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Nackie
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posted March 01, 2005 08:30 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus is, in my opinion, the most important planet in my chart.

Venus 0.26° Leo
MC 5.31° Leo

Venus makes the most aspects in my chart (except the MC, which has 9 aspects), the most direct ones being:

semisquare sun 0°
trine Chiron 0°
trine N.Node 0°

Otherwise it aspects these planets:

square Asc (libra!)
square moon (taurus!)
square Uranus
trine Neptune
conj. MC

I didn't realize that Venus also rules finances. Interesting.

Nackie

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Randall
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posted April 14, 2005 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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lalalinda
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posted April 14, 2005 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Nackie,

The importance of the 4th and 10th house cusps (Midhaven and Nadir) are never stressed strongly enough. Yes Venus is strong in your chart, it is your most elevated planet. By position its confidant, knowing its own value.


(Sue Tompkins)

Venus conjunct the MC might be indicative of a Venusian career; a vocation in art, beauty, diplomacy or somewhere where there is a requirement for taste, comparison or harmony. Certainly, whatever the actual work, the individual will be able to bring diplomatic skills to it. Usually people with this placement know how to charm and get on easily with those in authority. Venus conjunct MC might also be expected to confer public popularity, or at least an urge towards trying to create it. Some with this configuration may become well-known because of their romantic life or the relationships they form. Still others might wish, beyond all else, to be known as a loving parent.

Venus on either end of the MC-IC axis may be descriptive of the experience of their own parent(s) as being very loving or popular. For others it may be more descriptive of a parent's vocational activities or their wishes for the career of the child.

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Secret Garden
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posted April 14, 2005 10:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey everyone

My Venus is in the seventh house (I think thats significant), and Aries.

It sextiles Sun, Mars, trine Uranus and Mars, but opposing Pluto

I know that opposing Pluto usually means power struggles in relationships and possessiveness of the partner (so true ) but anything else to add to that?

If my Mars and Venus is sextile and Venus is in house 7, shouldn't that mean that I have a pretty smooth love life? Its quite the contrary, every relationship every SINGLE one thus far has ended sourly.

Is there any way this can indicate whether I will have a marriage by choice or arranged marriage? I want a marriage by choice but may be pressured to an arranged marriage.

Love
SG

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jwhop
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posted April 21, 2005 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jwhop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Libra, 12th House

Venus
Trines Saturn
Trines Uranus
Conjuncts Neptune
Sextiles Pluto
Sextiles Midheaven

Most exact aspect...Trines Uranus in Gemini @0.32*

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Peri
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posted May 18, 2005 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Aries, 2nd house

conj. mars
sext. jupiter, saturn
trines neptune conj. moon
squares asc/dsc
opp.pluto

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Aphrodite
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posted May 18, 2005 09:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow! Great insight lalalinda

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moonstar77
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posted May 21, 2005 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstar77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've always thought my Venus was a bit funny. It's in Taurus in the 11th, and has exact aspects to 4 other planets (by degree).

Venus trine Jupiter
Venus trine Neptune
Venus opposite Saturn
Venus opposite Pluto

I seem to have the light and dark side from these aspects. I've noticed that I do get along with people pretty easily. However, people do tend to idealize me or I idealize them. The pluto aspect I'm very aware of because I've already noticed the control and power issues in a relationship. It's not horrible though. It's just something that I can improve on. The saturn aspect puts a damper on my relationships in that it does limit the amount of people I am close to or who get close to me. However the ones that I am close to, the relationships are never superficial; they are very deep and worthwhile

Overall, it's not too bad I guess. I've learned to work with the oppositions by being a bit more detached when forming relationships. It makes sense in a way I think because the 11th is the native Aquarius house and colors my Venus in that way. So the way I've been handling the rough aspects of this planet is by carrying out that famous Aquarian detachment.

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Randall
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posted August 02, 2005 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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nove731
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posted August 02, 2005 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have my Venus in Pisces, in the Sixth House. I think the closest aspect is Venus Square Moon (Sagittarius/3rd House).

It's kinda like a double whammy. I have my DSC in Pisces, too.

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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 12, 2005 06:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My venus is in taurus in in my 11th house along with my chiron and moon which are also in Taurus.


Venus Quincunx Neptune 2°42
Venus Quincunx Pluto 1°17
Venus Sextile Ascendant 4°36
Moon Conjunction Venus 6°38

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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
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Hexxie
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posted October 29, 2005 09:26 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Venus is 8*Scorpio in the 5th. Biggest aspect is my Venus conjunct Uranus(5*Scorp). All of the aspects are:
~Venus Conjunct Uranus
~Moon Square Venus
~Venus Square Saturn
~Venus Trine Midheaven
~Venus Trine Ascendant

Venus is the 'square' point in my T-square with my Aqua Moon & Leo Saturn being the opposition. Guess this is a pretty important role for Venus too!


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alanabelle86
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posted October 29, 2005 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Scorpio in the 1st house
....conjunct Mercury
....square Mars
....square Moon
....trine Jupiter
....conjunct Pluto
....semisextile Uranus


Libra RISING conj Sun & Pluto
...Libra on Cusp on 12th and 1st houses

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Lemingtyne
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posted November 02, 2005 09:35 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus is my least aspected planet.
It's in Sagittarius/11th House.

Sextile Saturn? (the orb is greater than 6 degrees)
Conjunct Uranus? (the orb is greater than 9 degrees)
Quincunx Imum Coeli
Semisextile Midheaven
...and there are some semisquares, a decile and a biquintile, but I tend to ignore those very minor aspects.

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Libra Sun, Taurus Moon, Capricorn Rising

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Cassy
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posted November 03, 2005 01:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cassy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Sagitarius 7th
Venus Conjunction Jupiter 1°42
Venus Conjunction Neptune 1°42
Venus Sextile Pluto 0°48
Venus Opposition Ascendant 2°21

Sun Capricorn 8th
Moon Taurus 1st
Ascendant Taurus

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lalalinda
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posted December 19, 2005 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow, glad I opened this thread

Peri your Venus is dignified in the 2nd

Moonstar, your Venus suggest issues with trust (opposite Saturn) and control (opposite Pluto)

Nove, your square with the Moon suggest issues on the role women play or how they act. This goes back to your mom.

Mystic Gemini, your conjunction suggest beauty and weight.

Hexxie, a conjunction will be felt befor the other Venus aspects in your chart. With Uranus, strange tastes. Could be interesting

alanabelle, conjunct Mercury and Pluto. Some things you just don't need to know sweetie. You dig deep.

Lemingtyne, I need to look at your chart. Venus is important because it is your Ruler.

Cassy, sweet! 7th house Venus is dignified, conjunct Jupiter and Neptune, I'm sure you're very precious to those who love you. You have endearing qualities

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Randall
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posted December 20, 2005 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Brilliant, as always.

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"There is no use trying," said Alice; "one can't believe impossible things." "I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." Lewis Carroll

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Stargazer
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posted December 20, 2005 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stargazer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus in virgo as part of a 7th house Stellium...

only 2 aspects
Sun conjunct Venus
Venus Quincunx Saturn (the most exact..2')

This is also the only aspect Saturn makes in my chart.... yet it expains alot about the karma i have endured...... i really don't like venus so much

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nove731
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posted December 25, 2005 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Nove, your square with the Moon suggest issues on the role women play or how they act. This goes back to your mom.

I'm confused. What does that mean? :?

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lalalinda
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posted December 26, 2005 02:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Nove,

We learn how to be women from our mother, the roles women play. This is an aspect of confusion with your role. A lot of times the mother is not given enough credit or the father continously slaps her down (verbally).

Venus square Moon

Astrology aspects - Venus square Moon

This indicates probably inner stress and tensions related to your social and intimate relationships; your emotions will be the battleground.

These emotions will feel extremely powerful; and your fear of losing control over them may result in repressive behavior which tends to avoid relationships that awaken deeper emotional responses. Yet at the same time, you need this emotional involvement and those intense feelings. With your emotions and feelings being polarized, you often prefer to retreat from commitment, rejecting the personal obligations that may be required from relationship.

These behavior patterns can be seen in a starker light at times when commitment is required in relationships. Because you refuse to acknowledge the depth of your feelings, deep-rooted fears begin to rise. These can include fear of losing freedom, fear of another's power over your emotions, and fear of experiencing love's transformative fires. Once someone begins to impose his or her needs, demands, and will on you, his / her expectations of your predictable behaviour often awakens a rebellious attitude within you. Your insecurity and fears result in contrary behavior that can create relationship conflict just when real progress could be made.

Your reactionary drive for independence and your tendency to reject signs of possessive behaviour or demands for your exclusive loyalty may shatter any potentially restrictive relationship. While there may be valid grounds for rejecting such tendencies, your reaction mainly reflects inner fears and unresolved personal issues, and tends to be negative, resulting in heartbreak and disillusionment for yourself and others, and enforcing an increasingly bitter and cynical view of the nature of intimate affairs.

Other behaviour patterns associated with this square include self-indulgence and sensuality. You may become involved with indiscriminate affairs and unsuitable partners as a consequence of lacking self-understanding, coupled with a deep need for relationships. Often, attempts at breaking free of threatening restrictions only propel you into other, equally unsatisfying relationships. If you adopt a more passive response to your relationship stresses - instead of taking the active and dominating role - you may experience others taking advantage of your initial trust, manipulating your emotions and needs, and using you as a support and foil for their own emotional tensions and confusions.

Sometimes emotions blind you to the real feelings of a partner, until a situation occurs in which, to your surprise, you realize that their feelings are not as powerful as yours. This tendency toward illusions also spills over into your social relationships, where you often misinterpret the honesty and sincerity of others. You can lack understanding of their motivations, so that judgements are seriously affected. Yet this also springs from your lack of self-knowledge; getting to know yourself better will help you to understand others too, and this will enable you to avoid unsuitable relationships. By analyzing the types of people that attract you and the resulting types of relationship, you can expose your hidden needs and behavior patterns, and become aware of those unconscious traits which shape your choices.

At some stages in your life, you may need to withdraw a little to gain these perspectives, especially when you are trapped in a repetitive whirl of failed relationships. Your needs are still urgent and pressing; but transforming attitudes through self-understanding may be crucially necessary. Certain patterns active in you are probably derived from childhood experiences and conditioning. THe relationship with your parents may have been unsatisfactory, especially in shaping emotional responses, which is why you now have ambivalent and contradictory feelings of need and denial when commitment is expected. There may even be feelings of guilt and non-acceptance of your emotions. A withdrawal from relationship commitment could stem from a similar withdrawal of a parent from you during childhood. You may now unconsciously seek to punish a parent by rejecting others who try to get close to you.

Choice of partner is extremely important, and the key to relationship success; but the art of choosing a suitable partner depends on self-knowledge, so that both are complementary and in essential harmony with each other. Your early choices are likely to be unwise; and any early partnership will probably run into troubled waters due to your inner confusions and unresolved issues. New perspectives on yourself and your needs may be achieved through a transformative period of relative isolation from relationships, allowing a pause to dissolve patterns through greater understanding; this can enable insight, emotional maturity, and greater independence. Personal therapy or relationship counselling could be important to progress in future parnterships. The main obstacle to relationship success and sustaining a love affair is often your unconscious patterns; transcend them, and a new world of satsifying experience can open for you.

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geminirising26
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posted January 04, 2006 12:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I am now officially joining this class! :-)

Ok, Venus..

Honestly, I never understood this in my chart.

Now,I am somewhat troubled by this Venus in the 6th. What does it REALY mean? Some suggest I will fall into relaitonships on the job, and hate "dirty work" but what is the nitty gritty interpretation of this aspect???

I am troubled by my Venus semisquare mars and pluto. Am I antisocial? Lack relationship skills? Ok, maybe some control issues but with the semisquare, to what extent?

My venus is also conjunct uranus.

So, with the planet of love and social skills in the house of work, could on say I often confused work with love? Maybe even duty?

I am trying to put this together into something cohesive....a "venus profile" lol.

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Mystic Gemini
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posted January 04, 2006 01:30 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Mystic Gemini, your conjunction suggest beauty and weight.


You mean as in fat or chubby?


I'm not close to being fat or chubby. I do eat like a horse however


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

*´¨)
¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨)
(¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity
Blind my eyes I cannot see
Lost my soul but found my heart
Again a time, when I shall start

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wilsontc
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posted January 05, 2006 12:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
gemini,

You asked:

quote:
I am somewhat troubled by this Venus in the 6th. What does it REALY mean?...what is the nitty gritty interpretation of this aspect???...semisquare...My venus is also conjunct uranus...planet of love and social skills...could on say I often confused...Maybe even duty?...I am trying to put this together into something cohesive...

Since there are so MANY "detailed" interpretations of the aspects, I suggest taking the opposite approach: looking at the "big picture" and then working from there. To do this, we first create the "astro-sentence" (for more about this see Step 5 in the link below):
Venus conjunct Uranus focused in the 6th house

which is (in terms of relationships, for Venus has two "key words" - more about this also in Step 5)

Venus (relationships) conjunct (energy is combined with) Uranus (friends) focused in the 6th house (daily work)

Using ONLY this information we can get the picture of someone who creates friendly relationships at work (close but not TOO close). Notice there is nothing about "confusion" or "duty" (these are energies of Neptune and Saturn, respectively). Now let's add in a few alternative meanings and also note that the 6th house is the house of Venus in its fall (very challenging energy):

Venus (relationships) conjunct (energy is combined with) Uranus (friends, also rebellion, restructuring, other people's self-expression) focused in the 6th house (daily work, routine - house of Venus fall (challenging energy) )

Now, with the same energy, we can get the possibility of a person who rebels against relationships or attempts to restructure them some way on a daily basis, and who has challenges with these daily relationships. This person could also be good at building relationships with others which help the other person to grow and develop in their self-expression.

Which one is "the one"? All...or maybe none. It all has to do with what YOU do with your energy, not with what some "interpretation" TELLS you you should be doing. But this, at least, gives you some ideas about the nature of the energy you have.

Encouraging self-exploration,

Tim

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tenny22
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posted September 13, 2011 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tenny22     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
nice

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Alma Sun
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posted September 13, 2011 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alma Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tightest aspect to Saturn

Venus in Scorpio 2nd house..


conj Saturn 2nd house, 3°22 (out of sign)
conj Mercury 2nd house, 3°50 (out of sign)
trine Moon 10th house, 4°49 (out of sign)

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"Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I'll rise."
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