Thread Closed  Topic Closed
  Lindaland
  Hearth And Home
  @ LeeLoo

Post New Topic  
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   @ LeeLoo
Voix_de_la_Mer
Knowflake

Posts: 1336
From: You.
Registered: Aug 2011

posted May 22, 2015 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have one question.

Will you please stop misquoting and misrepresenting me on LL?

That is all I want to know.

IP: Logged

Ami Anne
Moderator

Posts: 62454
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010

posted May 22, 2015 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This goes to H and H.

------------------
Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.


http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/

IP: Logged

Voix_de_la_Mer
Knowflake

Posts: 1336
From: You.
Registered: Aug 2011

posted May 22, 2015 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does it?

I'm sure LeeLoo said in her thread "Clarifications", in Interpersonal that responses should go in Sweet Peas.

This is a response to that thread.

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11962
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 22, 2015 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dp

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11962
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 22, 2015 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
I have one question.

Will you please stop misquoting and misrepresenting me on LL?

That is all I want to know.


I didn't. I am sorry if I hurt you in any way with anything I've said and I wish I could find better words to say it. This was not about you, your personality or your mental health as you implied, it was about the theory and the expectations and the place. How about we both take a break now and reflect on all the things that were said for a while?

Also, if you feel the two of us still need to discuss about this, please feel free to contact me by my email in IA.

IP: Logged

Ami Anne
Moderator

Posts: 62454
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010

posted May 22, 2015 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is a very sensitive topic and brings out deep feelings in people. That can't be helped.

------------------
Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.


http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/

IP: Logged

Voix_de_la_Mer
Knowflake

Posts: 1336
From: You.
Registered: Aug 2011

posted May 22, 2015 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I didn't. I am sorry if I hurt you in any way with anything I've said and I wish I could find better words to say it. This was not about you, your personality or your mental health as you implied, it was about the theory and the expectations and the place. How about we both take a break now and reflect on all the things that were said for a while?

Also, if you feel the two of us still need to discuss about this, please feel free to contact me by my email in IA.


You have misrepresented me publicly, it is only decent that you retract it publicly.

There is no shame in admitting that you read me wrongly LeeLoo, it happens.
I've done it myself.

So, will you stop misrepresenting me on LL?

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11962
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 22, 2015 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't represent you, I am not your lawyer or mis-lawyer, I represented my own views and motivated my decision as moderator because of some comments that were on the forum which made the clarification necessary, in my eyes. I believe I have the right to both these things, express my opinion and motivate a decision. It's also part of the moderation attributions, to make this kind of decision. It was a difficult situation for a moderator and I don't think you put yourself in my shoes.

I can see you have the need to talk about these things that happened, I can understand that and where it comes from. Are you? I am willing to give it more of my time if you are willing to discuss it openly and respectfully. I know you perceived this as disrespect, but that's not where it comes from.

IP: Logged

LeeLoo2014
Moderator

Posts: 11962
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 22, 2015 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And Voix, I don't believe you genuinely condone abuse, just that some things you say, in my view, may lead, indirectly and unintentionally, to this. But this is just my opinion on the things you said, others may have a totally different view. I just felt like telling you this.

Your whole story is torture to me. I won't lie to you, when you speak about what happened to you, all I want is to find a way to go back and prevent those things from happening. Hence what you perceive as patronizing tone, I know you hate that, because all I see is the little girl. There is a gap that this person created in you, he stole this from you: you didn't see a man who'd rather cut out his genitals than touch a 4 year old girl, or a woman who would rip the jugular off such a person, with her teeth, rather than let something like this happen. Without any fault of yours, you didn't see the love people have for children, a real man, a real father. This was stolen from you, and now you're building this bridge back. We can't change what happened to us, what matters is that we are out of there, we survived, we have a new life, we live two times or several times.

Just wanted to say I love that little girl and you now and everything I said comes from this, even if I sometimes don't find the right words and that I am terribly sorry if any of those words hurt you in any way.

IP: Logged

Odette
Moderator

Posts: 5458
From:
Registered: May 2012

posted May 22, 2015 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Voix - I am very sorry this is happening to you - that you are being targeted time and time again.
It's upsetting that no one is putting an end to this.

Please contact Randall.
There is nothing I can do about it. If I could, I would.

IP: Logged

Odette
Moderator

Posts: 5458
From:
Registered: May 2012

posted May 22, 2015 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
.

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 53208
From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009

posted May 22, 2015 10:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can we, please, lay this subject to rest? Closing this.

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Open Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2015

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a