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Bearee
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posted August 09, 2013 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met a guy last year I felt a true connection with. The first time I met him, he felt and sounded so familiar!! I could be totally myself with him and I let myself go..
I fell in love with him, but because he has some issues, he distanced his self from me after a while. This was 9 months ago.
The problem is, that my soul is still hurting because of this. Everything I felt with him was so intense.. The wound is still so fresh, even after all these months. I keep getting upset at some nights. Why is this? Why am I still stuck to him, even though I don't have any contact at all? I feel so stupid, but I just can't seem to help it
Help me understand, please.
Is it the venus saturn conj? venus ic conj?
nn conj ic? (it's an orb of 9 degrees though.. so i don't know if that counts)

I'm on the inside.


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Doux RÍve
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posted August 12, 2013 04:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear about your troubles, Bearee

I think what triggers all this "clinginess" in you is his Venus that activates all your Saturn hard aspects. You know Saturn can be so stuck on people, very hard to let go.

Also, His Moon falls in your 8th - he evokes deep feelings in you and probably triggers some insecurities.

His Mars in your 7th and his Sun in your 5th - he's basically activating all your relationship houses, which means that you could see him as your partner.

Oh now one interesting thing I notice is that his BML conjuncts your Venus - all right, that probably explains a lot.
In synastry, the planet person tends to feel obsessed with the Lilith person, it acts a bit like Pluto - deep longing, feeling of neediness, compulsion sometimes, and so on.
Again, I have found that the Lilith person is not affected the way the planet person is.

I hope you'll be able to move on or at least heal.

Best wishes ~

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Jkitty
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posted August 15, 2013 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jkitty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd like to add the Venus/Juno to your IC. That's the "core" of who you are and people who touch it will feel very "familiar" and "comfortable" to us. Pulling away from that kind of relationship can feel like being abandoned.

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Bearee
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posted August 16, 2013 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you guys for your replies =)

@doux reve
it's so weird to have this deep longing for so long. it just doesn't go away. everytime i see his picture somewhere, the feelings still remind me of my longing ;( really painful.. also didn't expect this to happen at the beginning.
it felt like he was the perfect guy for me.. but oh well. life happens

@jkitty
yes you're right, he totally felt familiar and he touched me at my core as you may have noticed from my post haha.

i'm positive that i will get better eventually ^^

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Doux RÍve
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posted August 16, 2013 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux RÍve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
((( Bearee )))

I know exactly how that feels.

It will get better eventually, for sure!

Stay strong ~

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Bearee
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posted August 18, 2013 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank you doux reve <3 you're very sweet.

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Brendan34
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posted August 24, 2013 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brendan34     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are several threads on here about Pisces men. Man, seems like we get a good but simultaneously, pretty bad rap sometimes.

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Bearee
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posted August 24, 2013 02:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But I don't give you Pisces guys a bad rep, Brendan34, on the contrary, (even though I've known one Pisces guy), I like them

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