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Topic: I am devastated--The doctors messed up my father
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 28, 2014 10:40 PM
It was one doctor. I am so broken up. My father should have gotten a second opinion but really, I think he did not want to make the doctor mad  This guy butchered his hip. He is in agony and they have him on Oxycotin. He is the type that never complains--Cancer ASC with Cancer Moon and mars in the 12th. My mother says he is screaming in agony. I just can't get it out of my mind. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 51307 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 28, 2014 10:43 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 28, 2014 11:00 PM
Thank you RandallYou know what feels awful? I tried to help him with natural means. I told him to go to the Wheatgrass Institute. People just won't think for themselves. They want the "safety" of the doctors.
There is no safety. Look at you. You dealt with your blood pressure with natural means, not drugs.
I mean, trying to educate people about natural methods feels so futile and then you see what happens when people won't listen and your heart breaks. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10922 From: Wankety Wankerson Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 28, 2014 11:08 PM
I'm sorry Ami.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 12:18 AM
Thank you AG.I can't sleep. I am so upset ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 12:18 AM
Juni----please don't post on my threads. Thank you------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 51307 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 29, 2014 12:26 AM
The natural way takes longer, but it's safer. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 07:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: The natural way takes longer, but it's safer.
Yes, MUCH safer, Randall. Thanks for your support. I could not sleep hardly at all last night 
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florence Knowflake Posts: 846 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 29, 2014 08:59 AM
Sorry to hear that happened.Someone I know had a problem with an operation due to the dr not knowing properly what was going on. It was very bad at first but she is improved a lot since not long after. Hope it turns out it gets better soon like this for your dad. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Moderator Posts: 5461 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 29, 2014 09:21 AM
Oh no So sorry to hear that. I think getting second opinions depending on the situation, and the type of doctor are pretty important. Next time, if there's ever a next time, you make sure you stress the importance. Make sure you tell him to not overuse those OxyContins. I used to work in a pharmacy and the amount of people who overuse those things is incredible. Tell him to only use them when he really needs them, they are very strong and highly addictive. Not to mention they're also narcotics meaning you have to wait so many days to be able to refill them because they're regulated and many will do anything to get more, and I mean anything. It'll be okay, it'll get better. I'll keep your family in my prayers. Stay strong for him. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 4616 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 29, 2014 09:25 AM
This is more of a Sweet Peas thread isn't it? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 09:40 AM
Thank you Florence dear. The support of my lovely friends in here helps a great deal!------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 10:00 AM
They treated him like horse meat, Barbie. I pray all this brings him to God. Please, pray, too. I would appreciate that so much!  ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 10:29 AM
It has another scenario behind the scenes that haunts me. The scenario is that he was always a wimp. He would never stand up. He had an abusive wife( my mother) and he sucked up and up and up. Now, he was too much of a wimp to get a second opinion so this idiot butchered him. I don't think he wanted to make the guy mad by getting a second opinion. That is so pitiful. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Barbiegirl19 Moderator Posts: 5461 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 29, 2014 11:01 AM
Poor guy Some people are just that way. He'll figure it out eventually. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 11:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: Poor guy Some people are just that way. He'll figure it out eventually.
I want him to be saved. Please, pray for that Barbie!
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 11:12 AM
I just called the doctor. I was so strong. You would not believe. He is calling me back and I have my list of questions for him. We have several doctors in the family so that won't make him happy lol------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 03:25 PM
I just talked to the doctor. I was very strong and very direct and asked all my questions. I had the situation wrong and this man is a genuine caring doctor who has great respect for my father. I could tell that. They were not giving him enough medication after surgery and that is why he was "screaming all night" They are going to do so now and I hope that he will be on the mend. Thank you so much to everyone who responded to this thread. That is the heart of community!------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Catalina Knowflake Posts: 2794 From: shamballa Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 01, 2015 02:50 PM
I can't imagine aCancer Asc not Complaining! That appears to be their raison d'etre!And Yes the first few days after hip surgery can be excruciating. Not all medicine is bogus, though i have seen doctors try to minimize patients fears by underplaying the after effects. ..to their horror when they came to! ...glad he's mending. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 51307 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 01, 2015 07:26 PM
Glad he's going to get better.IP: Logged |
Valentine Knowflake Posts: 75 From: Canada Registered: Dec 2014
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posted January 02, 2015 11:50 PM
Amy I'm late reading your posts, I truly hope your father is now on the mend.  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 03, 2015 07:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Glad he's going to get better.
Thank you, Randall. You are so kind to everyone. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 03, 2015 08:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Valentine: Amy I'm late reading your posts, I truly hope your father is now on the mend. 
Thank you Valentine, dear  ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 60624 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 24, 2015 10:52 PM
He is doing better, I am very happy to report.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Barbiegirl19 Moderator Posts: 5461 From: Pluto with DeepFreeze Registered: Jul 2013
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posted January 24, 2015 10:58 PM
So happy to hear that he's doing better, Ami. That's wonderful. I'll continue to keep your family in my prayers. IP: Logged |