posted January 03, 2014 09:19 AM            

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posted January 05, 2014 10:53 AM            

You also have sun conjunct mars and mars is square all the outer planets. Also sun in minor negative aspect to pluto doesnt help the situation. I feel that your fears may be a possibility.......unfortunately.
But it should be obvious right away...like a quiet seething tension between you. You dont feel that?

You also have sun square mars and mars square pluto in synastry. And in composite sun and moon are also pretty afflicted. I just dont think this relationship will be healthy at all. You've really been friends for a long time? That's surprising...did u always get along well?

posted January 05, 2014 11:24 AM            

The heart will feel cold and it will be like a jarring kind of feeling to the hearts of both people imo

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posted January 05, 2014 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Well 1 your composite sun is in aries so it means you guys have a lot of energy together, which could be impulsive energy later on

You also have sun conjunct mars and mars is square all the outer planets. Also sun in minor negative aspect to pluto doesnt help the situation. I feel that your fears may be a possibility.......unfortunately.
But it should be obvious right away...like a quiet seething tension between you. You dont feel that?

You also have sun square mars and mars square pluto in synastry. And in composite sun and moon are also pretty afflicted. I just dont think this relationship will be healthy at all. You've really been friends for a long time? That's surprising...did u always get along well?

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posted January 05, 2014 02:16 PM            

Like something not right.

Like he might be evil one day, or explode

I have felt that before with a guy and our composite mars was square the outer planets both in synastry and composite, plus we had sun opposite saturn in synastry. We had sun conjunct venus like you do with ur guy composite (true love).
So yeah i got away because it just felt bot right. We never dated but it felt like he might become controlling or scary

Also i had sun opposite mars in composite and mars was conjunct pluto. We had mars hard aspects in synastry and in composite our love stellium was also in hard aspect to pluto.

My reallovecalc.com result with him was a lot more "unhealthy relationship"-like (this is a calculator which weighs ur heaviest synastry aspect. It was developed by a pro astrologer who has predicted many events)
And though i loved him so much yes he could feel scary at times, like extremely cold or unfeeling or trying to manipulate me.

That is the worst pattern that ive noticed in comosite...is sun hard aspect mars and mars hard aspect the outer planets. Look at chris brown and rihanna's composite for example, that is what they have...(no sun conjunct venus tho)
Imo with sun conj venus it would never get to actual hitting, just threatening like maybe feels like about to hit you. I have never seen a relationship with composite sun conjunct venus have actual abuse happen.

You should go with how it feels in ur gut. Does he feel scary?

posted January 05, 2014 02:21 PM            

Im just gonna advise that you stay away from this one.
There's no way it would end well.

posted January 06, 2014 09:13 PM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Homestly everywhere u look in this synastry and composite the theme of coldness meanness lack of caring keeps popping up. I agree with ami about that fifth house. And composite sun square neptune is like death, omg its so heartbreaking and so disorienting.

Im just gonna advise that you stay away from this one.
There's no way it would end well.

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posted January 09, 2014 04:18 AM            

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Originally posted by saylee23:
That's very unfortunate & he's been a family friend for years he's my big brothers BFF we just would flirt occasionally and be buds til he told me he was into me. & yes I DO feel the tension between us it's just hard to text if its negative or sexual. For example one time we got into an argument cuz we went out with my friends & they brought guys, he gets uneasy when I'm around guys he doesn't know his grip on me becomes tighter and he gets quieter, & if I laugh at something one of the guys said be rolls his eyes. Witch would seem a bit annoying but I get the same way when a girl comes around us, so I is hard to tell what's a bad sign & what's
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Never mind the synastry... I had this with a ex. It's not good. They become controlling and you loss yourself. The longer you stay in it the more difficult it will be for you to get out.

Maybe you should consider going back to being friends with him.

posted January 15, 2014 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by saylee23:
Omg DEATH!?? & yes there has always been a certain scaryness about him in fact that's what makes him so interesting cuz he's a swee lt heart most of the time but when he's ****** he does get this blank look in his eyes like he has nothing to loose & is disconnected from the world and wont talk to me until i basically beg him to(manipulation) i also dont know much about venus in cap. I'm going to break up with him, tell him we should just be friends thank you so much for you so much to your time and i site I really appriate it!<3 u may have potentially safe a life lol

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posted January 15, 2014 11:54 PM            

We alsi have mars trine pluto.

We also had like 5 other violent aspects that i read about on a website called when planets collide astrology. But we never got physical with eachother.

He liked to **** me off on purpose and got a kick out of it. This didnt come until months later. I guess pluto moves slowly? Im not gonna lie. There were times when i wanted to punch the crap out of him lol. We still talk as friends and he still being a smart a$$.

But honestly if we were younger i think it definitely would have gotten violent. Luckily we are older.

There was definitely alot of jealousy and possesiveness between us and for no reason at all.

He had lots of violent natal aspects too but he did alot of fighting in his teenage years. He is 40 now.

He said to me once " its a good thing we didnt meet when we were younger or we would have killed eachother".

posted January 16, 2014 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Homestly everywhere u look in this synastry and composite the theme of coldness meanness lack of caring keeps popping up. I agree with ami about that fifth house. And composite sun square neptune is like death, omg its so heartbreaking and so disorienting.

Im just gonna advise that you stay away from this one.
There's no way it would end well.

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His mars in your 7th house in synastry means drama. He will always start drama and pick a fight with you.

And in the composite mars is in the 8th house. Isnt mars in the 8th usually a voilent death? I dont want to scare you but its even freaking me out.

posted January 16, 2014 05:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
His mars in your 7th house in synastry means drama. He will always start drama and pick a fight with you.

And in the composite mars is in the 8th house. Isnt mars in the 8th usually a voilent death? I dont want to scare you but its even freaking me out.

Who is the mars in synastry? I hope its not him.

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posted January 16, 2014 06:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
My ex and i have mars square pluto. I am the mars.

We alsi have mars trine pluto.

We also had like 5 other violent aspects that i read about on a website called when planets collide astrology. But we never got physical with eachother.

He liked to **** me off on purpose and got a kick out of it. This didnt come until months later. I guess pluto moves slowly? Im not gonna lie. There were times when i wanted to punch the crap out of him lol. We still talk as friends and he still being a smart a$$.

But honestly if we were younger i think it definitely would have gotten violent. Luckily we are older.

There was definitely alot of jealousy and possesiveness between us and for no reason at all.

He had lots of violent natal aspects too but he did alot of fighting in his teenage years. He is 40 now.

He said to me once " its a good thing we didnt meet when we were younger or we would have killed eachother".

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posted January 19, 2014 09:09 PM            

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Originally posted by saylee23:
Wow! This is getting crazy : / and I'm not sure how to tell who the mars & who the Pluto is lol I'm very new to astrology I just know my mars is in slow Taurus & his is in random Aquarius & when we do argue (witch is rare most of the time it's just boiling tention til we talk it out) I stay pretty calm and quiet I don't yell I just calmly and slightly fearfully tell him why I think he's wrong. HE on the other hand is naturally loud and expressive and when angry starts shaking and gets antsy.

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