posted October 05, 2015 09:48 PM
I'm at that point in my life where baby fever is kicking in and I feel "ready" to have a child. I am 28 years old, my boyfriend is also 28. We love each other dearly and really want to have a child together. I am just scared that I will have complications and body image issues with the pregnancy and afterward. I am overweight. I'm 5'6" and weigh about 215 lbs. Apparently I carry it well, but that doesn't change the fact that my BMI is over 30.
Should I wait until I lose some weight before trying to conceive? Is it possible to bounce back and get in shape after the baby? I've seen plenty of moms who got in GREAT shape after having children. I know it takes time and dedication. I am just vain and really scared about sagging skin. I already have tons of stretch marks so I'm prepared for that. I am afraid any physical beauty I have will vanish. I know it sounds silly but it matters a lot to me!
Am I just being ridiculous?
Also...aren't there higher chances of getting gestational diabetes and a large baby because of being overweight?? How can I prevent this during my pregnancy? Any of you had a similar situation and care to share your experiences?
My big question is..should I wait? I don't want to wait too long..because I can never get time back.
Lindaland
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posted October 05, 2015 09:48 PM
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