posted March 29, 2005 12:14 AM            

Ascendants in Love
by Dena L Moore, Intuitive Evolutionary Astrologer

Aries Rising in Love

Male
Aries wants to be the leader, he wants to be in charge. He will say he wants complete honesty, but often this is more of a ploy to get what he wants. What he wants is a conquest, and the more of a challenge the female presents to him, the more eager he will be to win. Aries does not want to hear about any past relationships, and he wants to know that he is the best, the only, the perfect male. He is impulsive, eager, and very ambitious. Sometimes Aries rising has difficulty with sexual expression and a partner who is patient with his anxieties is what he needs sexually. He also needs spontaneity to hold his interest. Once he has won and is comfortable in a relationship, his partner will often find that underneath Aries risings aggressive demeanor is a very sentimental man.

Female
Aries wants to be first and she has no qualms about being independent. In love, Aries rising women are confrontational and expects any man she is involved with to be just as independent as she is. She doesn't want any homey ties and won't settle down until she is satisfied with her accomplishments in the world. When it comes to relationships, she can have problems because she isn't patient enough to let nature take its course. If she wants someone, she lets them know with certainty. She really isn't into lingerie or any of the other feminine dressings (unless she has a strong sun or moon in a feminine sign like Pisces). Like her male counterpart, she can have problems with sexual expression--it can make her feel vulnerable and she hates that. She wants the perfect relationship, and if she can't find it, she is capable of going it alone.

Taurus Rising in Love

Male
Taurus rising is very much focused on two things: material security and sex. He wants that once in a lifetime mate, and wants to be faithful. The trouble is, he is searching for perfection and old-fashioned charm but he often finds himself involved with women of a different sort--human. While searching for the elusive woman, he may go through quite a few romances. Sexually, he is very romantic, earthy, and intense. He needs regular expression of his desires. He is a hard worker and is very determined to find security, for himself and his mate. Taurus rising has a finely tuned sense of touch and smell and this adds to his sexual pleasure. In arguments he tends to win with pure stubbornness.

Female
Taurus rising has self-control, particularly of her emotions. Her quiet determination will get any relationship through rough seas, but only if you don't push her too hard. When she is mad, she will hide it--or at least try to. Her partner may know by her sullen pout, but only if he's paying attention. This woman has great need for material security, but she won't be so crass as to openly express her wants. She usually likes to cook, and she enjoys the finer things in life: silk, art, and sex. Like her male counterpart, she looks for perfection, but she's willing to settle for less. Sometimes the diamond in the rough is what she wants. A distinct tendency to be bored with herself leads her to seek out others, and if she isn't happy in her relationship this may mean affairs--either of the heart, or of the body.

Gemini Rising in Love

Male
Gemini Rising is fun, often like a capricious child in nature. He has a way with words and can talk himself into many hearts. He enjoys adventure and has no trouble causing turmoil; he is aware that he is a player and is usually quite honest about it. When he is in a committed relationship, and this does happen owing to other personality traits, he tends to cover up his infidelities with stories. Sexually he wants adventure, and talk is a major turn on for him. He is very spontaneous and adaptable. If a woman is in love with this man, she will have to learn to go with his flow, otherwise he will be off on another adventure, and it won't include her.

Female
The female Gemini rising is a talker. She can talk about anything, and will. She needs excitement and is very energetic and childlike. Gemini rising is always on the go, always talking, and always looking for a man that can keep up with her. She is very flirtatious and charming and can get almost any man interested in her--the trouble comes with holding on to them. Because she never settles down long enough to develop a deep relationship, she will find herself involved in many superficial relationships, maybe even marriages, over her lifetime. She is a great friend as long as you don't need too much of an ear or sympathy. She's more likely to tell you to move on and get over it. She is drawn to men of different cultures, and they to her.

Cancer Rising in Love

Male
Home is where the Cancer risings heart is. He is afraid of rejection and won't make a move unless he is nearly positive that the woman he wants is on the same wavelength as he. Cancer never takes love lightly and if they have reasons to feel insecure (or even think they have reasons) they will become clinging and oppressive. This man is very sensitive, intuitive, and wants a permanent relationship with all the trappings, including, more often than not, children. Once he has sex with a partner, there is an expectation of commitment right away. He will not indulge his sexual desire unless he trusts his partner (unless other personality traits rear their heads--like a Gemini Sun or Moon). What he needs more than anything is a refuge from the world, where he can be himself.

Female
Like her male counterpart, sexual intimacy implies commitment. She is very anxious in relationships, and if she feels slighted, she will pull into her shell and her partner will suffer the silent treatment. She is feminine fragility, lace, and home-cooked meals. She is very intuitive, possessive, clingy and often finds herself comforting men fleeing from other past loves. Cancer rising wants to find a stable man with good earning potential. She will be happy to stay at home with the children, but can become resentful when she finds herself carrying the bulk of the responsibilities in the home.

Leo Rising in Love

Male
The Leo rising needs to be in the spotlight, and he's not afraid to put himself there. If his looks fail to charm everyone around him, he will use his voice and connections to be noticed. In a relationship he needs a woman he can be proud of, but she needs to be less flashy and much quieter than he is. Under no circumstances will he allow his partner to upstage him. He usually has excellent taste and expects you to, too. He likes to pretend that money is no issue, that he has as much as a man could ever want, but this isn't usually the case--after all, he has very expensive tastes. Sexually, he needs to be pampered and although his appetites are high, sex often seems like a one-man show with this rising. If his partner can take care of his need to be number one in the bedroom, he may remain loyal to her. If she expects an actual blending of two souls rather than the impersonal love he offers, he will be off on the hunt for someone more concerned with individual growth and the rise to stardom than companionship.

Female
This woman needs to be the center of attention, especially when men are around. She believes that she is the best and she exudes self-confidence and sexuality. Although she may not be as confident as she portrays herself to be, no one is the wiser. Leo rising is a bit spoiled. She has expensive tastes and expects to be pampered by an independent, unconventional man who adores her for her determination and self-centeredness. Her creativity and generosity come to the fore in a relationship in which she respects and admires her partner. Always dramatic in her deliveries--of speech, of her children, of her piece of art--she is often a very playful and teasing partner. Sexually she is much like the male Leo rising; she needs to be center stage. She enjoys sex, but she wants to be in control and worshipped. She is also quite impersonal in her love, which can cause problems in her relationships. Leo rising isn't one to daydream of waiting on her man--in fact, if she has daydreams of this nature, they will be dreams of the man waiting on her. If she feels neglected, she will be on the prowl in an instance, and it won't take much for her to find an adoring male willing to submit to her. In the long run, however, she won't be able to respect the man who does her bidding. She needs to find a healthy balance of independence and closeness with a mate who is her equal.

Virgo Rising in Love

Male
Virgo rising seeks perfection: in appearance, in intellect, in his portfolio, in his mate, and in himself. He wants to be a saint, and it'd be great if his partner was one as well. Despite this quest for perfection, he isn't one to daydream idealistically...no, he will work, and work hard, towards his goal. Sexually, he must have a clean partner as smells that excite other men may turn him off. If he can't find a partner that fits in with his own internal ethics, he will remain abstinent for extended periods of time. He is pretty picky and will test anyone he is interested in before making any sort of commitment. She has to work just as hard as he does and she has to have intelligence. If she is beautiful, wonderful, if not, well... if he loves her, he will help her to make the most of herself. A relationship with a Virgo rising male will be practical--no roses or poetry from this man, at least not very often--but he will be glad to help in the garden and with the finances. Once committed, the Virgo rising will be there when his partner and children need him, serving them quietly and faithfully.

Female
While the male Virgo rising rarely has stars in his eyes about anything, the female does. When it comes to her partner, she puts him on a pedestal. It's not that she doesn't notice his flaws so much as it is she can find any excuse for them--he was abused as a child, he was born into poverty, etc. In love, the Virgo rising wants it to work out and she will be determined that it does. She's really not the type of woman to giggle and exclaim about her partners every little successful venture--she isn't excited because she expects her partner to be a success. It's when he fails she may speak up and not very kindly either. It will take quite a few hard knocks before she will admit that you aren't the person she thought you were. Sexually, she must feel appreciated for her hard work and devotion to the family before wanting to indulge. If her partner loves her and treats her with respect and appreciation, she can be just the opposite of the Virgin in the bedroom. A Virgo rising women probably has a few tricks she'd love to share with her special mate--Virgo is the sign of service, after all. If she doesn't feel appreciated by her lover, she will stick with it for as long as she can, hoping it will improve. If it looks like a lost cause, she will cut her ties to him and never look back.

Libra Rising in Love

Male
The Libra Rising wants harmony more than anything. He will let his mate rant and rave while bottling his emotions within. He is in love, always. The Libra rising needs to be in love, and some of his connections may be quite on the 'surface' because he loves beauty and can be tricked by appearances. Over time he will learn (the hard way) that what is perfect on the outside is often lacking within. He may bounce from relationship to relationship thinking 'she's the one'. Once he finally finds his beauty--that is, the beautiful soul he is searching for, and not just physical beauty--he will commit, and he will be faithful (of course, other personality traits affect this). He's a loving father, sometimes flighty and scurrying about, but he loves his children when he has them. This man dreams of old-fashioned romance, with a comfortable, sensual home and sweet loving arms. Sexually, he is sensitive and energetic and likes for his partner to be the aggressor on occasion. He is very giving in the bedroom, cherishing his partners pleasure as much as his own.

Female
This woman is something of an enigma. She comes across helpless and in need of rescue one moment, and in the next she is like a drill sergeant. Libra rising is seductive, and like her male counterpart, always in love. Always. She isn't fooled as easily as the male, however. She can see past the perfect pecs into the mind, and she will turn away a man that lacks intelligence. She can be manipulative in her own way--always making herself available to her partner, always willing to follow his lead. Why? Because she's in love with him, and she believes that love is sacrificial and worth getting a little dirty on a camping or fishing trip. She needs romance and all of its trappings. She will let her partner storm about and boss her around, but she won't really listen. She'll let it go in one ear and out the other. If it goes on for too long, she will be happy to look elsewhere for the love she needs. Once in a committed relationship, however, she will often switch roles and become the leader. She is very intelligent and can be quite dominating, although never in a harsh or rude manner. Harmony is just as important to her as it is to the Libra rising male. Sexually, she needs plenty of attention and romance, and if she gets it, she will enjoy being the initiator in many nightlong festivities. She, like the Libra male, is very sensitive and giving sexually.

Scorpio Rising in Love

Male
The Scorpio rising is strong, secretive, and driven. His greatest goal is transformation--of his mate, society, his work experiences, and most of all, himself. This man needs to feel in control at all times...it's the woman who makes him feel out of control that often steals his heart. He needs adventure in his life, especially sexually. Once he commits to the woman of his choice, he expects it to be now and forever, but then something strange happens--the man that was laid back and entertaining, the man who scheduled secret rendezvous and sent intensely passionate love letters gets scared. Forever looms large before him and he starts tightening the reins on his loved one, ever so gently binding her to him. At the first sign of disapproval on her part, he pulls the rope tighter. What is he scared of? He is terrified that she will leave him, that she will betray him, and worst of all, that she will find someone else to expend her passion with. How can a woman handle such intensity? She has to give him reassurance, every day. He notices all the little things and appreciates a woman who takes the time to tell him that she loves him--daily, even ten times a day wouldn't be too much. But it better be true and he will sense it immediately if his love is lying to him. When love goes wrong for this man, he can go two different routes: he will get even, or he will sink into a depression of the worst kind. Once he throws off the shackles of the sour relationship in his mind, however, he won't look back. He will throw himself into work, a new relationship, his creativity-- something that is important to him. He will emerge transformed and that's what he is about, anyway. Sexually, he can be what some people would term as 'kinky'. His inhibitions are few and his appetite large. He likes to watch and may ask his partner to perform for him. He may also be into bondage or higher forms of sexual expression such as the practice of tantric sex. As the Scorpio risings intuition is very sharp, sex is possibly his best form of expression.

Female
The Scorpio rising female is a mystery, to herself and to men. Sexuality is her most potent force and she attracts men in every crowd. She knows what she wants, and any man she becomes interested in will know it is he. She isn't afraid to approach a man either as a business partner or for a relationship of a more intimate nature. This woman is a mind reader but she won't always let her partner know this...sometimes it's better to keep this knowledge to herself as a secret weapon. Passion is something a relationship with a Scorpio rising will never lack--be it as a screaming match or an all night party for two. She needs romance in the form of sensual fabrics, oils, and scents. She, like her male counterpart, expects any commitment to last forever and she will work very hard to accomplish this. Scorpio rising can be very dominating and smothering--when she comes across in this manner it is a sure sign that she needs attention and reassurance. She will not tolerate an unfaithful partner and she will quickly make a plan of revenge, even if her plan doesn't extend beyond removing her cheating mate from her presence forever. Indeed, that is likely the worst fate, for once a man is in love with a Scorpio, he will never forget her. Their relationship may dissolve into a love/hate type of connection and he may never see her again, but he will long remember the passionate nights they spent together in front of the fireplace, or the other nights he spent tied to the bedpost. He will be very hard pressed to find that combination of emotional faithfulness and sexual intensity again... unless he becomes involved with another Scorpio type.

Sagittarius Rising

Male
Sagittarius rising likes to keep moving. Commitment isn't generally a word he feels comfortable with as his need for adventure is strong. Ties to a house and family can really make him antsy. He can leave a string of broken hearts behind him a mile long and not even be aware of it--he thought they were only friends (never mind that they were involved sexually for months or even years). He falls in love easily, too easily. He knows how he is and that's why he prefers to keep things on 'friends only' terms. Somehow he manages to get married despite this and he is dismayed when his partner expects more of him than he can deliver. His adventures will always be closer to his heart than any woman because he becomes bored easily. Sexually, he wants spontaneity and would prefer it outdoors. He doesn't need sex as regularly as some of the other risings. Some may even prefer thinking that they are spiritually above such physical needs. Transcendence is what Sagittarius rising is seeking, of everything mundane. This man is certainly a 'free spirit'.

Female
Life for Sagittarius rising is a made up of episodes of adventure. She is always in a hurry and always looking for something more exciting. This woman loves life. Her dreams are of dancing, or even floating, through life surrounded by friends and adventure. She is generally outgoing and attracts many friends of both sexes. Early in life she may go through a period of experimentation with men, but she eventually settles down into a commitment with someone as adventurous as she. Very good-natured and eager to help, she is a great friend. Men may fall in love with her easily and she very likely has at least one failed marriage, if not several. This is because she isn't the image of a 'wife' they expected--she doesn't like thinking about the pile of laundry or cooking or scrubbing the toilet. She wants, like the Sagittarius male, to transcend such practical deeds. Sexually, she is very much like the male--she wants it to be a spontaneous occurrence, preferably outside, in the woods or on the beach. She can be quite scattered with her energies, and this can wear her out to the point where sex becomes the last thing on her mind.

Capricorn Rising

Male
Having Capricorn rising almost guarantees success. No matter how many obstacles stand in his way, no matter how far down the ladder he begins, his achievements will lead to plenty of money in the bank. Money is important to this man, not just for the power it brings, but for the freedom it allows. He won't rest until he feels safe, and to feel secure, he must have a hefty bank account. Sometimes Capricorn rising can go too far in his need for acquisition and become quite ruthless. Having said that, he is very responsible, intelligent and sociable. He excels in business meetings and can be quite an investor. In a relationship he wants someone more relaxed than he is, someone that can help him loosen up when he is at home. He often finds himself with a woman of less intelligence and standing in society--he likes to help her improve. If she's willing to rise to his standards and expectations, she will do well. Together they can build up a wonderfully large nest egg that he will enjoy spending on her (and himself) when he retires. He has a hard time expressing his emotions. This is because he is quite sure he lacks the vitality of the people around him. This isn't necessarily true, and the woman that can help him gradually release his emotions will find a warm man underneath the frost. He may have more than one marriage--in his youth he had a harder time controlling his hearty sexual appetite and, of course, with his strict attitude, he believed that sex equaled everlasting love. Once he does meet the 'right' one, he will be faithful and committed to their relationship. Despite appearances, Capricorn rising often has some kinky surprises waiting for his partner.

Female
This woman needs to feel secure. Like her male counterpart, she seeks safety in numbers--bills, that is. She will not rest until she has a stash of money in the bank, a few solid investments, and a home to call her own. She won't necessarily depend on a man to provide her with security, as she is willing to work hard herself. But, when she does find a man she can approve of, he must not come into the relationship as a liability. She won't support a man. She has magnificent self-control and can come across as cold and unloving--underneath the façade she is full of anxiety. Capricorn rising won't admit to this, though. She is very slow to commit, always wanting to be completely sure that she is doing the right thing. Capricorn rising does not like shallow or flighty men; she wants depth and expects it. If you can't give her what she needs--ie, money, honesty, a solid social standing- -don't bother trying. She may have a fling with you, but she won't marry you. Sexually, she can be quite inhibited as she tends to repress her sexuality and expend the energy in her climb to the top. If this rising has strong Scorpio in the chart, she will be quite the opposite--very sexual and demanding and open to experimentation in the bedroom. The Scorpio tends to release the Capricorn inhibition. The Capricorn rising woman will succeed, either through her mate, or on her own. She may even use her sexuality to help her get there.

Aquarius Rising

Male
The Aquarius rising is unique, unpredictable, intelligent, and fascinating. He draws women to him with sheer electricity. He can go through many relationships, and he always wants to remain friends with them all. He needs his freedom and won't flinch when you are flinging tears and accusations his way. The Aquarius rising isn't meant to be understood. His ideas are usually ahead of his time and concentrate on all of humanity, not just himself or his loved ones. In a relationship, he wants a woman, often an older woman, who is strong and overtly dominating. This is strange as he is one that cannot be controlled--in fact he loves these women because they present him with a challenge. What is the best way to shock her today? That question may be part of the fascination--it keeps his mind working furiously. Sexually, he can be very inventive and experimental, but his ardor may be less passionate than some of the other risings. He likes to see how things work, and that includes his partner's body.

Female
She has great hopes for humanity and will work progressively toward her ideals. This woman is easily bored and has had her share of 'quickie' relationships--meaning that she can become involved with a man very quickly, and that she also has the ability to end a relationship quickly if she is bored or feels trapped. She is a faithful partner, although often less emotional than many other women. Her detachment may confound her lover from time to time. The Aquarius rising always wants to see what is just beyond the next bend, whether it is on a concrete road or in outer space. She is reaching for horizons, for change, of herself and the universe. Always capable of re-inventing herself on a moment's whim, don't be surprised when she comes home with a head full of bright green hair. In relationships she needs someone that can help ground her scattered energies and someone that gives her the attention she needs. She will try hard to make her marriage work even when it is falling apart in front of her eyes. If anything, she is stubborn and determined. Sexually she is very curious, and many Aquarius rising women will enjoy researching and experimenting with positions out of the Kama Sutra or Cosmopolitan--maybe she'll even invent some of her own!

Pisces Rising

Male
There's something about Pisces rising that attracts both the highly evolved and the lowest of the low. If he had the capacity for sorting the good from the bad, his life would be much easier for him. He wants to think the best of everyone and it takes some hard knocks to wake him up. He needs to transcend the everyday race and he often does this by studying esoteric subjects. Pisces rising is creative but prone to bouts of disillusionment and pain, especially where women are concerned. He has no trouble finding women or even getting them to fall in love with him; the trouble is that he needs to be sought after; he needs to be the object of his woman's fierce desire. In our society, this is hard for women to understand and even harder for the Pisces rising to explain. Because he is waiting for his woman to make the moves, and she is waiting for him to make the moves, well, it isn't very healthy for him. He is often left out in the cold with nothing but his fantasies of their perfect life together to keep him warm. He exudes a brand of misty sexuality that keeps women in suspense. Very giving and erotic in the bedroom, his sexual expression may border on self-sacrifice. The woman who does manage to capture him is bold, aggressive, and willing to put her heart on the line. She will be rewarded with an amazing man who will teach her about mysticism while he paints her portrait in shades of the watery realm in which he swims.

posted April 05, 2005 10:33 AM              

I KNEW it would mention Pisces - I just had a feeling

I don’t know…when it comes to love I think my Sun drowns my Aries rising lol but I am independent...when my emotions are calm. I can’t handle a man who isn’t though - however, being emotionally dependant on me is ok many people in my life, especially family, are like that anyway

The Pisces rising is more accurate.

Pisces Rising
“She wants to be loved and has to be protected.”
“Her emotions are like a roller coaster but she never loses her faith in her partner or in life.”
“She will withstand many traumas in life, but each one hits her hard and tends to weaken her resolve--in times of crisis she will become even more dependent on her faith and her partner.” I don’t think this is a good thing lol

posted April 13, 2005 01:09 PM            

Quite funny that it says how independent I have to be to be happy... that topped with an Aqua sun, "hello princess elusive!"...

posted April 13, 2005 02:30 PM              

I don't know if I come across as helpless, that kinda bites my bum lol. The domination part is too true LOL my husband is always telling me how "manipulative" I am--if it's something I want or think is necessary for the family, I find a way to get it...without charging through things lol.

Harmony is a big part of our marriage (hubby has a libra moon, I have a taurus moon/7th house).

posted April 26, 2005 06:19 PM              

thanks Lalalinda. Reading this, I realise how much of a cancer-influenced person I am, this is exactly what I was like in my last relationship. Sometimes I feel so much I cannot express it - then I create a shell - because to try to express myself is too hard. And I don't believe i can ever make anyone understand. I cut myself off from my own feelings to make it easier, but this means i then feel out of touch with myself... which only leaves me confused and angry... which makes me withdraw even more... oh grrrr!!

posted April 26, 2005 10:44 PM              

find it very true, i dont even understand myself...so good luck to the guys out there...altho some of them are turned on by the mysteriousness...little do they know its just plain confusion, coupled with my Gem sun (aaah)

posted August 17, 2006 04:31 PM              

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posted November 13, 2006 03:44 PM              

Ya i've started stock trading right now i've made some money so far.

posted November 16, 2006 08:24 PM            

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran

posted May 23, 2007 10:29 AM              

Close but, I do like a nice clean, organized house and I LOVE to cook, is like doing magic I don't like cleaning though so i guess I need to find me a man that does like to clean. LOL

I also fight the fact that I do look for my next adventure but I don't want to translate that into man because I like to think of eternal love with one guy, so the fight is hard, I am scare of finding the perfect guy and then getting bored with him