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Elm1230
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posted February 05, 2013 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And by 'be', I mean a placement, or perhaps placements. I'm a little curious as to what that persons chart could look like.

I am a Leo Rising, therefore I have Aquarius in the seventh house. My Sun is in Capricorn, and my Moon is in Aries. My Mars is in Cancer, and I have a Venus in Aquarius. Aquarius shows up again in the eighth house, but that should be enough information to discern a "proper match".

I've never been in a relationship, nor have I ever been romantic or intimate with anyone in any way. So I can't speak about past partners,because I haven't had any. I have had admirers, we'll say. I want to say, based off the attention I've had, 9 times out of 10, they have a Sun or Moon in Aquarius. One had a Venus in Aquarius, but their Sun was in Cancer. So I imagine I'll be dealing with Aquarius natives a lot.

Anyway, if I were to take astrology seriously, and I were looking for a lover. What placements would you say they should have to compliment mine? I'm interested to read an interpretation.

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posted February 06, 2013 08:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ideally, they should embody all your sensitive spots, like DC, Venus or Mars (I don't know if you're male/female, straight or not - it changes things a little), or Moon for emotional compatibility, as well as Mercury for interesting and good communication. Also trigger your Sun/Moon midpoint, your Nodes for evolutionary relationships, Vertex for fatedness, some Arabic Parts for attraction, marriage, love. Oh, and some asteroidal conjunctions! Ideally, there shouldn't be any planets or points left untouched and angle conjunctions or trines are specifically important. The closer the orb, the better.

In short.. I believe that we meet the people we NEED to meet, in the times when we need to meet them, not sooner, not later, and that they will trigger that part of our chart that needs attention. Also, having a "pattern" can be limiting. There are many interesting people born under Virgo or Sagittarius. Don't date just Aquas, though they are great - hands down. Follow your heart and look at the charts later.

Good luck and also a warm welcome to Lindaland! I don't think I had the pleasure to greet you before.

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posted February 06, 2013 09:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Ideally, they should embody all your sensitive spots, like DC, Venus or Mars (I don't know if you're male/female, straight or not - it changes things a little), or Moon for emotional compatibility, as well as Mercury for interesting and good communication. Also trigger your Sun/Moon midpoint, your Nodes for evolutionary relationships, Vertex for fatedness, some Arabic Parts for attraction, marriage, love. Oh, and some asteroidal conjunctions! Ideally, there shouldn't be any planets or points left untouched and angle conjunctions or trines are specifically important. The closer the orb, the better.

In short.. I believe that we meet the people we NEED to meet, in the times when we need to meet them, not sooner, not later, and that they will trigger that part of our chart that needs attention. Also, having a "pattern" can be limiting. There are many interesting people born under Virgo or Sagittarius. Don't date just Aquas, though they are great - hands down. Follow your heart and look at the charts later.

Good luck and also a warm welcome to Lindaland! I don't think I had the pleasure to greet you before.


Interesting, so gender and orientation might change things a bit? I am a gay man, how does that play out in the charts?

Now I'm a bit new to astrology so I'm not sure about all of the other stuff you mentioned, the placements and stuff. My node is in Sagittarius. How exactly does the node work? I'm not too sure of what it even is,ahaha! Let me research it.

I agree with the last bit too. That seems logical, I would say based off some of the friendships I've had, I have met them when I really needed them in a way. And I grew in new ways. Well, I've only had one friend like that, but still, I have more life ahead of me,ahaha!

I actually asked this somewhere else and got an interesting response. They said a Cancer sun with Gemini placements, or an Aquarius Sun with Pisces placements. I'd have to be more adept in astrology to discern that one.

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posted February 06, 2013 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Ideally, they should embody all your sensitive spots, like DC, Venus or Mars (I don't know if you're male/female, straight or not - it changes things a little), or Moon for emotional compatibility, as well as Mercury for interesting and good communication. Also trigger your Sun/Moon midpoint, your Nodes for evolutionary relationships, Vertex for fatedness, some Arabic Parts for attraction, marriage, love. Oh, and some asteroidal conjunctions! Ideally, there shouldn't be any planets or points left untouched and angle conjunctions or trines are specifically important. The closer the orb, the better.

In short.. I believe that we meet the people we NEED to meet, in the times when we need to meet them, not sooner, not later, and that they will trigger that part of our chart that needs attention. Also, having a "pattern" can be limiting. There are many interesting people born under Virgo or Sagittarius. Don't date just Aquas, though they are great - hands down. Follow your heart and look at the charts later.

Good luck and also a warm welcome to Lindaland! I don't think I had the pleasure to greet you before.


Is the 'midpoint' another name for the midheaven? Or am I lost? ahaha!

Oh! When you said a Virgo or Sagittarius could be interesting, did you state that to stress the point of not following a pattern, or did you mention that as an alternative to my Aqua pattern?

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posted February 09, 2013 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The midpoint is the half-distance between 2 points.

The Virgo and Saggitarius suggestions were as to not follow a particular pattern, yes, and be open to all experiences life throws at you.

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posted February 10, 2013 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unhappyapathy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Get a Cancer

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posted February 10, 2013 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by unhappyapathy:
Get a Cancer

Interesting recommendation. My sister is actually a Cancerian, but I'm not too sure what they're like - Besides the nurturing paternal/maternal things you hear about them.

In my vedic chart I'm actually a Cancer ascendant. Again, I don't know too much about Cancers, I'll have to do my research.

What mes you say a Cancer? Someone told me a Cancer with a lot of Gemini placements. Interesting that Cancer comes up again.

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posted February 10, 2013 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unhappyapathy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Elm1230:
Interesting recommendation. My sister is actually a Cancerian, but I'm not too sure what they're like - Besides the nurturing paternal/maternal things you hear about them.

In my vedic chart I'm actually a Cancer ascendant. Again, I don't know too much about Cancers, I'll have to do my research.

What mes you say a Cancer? Someone told me a Cancer with a lot of Gemini placements. Interesting that Cancer comes up again.


I've noticed that the two are really good for each other. Aquarians are erratic and not really reliable. They're also distant. Cancers are moody but like the idea of marriage and family. One of my Aquarian male friends tried to propose to a Cancer girl after knowing her for just two months. They barely even talked. It was that good!

Plus, Cancer and Capricorn are polar opposites. You feel a strong attraction to each other.

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posted February 10, 2013 10:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by unhappyapathy:
I've noticed that the two are really good for each other. Aquarians are erratic and not really reliable. They're also distant. Cancers are moody but like the idea of marriage and family. One of my Aquarian male friends tried to propose to a Cancer girl after knowing her for just two months. They barely even talked. It was that good!

Plus, Cancer and Capricorn are polar opposites. You feel a strong attraction to each other.


I've heard about the strong attraction between Capricorns and Cancers, someone else on this forum mentioned it. Before this forum is was something I never heard of. Hmm...

I am quite distant,though. I don't know if a Cancer could ever take that! AHAHA! I mean, I've never been in a relationship, but I just know that I don't think I would like someone too relationship happy. Aries Moon has to amplify this in some way, ahaha! I'll just have to wait and see when a relationship comes, huh? hah

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posted February 11, 2013 01:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for unhappyapathy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/capricorn.htm#_Toc6672041

One guy I knew was a Capricorn and he was REALLY uncomfortable with this stuff. I hate the description 'cause it's weird and sad. Actually my sis is a Cap and she was like "I don't know any Cap guys though."

Maybe get another Cap, our summer school teacher married a Cap only two days her senior and it was a match made in heaven!!!

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posted February 11, 2013 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by unhappyapathy:
http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/capricorn.htm#_Toc6672041

One guy I knew was a Capricorn and he was REALLY uncomfortable with this stuff. I hate the description 'cause it's weird and sad. Actually my sis is a Cap and she was like "I don't know any Cap guys though."

Maybe get another Cap, our summer school teacher married a Cap only two days her senior and it was a match made in heaven!!!


Ahahaha! I've never 'dated' anyone, nor do I care to make a conscious effort to get out there and date people. I feel that if I'm meant to meet that person, they'll come. Similar to how I met my best friend, amazing synchronicity!A part of me doesn't feel ready either. I actually have Saturn in the seventh house which is the significator of a "delayed" partnership, as they say in astrology. So with this placement "delayed" means past 30 years old. That seems quite accurate to me, or rather, for me,lol!

I was just curious though, what would other people suggest as an ideal match. I never thought about another Capricorn. I don't believe I know any Capricorns. Well, besides my father, and a guy from school who has a Scorpio moon. It's funny, I think when you have the sign, it's harder to decipher if someone else shares it. For some reason I think Capricorns are hard to read.


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posted February 11, 2013 02:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for unhappyapathy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ahahaha! I've never 'dated' anyone, nor do I care to make a conscious effort to get out there and date people. I feel that if I'm meant to meet that person, they'll come. Similar to how I met my best friend, amazing synchronicity!A part of me doesn't feel ready either. I actually have Saturn in the seventh house which is the significator of a "delayed" partnership, as they say in astrology. So with this placement "delayed" means past 30 years old. That seems quite accurate to me, or rather, for me,lol!

Then if you don't mind me asking, how old are you now? Also, don't you get impatient? It's kind of weird that no girl has asked you out yet, but I guess that depends on your background and where you live. The kids I knew in school did everything relatively early.

I'm actually in the same situation, well I had chances but my upbringing was loose and casual. Hopefully something comes up in the next five years, though.

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posted February 11, 2013 02:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Then if you don't mind me asking, how old are you now? Also, don't you get impatient?

I just turned 20 on January 1st! And no I don't mind you asking me that, I actually thought it needed more explanation, in fact.

Hmmm, it's strange. I would like to say at certain times I do want a relationship, but I don't believe that. I even think I just want a relationship to have the experience, because I've literally never been in a relationship. However, I'm really not concerned to have one.

I feel that if someone is wanting a relationship to manifest, they're usually wanting one for selfish reasons, like sex, which isn't untypical of someone my age. Or perhaps they're insecure, they need validation, they're lonely,etc. These are not valid reasons for a relationship in my opinion - not for myself at least. I feel that those reasons are selfish. Almost like you would love your child, I feel that one should dedicate their love to that person in the same way. Perhaps that's a bit too ideal,though.

Interestingly enough, I recently realized that when I fantasize about a relationship (like most of us not in one do) I am caring and nurturing the imaginary partner. Other people envision what this imaginary person can do for them, I envision what "I" can do for that other person. With that realization I feel I actually have a desire to express love, rather than obtain it. So I attacked my view that love can only be saved for one person and one person only. So now I want to express love to everyone, something I'm still working with.

So with that said, I really don't cope, but more so cure that longing. Every time I reach out for that imaginary relationship, there's an area of my life that I've neglected in some manner. This time, being the people that inhabit my reality. I'm actually rather scared to express myself openly, for fear that I would have exposed too much and not receive anything in return. That's pretty sick too.

No, I don't really get impatient. I know I have so many personal things to work on that building a relationship right now would be a nuisance. I think I wanted to know if I was going to be in a relationship really. I am quite eccentric, somewhat strange to others, and I have strong prerequisite's that I feel might not be easy to find in today's society. These prerequisite's are nothing that I don't demand of myself, but other people don't 'gel' with them. I forgot which placement, but let's just say I'm quite moral, and have high values. And then again, I am eccentric myself, and not really eccentric in an endearing delightfully kooky way,and not THAT strange, but different enough where it would be hard to find someone into me. Astrology can't tell me that,though. So we will have to wait and see if that person comes along.

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posted February 11, 2013 02:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for unhappyapathy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Elm1230:
I just turned 20 on January 1st! And no I don't mind you asking me that, I actually thought it needed more explanation, in fact.

Hmmm, it's strange. I would like to say at certain times I do want a relationship, but I don't believe that. I even think I just want a relationship to have the experience, because I've literally never been in a relationship. However, I'm really not concerned to have one.

I feel that if someone is wanting a relationship to manifest, they're usually wanting one for selfish reasons, like sex, which isn't untypical of someone my age. Or perhaps they're insecure, they need validation, they're lonely,etc. These are not valid reasons for a relationship in my opinion - not for myself at least. I feel that those reasons are selfish. Almost like you would love your child, I feel that one should dedicate their love to that person in the same way. Perhaps that's a bit too ideal,though.

Interestingly enough, I recently realized that when I fantasize about a relationship (like most of us not in one do) I am caring and nurturing the imaginary partner. Other people envision what this imaginary person can do for them, I envision what "I" can do for that other person. With that realization I feel I actually have a desire to express love, rather than obtain it. So I attacked my view that love can only be saved for one person and one person only. So now I want to express love to everyone, something I'm still working with.

So with that said, I really don't cope, but more so cure that longing. Every time I reach out for that imaginary relationship, there's an area of my life that I've neglected in some manner. This time, being the people that inhabit my reality. I'm actually rather scared to express myself openly, for fear that I would have exposed too much and not receive anything in return. That's pretty sick too.

No, I don't really get impatient. I know I have so many personal things to work on that building a relationship right now would be a nuisance. I think I wanted to know if I was going to be in a relationship really. I am quite eccentric, somewhat strange to others, and I have strong prerequisite's that I feel might not be easy to find in today's society. These prerequisite's are nothing that I don't demand of myself, but other people don't 'gel' with them. I forgot which placement, but let's just say I'm quite moral, and have high values. And then again, I am eccentric myself, and not really eccentric in an endearing delightfully kooky way,and not THAT strange, but different enough where it would be hard to find someone into me. Astrology can't tell me that,though. So we will have to wait and see if that person comes along.


I turn 20 on April 13. We're the same age.

I'll respond to this later, it is midnight here,

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posted February 11, 2013 03:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Then if you don't mind me asking, how old are you now? Also, don't you get impatient? It's kind of weird that no girl has asked you out yet, but I guess that depends on your background and where you live.

Hahaha! I'm actually gay, so no women for me. Besides, part of my "eccentricity" stems from my androgynous expression. I don't know of any woman who has found me attractive, mostly because I dress a bit more femininely, or without gender constraints in mind. I mean, I am attractive, and most people find me "pretty", but that's a little too much for a woman, lol!

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Well, this is not the whole picture as you’ve left out aspects and other planetary positions Sun/Moon/ Venus/Mars positions, though important, are not enough to go on.

For instance, even though your Moon is in Aries, if it makes contacts with Saturn it’ll make you a whole lot more serious minded in relationships and the type to either marry for life or not marry at all.

Also, any aspects to Saturn will contribute a great deal in how Venus expresses itself (either by sextile, trine, square or opposition) and what kind of partner you find attractive/ who is more likely to find you attractive.

So I may say that with Venus in Aquarius, you have a love for the “unusual”. So anything that is considered “weird” or “strange” by others may have an appeal on you; based on the trends and norms of the society you live under.

For instance, in my country, to date across the colour line is still considered something “unusual” and “strange” and so, a Venus in Aquarius would do exactly that.

This is different, however, from someone who lives in a country that is far more liberated in terms of such a thing. In their case, dating across the colour line won’t be seen as “unconventional” but the Venus in Aquarius there will probably do other things to break or test social taboos i.e. Enter into a polygamous relationship (which in my country is not “taboo”) etc.

Aquarius energy is a “plateau” breaker in order to establish new social norms. So, someone with a Venus in Aquarius won’t intent fully go all out to shock people, but will be surprised/ even annoyed by the level of shock that they unknowingly elicit from others ;either through the way they regulate their relationship, the nature of the relationship or what they find attracting in a partner.

Again, however, I must stress that the additional aspects of Venus to Saturn/Jupiter etc will modify these characteristics somewhat. So look at whether Venus is aspected by any other planet. If not, you may exude the “undiluted” qualities of Venus in Aquarius and very much of what was said above will be applicable to you.

You also have your Moon in feisty Aries. Astrologically, this is a very assertive energy and, unless you live in a liberated country, Aries moon women tend to face challenges in relating to the opposite sex; mainly because of their innate need to equate themselves with their partners and, in some cases, even dominate the relationship.

In a society that is patriarchal, for men taking the “lead” etc this is not an issue but for Women, it can make for testing situations in relating to a partner; especially if such a partner is traditionalist “women in the kitchen in frothy dresses” type. Aries Moon women would do well to avoid associating with such men as clashes are likely.

If the Moon makes good aspects with Venus/Neptune/Jupiter however, it may mean that you are more accommodating and likely to make a very supportive partner. But even then, instinctive competiveness must be something you learn to exercise outside the home; perhaps in a career or creative venture?

Moon in Aries in women is excellent for business as this moon makes quick decisions, is daring and is likely to be very productive. In the relationship, however, mutual “give and take” is something that the Moon in this position may have to learn; as they are not inwardly given (aspects aside).

As I said, you haven’t given me much but if there are good aspects between your Venus to your Moon that means that your love life will be in harmony with your inner self: So you may be comfortable within a marriage or a conjugal arrangement that involves living together or collaborating.

You also have Venus (in Aquarius) in the 7th house and this means that you are capable of compromising and know how to meet you partner half way.

This position also makes you a little “starry-eyed” or unrealistic when it comes to choosing mate but when you do, you are loyal and accommodating in whatever faults the mate may have.

Moon in the 9th also suggests an innate need to relate to the partner outside relationships boundaries: It’s not enough for you to just be a “girlfriend” and talk about how much you love the partner etc. but also be able to be intellectually in tune with your partner.

If you two are involved in the long term, you may seek to learn and engage with them more on issues of a global or “all encompassing “ scale; religion, politics, societal norms, philosophy, world cultures, the existence or “God” etc.

As far as who is “best” for you is concerned? It’s hard to say.

I’d have to say that a man who has good aspects between his Moon and Mars or Moon and Pluto (or both) is good: He’ll understand you competitive spirit and will treat you as an equal.

A Man with Moon aspects to Saturn is not that great, unless you are prepared to give up some control. He’ll insist on being the one you “answer “to.

A Man with moon aspects to Neptune is a dream as he’ll accept you as you are. The only problem will be; will you accept him as he is? He has little need to go after the “prize” that you feel destined to reach.

Of course, it is possible that the man will have all these aspects; thereby seeming to contradict himself. This is life as nobody is perfect. The key would be to find a guy who is balanced and utilises these positions to enrich the relationship with you; instead of picking you up one minute and then pulling you down the next.

Good Luck

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posted February 11, 2013 12:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Well, this is not the whole picture as you’ve left out aspects and other planetary positions Sun/Moon/ Venus/Mars positions, though important, are not enough to go on.

For instance, even though your Moon is in Aries, if it makes contacts with Saturn it’ll make you a whole lot more serious minded in relationships and the type to either marry for life or not marry at all.

Also, any aspects to Saturn will contribute a great deal in how Venus expresses itself (either by sextile, trine, square or opposition) and what kind of partner you find attractive/ who is more likely to find you attractive.

So I may say that with Venus in Aquarius, you have a love for the “unusual”. So anything that is considered “weird” or “strange” by others may have an appeal on you; based on the trends and norms of the society you live under.

For instance, in my country, to date across the colour line is still considered something “unusual” and “strange” and so, a Venus in Aquarius would do exactly that.

This is different, however, from someone who lives in a country that is far more liberated in terms of such a thing. In their case, dating across the colour line won’t be seen as “unconventional” but the Venus in Aquarius there will probably do other things to break or test social taboos i.e. Enter into a polygamous relationship (which in my country is not “taboo”) etc.

Aquarius energy is a “plateau” breaker in order to establish new social norms. So, someone with a Venus in Aquarius won’t intent fully go all out to shock people, but will be surprised/ even annoyed by the level of shock that they unknowingly elicit from others ;either through the way they regulate their relationship, the nature of the relationship or what they find attracting in a partner.

Again, however, I must stress that the additional aspects of Venus to Saturn/Jupiter etc will modify these characteristics somewhat. So look at whether Venus is aspected by any other planet. If not, you may exude the “undiluted” qualities of Venus in Aquarius and very much of what was said above will be applicable to you.

You also have your Moon in feisty Aries. Astrologically, this is a very assertive energy and, unless you live in a liberated country, Aries moon women tend to face challenges in relating to the opposite sex; mainly because of their innate need to equate themselves with their partners and, in some cases, even dominate the relationship.

In a society that is patriarchal, for men taking the “lead” etc this is not an issue but for Women, it can make for testing situations in relating to a partner; especially if such a partner is traditionalist “women in the kitchen in frothy dresses” type. Aries Moon women would do well to avoid associating with such men as clashes are likely.

If the Moon makes good aspects with Venus/Neptune/Jupiter however, it may mean that you are more accommodating and likely to make a very supportive partner. But even then, instinctive competiveness must be something you learn to exercise outside the home; perhaps in a career or creative venture?

Moon in Aries in women is excellent for business as this moon makes quick decisions, is daring and is likely to be very productive. In the relationship, however, mutual “give and take” is something that the Moon in this position may have to learn; as they are not inwardly given (aspects aside).

As I said, you haven’t given me much but if there are good aspects between your Venus to your Moon that means that your love life will be in harmony with your inner self: So you may be comfortable within a marriage or a conjugal arrangement that involves living together or collaborating.

You also have Venus (in Aquarius) in the 7th house and this means that you are capable of compromising and know how to meet you partner half way.

This position also makes you a little “starry-eyed” or unrealistic when it comes to choosing mate but when you do, you are loyal and accommodating in whatever faults the mate may have.

Moon in the 9th also suggests an innate need to relate to the partner outside relationships boundaries: It’s not enough for you to just be a “girlfriend” and talk about how much you love the partner etc. but also be able to be intellectually in tune with your partner.

If you two are involved in the long term, you may seek to learn and engage with them more on issues of a global or “all encompassing “ scale; religion, politics, societal norms, philosophy, world cultures, the existence or “God” etc.

As far as who is “best” for you is concerned? It’s hard to say.

I’d have to say that a man who has good aspects between his Moon and Mars or Moon and Pluto (or both) is good: He’ll understand you competitive spirit and will treat you as an equal.

A Man with Moon aspects to Saturn is not that great, unless you are prepared to give up some control. He’ll insist on being the one you “answer “to.

A Man with moon aspects to Neptune is a dream as he’ll accept you as you are. The only problem will be; will you accept him as he is? He has little need to go after the “prize” that you feel destined to reach.

Of course, it is possible that the man will have all these aspects; thereby seeming to contradict himself. This is life as nobody is perfect. The key would be to find a guy who is balanced and utilises these positions to enrich the relationship with you; instead of picking you up one minute and then pulling you down the next.

Good Luck


Oh wow, you seem to know your stuff, ahaha! I'm not too adept in astrology yet, so I'm not familiar with locating aspects,etc. So I linked my chart below - Well, I'll just re link it.
http://i1177.photobucket.com/albums/x353/elm1230/AstroLada_DrawChart.png

I hope you can interpret that.

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posted February 11, 2013 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for unhappyapathy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Elm1230:
No, I don't really get impatient. I know I have so many personal things to work on that building a relationship right now would be a nuisance. I think I wanted to know if I was going to be in a relationship really. I am quite eccentric, somewhat strange to others, and I have strong prerequisite's that I feel might not be easy to find in today's society. These prerequisite's are nothing that I don't demand of myself, but other people don't 'gel' with them. I forgot which placement, but let's just say I'm quite moral, and have high values. And then again, I am eccentric myself, and not really eccentric in an endearing delightfully kooky way,and not THAT strange, but different enough where it would be hard to find someone into me. Astrology can't tell me that,though. So we will have to wait and see if that person comes along.

Yeah, I guess that's valid to say. I've had friendships where I was really desperate to jump into more with the person (like hanging out daily, talking on the phone often, sharing secrets). But they weren't into that, and they always said I was too direct, too rude, too talkative, too something. Plus, a lot of them "aren't interested". I didn't really understand that at the time and I was hurt. The colleges in my area consist of kids that aren't really close to each other.

There are clubs for LGBT people... One of my classmates met his BF that way.

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posted February 11, 2013 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elm1230     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by unhappyapathy:
Yeah, I guess that's valid to say. I've had friendships where I was really desperate to jump into more with the person (like hanging out daily, talking on the phone often, sharing secrets). But they weren't into that, and they always said I was too direct, too rude, too talkative, too something. Plus, a lot of them "aren't interested". I didn't really understand that at the time and I was hurt. The colleges in my area consist of kids that aren't really close to each other.

There are clubs for LGBT people... One of my classmates met his BF that way.


LOL! Well, that was another one of my "eccentricities", I cannot speak for an entire group, but I know a huge majority of gay men do not find me attractive. One of the things that make me eccentric is that I don't express myself in a masculine or feminine manner, though I can swing more on the feminine, but definitely a bit more androgynous. If anything I really pretty man with extra strangeness- in the fashion department. We can thank anyone of my placements for that.

Most - if any- heterosexual people don't understand when I tell them that most gay men wouldn't be in to me. But it's because I look too feminine. I know other gay men who can't stand not getting attention from guys because they look feminine, or wear feminine things, so they change their appearance to fit a masculine mold. I would never change to be accepted. Masculinity is a big deal to gay men, and they do like men, so they're not so inclined to be with a feminine man. I don't fault them for this, they're attracted to men.

I know a few 'straight' guys have liked me, or they at least straddled the fence, bisexual perhaps? Which comes with it's own sets of problems. So that's what my concern stemmed from too. I am attractive, I know that, but it's the idea of finding someone who likes me and is comfortable with that. That would have to be a very strong and confident individual. Like myself.

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