep it positive, sweet. You can't go forward when you're constantly looking back.

Hope you have nice night as well. Happy New Year!

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posted December 27, 2014 11:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for your hospitality, T.

Ever hear the song Big Rock Candy Mountain?

I always liked that. Just...vanishing.

Pisces moon conjunct tr Neptune must be a real problem. I'm already feeling it I think...lack of motivation, shifting priorities over towards spirituality, at the expense of more practical details. Too much Neptune.

Anyway, I'm careful to not belittle others' struggles and like when people extend the same courtesy to me.

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posted December 27, 2014 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Barbie,

Starting a new thread has nothing to do with not letting "crap go". It's another attempt at rising above the crap that goes on here and continuing on with the good vibes that made up the majority of the other thread.

"Stir and create more upheaval and drama"??? Where?

All I want to do is have one thread - ONE THREAD, where friends can gather uninterrupted by passive aggressiveness from others. Is that "continuing drama"? I think not.

Yeah this crap does need to end.

And it starts here.

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posted December 27, 2014 11:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of my favorite paintings of all time:

"Laugh Kills Lonesome" by Charlie Russell.

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posted December 27, 2014 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
The same could be applied to those who constantly complain and cry foe about it, and are the one's who continue to be passive and rude in their comments. That's continuing drama is it not?

Just please let it go. That's all I'm asking. Your comments about the thread being closed weren't necessary nor pertained to this new thread. Keep it positive, sweet. You can't go forward when you're constantly looking back.

Hope you have nice night as well. Happy New Year!


Barbie, it has been let go sweetie. I referenced the other thread because this thread pertained to it.

It's let go, it's gone. I have no problem keeping it positive. I hope you can do the same. Thanks for the "moderation".

Happy New Year!

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Faith
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posted December 28, 2014 12:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We get "ignored" way too much.

Like...do you HAVE to lock a thread because someone mildly alluded to your constant interference, creating a vicious cycle of lockdowns and complaints?

Let it go.

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Barbiegirl19
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posted December 28, 2014 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Barbiegirl19     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Keep the thread on topic or I will close it.
Let it go.

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Randall
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posted December 28, 2014 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Closing this.

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