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Elm1230
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posted January 17, 2013 08:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mother has always had a general interest in astrology, or like most, was familiar with just her sun sign and made herself aware of the sun signs of the men she was involved with - to compare compatibility, I'm sure. So, needless to say, she's picked up on a bit of a "trend". She's been in more relationships with Capricorn men than any other of the signs, or as she puts it she's "always drawn to Capricorns".

My father is a Capricorn Sun, her last boyfriend was a Capricorn Sun, and there's a man she's been flirting with at work and they both seem to be mutually interested, and yes, he has a Capricorn Sun. I too, have a Sun in Capricorn (Moon in Aries). She says that she's always drawn to them, though she says that the relationships with them have gone sour. Now she's not with the new guy, but based off what she's shared there might be other Capricorns in her past that I'm unaware of.But anyway, she says that she never gets along with them, and they "love to argue and fight". I suppose that because Libra's are known to be non confrontational, though I'd say she can be confrontational but only if she feels whatever she's confronting in pertinent enough.

I must admit, we can't go too long without an argument ensuing. She claims I like to argue, "just like Capricorns do" - her words, not mine - but when we "argue" I think it's a discussion or debate, which I do enjoy. She thinks it's an argument. I suppose she doesn't want anyone opposing her stance?

But anyway, I decided to look up the men's charts and I found that each one shared air sign moons. So I suppose they connected to the energy from her sun? (I'm not too adept in astrology,yet). My mother does have a Pisces Moon, and I read that Pisces and Caps are a good match, but I'm not certain.

She and I both read that some other Capricorns and Libra's find that they are drawn to each other in the same way (Like quite a few Capricorns purport being drawn to Scorpio's. I feel that energy sometimes myself), however she says that the relationships always end up bad. Something about the Capricorns nature repels her. What could be going on? Could someone enlighten the both of us? She's quite curious to know. I can provide extra info if you need it.

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posted January 18, 2013 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for msrandomorangee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
she might have a cancer rising , which would mean capricorn is her 7th house , which is her partnership house or cancer/capricorn mars. opposite signs are usually attracted to one another.

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posted January 19, 2013 12:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by msrandomorangee:
she might have a cancer rising , which would mean capricorn is her 7th house , which is her partnership house or cancer/capricorn mars. opposite signs are usually attracted to one another.

She gave me a time of her birth so I looked up her chart, she has an Aries ascendant,so I guess that means she has Libra in the seventh
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posted January 19, 2013 05:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for msrandomorangee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
could be karmic love, any connections between the North or South nodes with Venus, Sun, Moon, Mercury or Ascendant of the other person. perhaps check her north or south node.

i am a capricorn sun and i am unbelievably attracted to libra sun. any guy i have liked is a libra sun. i do have moon in libra. but in your mother's case you have to give me her birthchart. i could give you some insight then.

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posted January 19, 2013 05:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by msrandomorangee:
could be karmic love, any connections between the North or South nodes with Venus, Sun, Moon, Mercury or Ascendant of the other person. perhaps check her north or south node.

i am a capricorn sun and i am unbelievably attracted to libra sun. any guy i have liked is a libra sun. i do have moon in libra. but in your mother's case you have to give me her birthchart. i could give you some insight then.


OK, I'll have to get the time she was born, though I believe it was around 7pm. I do know that she's an Aries Rising, Sun in Libra, Moon in Pisces.

I'm not too sure what a karmic relationship entails. However, if I'm correct, I had proposed that her meeting these Capricorn men was a test. There's something about them that she's attracted to, however it's not best for her. I'm not too certain. It was just an idea. She didn't think so,LOL! I of course believe I'm on the money. Because why else would she keep meeting them? Astrology aside, you've run into a pattern with men you claim have bad character traits, and they all happen to be Capricorns. That's a pattern. And you should be partly responsible if not fully.

That's the way I saw it. She disagrees, indignantly of course, ahahaha!

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posted January 19, 2013 06:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for msrandomorangee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
see i think your mom has a taurus ascendant.
you see from 4am to 6 am her ascendant would be the same sign as her sun sign , so 4pm to 6pm would be the opposite sign , which is libra. you said your mom is born 7 pm? if so she has 9th house in capricorn. that could be it ? have you cheched her vertex sign? go to www.astro.com and select extended chart , there is an option of selecting "vertex" in the tool bar. say if she has her vertex in capricorn she might easily attract capricorn.

or your right , like i said i am extremely attracted to libras , and i just can't figure out why. perhaps my moon sign which is in libra could be it.

i hope this helps

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posted January 19, 2013 11:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by msrandomorangee:
see i think your mom has a taurus ascendant.
you see from 4am to 6 am her ascendant would be the same sign as her sun sign , so 4pm to 6pm would be the opposite sign , which is libra. you said your mom is born 7 pm? if so she has 9th house in capricorn. that could be it ? have you cheched her vertex sign? go to www.astro.com and select extended chart , there is an option of selecting "vertex" in the tool bar. say if she has her vertex in capricorn she might easily attract capricorn.

or your right , like i said i am extremely attracted to libras , and i just can't figure out why. perhaps my moon sign which is in libra could be it.

i hope this helps


OK, it's been confirmed, she was born at 7pm. She actually told me she spoke to a friend of hers whose into astrology,numerology,energies,etc. among other things. And her friend told her that Capricorns and Libras were drawn to each other more so because the Capricorn is drawn to Libra's image. Or as her friend put it "infatuated". So while everything is great in the beginning, things tend to go south quite fast later on, especially as Libra learns how controlling Capricorn can be. Capricorn is turned off by Libra's extravagance, and impracticality. Her friend advises her to talk to another man she's been in contact with whose a sun Aquarius.

Other than what her friend told her, I'm not too sure why they're drawn to each other. As I mentioned,though. The men all had air sign moons, so it wasn't like the matches could totally be unexplained. Perhaps a quirk of astrology? What her friend told her was interesting though. don't remember all of what she said, but it kinda made sense. I'm just not sure why Caps and Libra's are drawn to each other like that. But again, it tends to not work out, according to her friend, and validated by my mother.

Her friend tells her she needs to take her time. Aquarius will definitely do that! LOL! Because of the hurt she's experienced with her Capricorn ex, she has sworn off dating and relationships. Something Libra's aren't used to, apparently. She claims she's just happy being with herself, but that's only because she's put up a surrender flag. She still flirts and talks to men, so what she calls "single", I call taking it slow this time. So once again, I feel she's being tested or being placed in a lesson with these Cap men. Prodding her to slow down. Get to know the person first, before jumping into things. I'm not sure what placement makes her want to jump into relationships so fast. But at least she's slowing down.

My thoughts on it, lol!

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posted January 19, 2013 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My cousin is libra sun aries rising like your mom! she has gem moon, and no water or earth anywhere.
She's all fire and air.

Yet, she's drawn to cap guys like a magnet.
She's also drawn to cancer guys.

Personally, I think it's got to do with the square sign attraction. I've seen it happen too many times. Even between best friends.

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posted January 19, 2013 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
My cousin is libra sun aries rising like your mom! she has gem moon, and no water or earth anywhere.
She's all fire and air.

Yet, she's drawn to cap guys like a magnet.
She's also drawn to cancer guys.

Personally, I think it's got to do with the square sign attraction. I've seen it happen too many times. Even between best friends.



Square sign attraction? Could you fill me in, I'm just gaining an interest in astrology, so I'm not too familiar with everything yet.

You know, My sister is a Cancer Sun, and she liked a couple Gemini Sun guys as well! Is that uncommon? Is this another astrological "quirk"? ahaha! I usually don't take interest into things like I have with astrology. It's so interesting. I suppose because it involves things about yourself, which I'm always interested in.

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posted January 19, 2013 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My most intense relationships AND friendships have been with aries and libra suns. I'm a cancer sun.


I do think that other incompatible signs are drawn to each other like crazy, but imo the square signs are attracted more.

I even attract people whose ascendant sign or moon sign squares mine.

It's well known that in astrology squares create passion. I don't think it's totally a bad thing if you have other composite/synastry stuff that show harmony between you. But it is pretty risky. usually (but not always!) it ends badly. Just notice the people you know, and try to find out their best friend's sign. Try to find out if it's a square sign.

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posted January 19, 2013 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
My most intense relationships AND friendships have been with aries and libra suns. I'm a cancer sun.


I do think that other incompatible signs are drawn to each other like crazy, but imo the square signs are attracted more.

I even attract people whose ascendant sign or moon sign squares mine.

It's well known that in astrology squares create passion. I don't think it's totally a bad thing if you have other composite/synastry stuff that show harmony between you. But it is pretty risky. usually (but not always!) it ends badly. Just notice the people you know, and try to find out their best friend's sign. Try to find out if it's a square sign.


I'm sorry, so square precisely means what? Is it signs that are exactly opposite? Signs that are purported to not be a great match at all? If my summation is correct, I would imagine that draws an incredible amount of passion, sexually at least. I suppose because it's almost forbidden. But I would imagine they tend to not work out in the end...? Too much not in common to make it work? I don't know,lol

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posted January 19, 2013 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no not bc its forbidden but bc they have the same kind of energy in common! Because they belong to the same mode, their energy feels similar.

square signs are the other signs who are your same mode.

Three modes: cardinal, mutable, fixed

So leo is square the rest of the fixed signs
Cancer is square the rest of the cardinal signs
etc

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posted January 19, 2013 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
no not bc its forbidden but bc they have the same kind of energy in common! Because they belong to the same mode, their energy feels similar.

square signs are the other signs who are your same mode.

Three modes: cardinal, mutable, fixed

So leo is square the rest of the fixed signs
Cancer is square the rest of the cardinal signs
etc


OHHH! I see now, okay. Thanks

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