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Topic: relationships - aspects for being oneself ?
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flowerpower Knowflake Posts: 159 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted September 28, 2012 08:25 AM
What do you think would be the aspects in synastry or in a composite chart that make one of the persons or both of them feel they can be themselves in the relationship - whatever kind of relationship it is ? Sun-moon aspects ? Or would it have to be a combination of different aspects ?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 37198 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 28, 2012 09:31 AM
To me, I, always, come back to moon trine moon, as this is the single and biggest factor for emotional intimacy between any two people.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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slowpoke Knowflake Posts: 392 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted September 28, 2012 11:06 AM
In Synastry,Most sextiles and trines with any planet suggest that the individuals can be themselves, according to the planets involved. But! Good relationship dynamics are not based on one or two good aspects. Most relationships will have a slue of stressful aspects as well. The key is in having aspects that suggest a fundamental structure towards happiness. Look for favorable Moon aspects and favorable Mercury aspects between themselves and or with other planets. Sadly, these planet aspects are not always present, but can really help a relationship survive. If the Moon and Mercury have problems or are not present, then look for favorable Venus and Saturn aspects between themselves and with other planets. And last, look for favorable aspects with the Asc. The one planet most favorable in aspecting all of the aforementioned is Jupiter. The more favorable aspects present involving these items the more chance they will assist you in being yourselves, even during stressful times from within or from outside sources. Notice I did not include the Sun. Because it is too individualized for relationships. It needs something to settle it down to work in unions. Favorable aspects with either the Moon, Mercury, Venus and or Saturn adds balance to Sun's forward moving energy and helps the Sun define it's direction. slowpoke
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8719 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 02, 2012 12:50 AM
For me it's their Moon or Asc conj my Sun.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 37198 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 02, 2012 12:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: For me it's their Moon or Asc conj my Sun.
Yes I have a friend and my moon conj her sun and I can feel it.
------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 5669 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 02, 2012 08:59 PM
I have found that whenever Venus Trine Jupiter is present in the composite, I feel that I can totally be myself with that person, regardless of whatever else is going on in either synastry or composite. From astro.com's astro-click portrait
quote: Venus trine Jupiter in the composite chart is one of the aspects that really helps to make a relationship successful, particularly a personal one. In fact, a professional association is very likely to become personal as well. The Venus-Jupiter trine is a strong indication of a warm, affectionate feeling between you. You will find that the relationship will help both of you grow as individuals, for it continually brings out your best qualities. There is a feeling of ease and peacefulness with this aspect. Neither of you seems to make unreasonable demands upon the other, but that can sometimes present another problem. If one of you must make some really important changes, the other may be reluctant to raise the issue for fear of disturbing the peaceful atmosphere. Nevertheless, this is a relationship in which you will feel that you can relax and be yourself with your partner.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8719 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 03, 2012 06:20 AM
@Ami I'm not keen on my Moon conj their Sun actually. But their Moon conj my Sun I completely go for 100% of the time. We get along so well. Their Moon would also trine my Jupiter which helps much.IP: Logged |