posted February 15, 2014 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
You really shouldn't let those bad aspects prevent you from having a potential relationship. Just take things slowly and be aware of the possible problems. I would hate to see you not try a relationship that may turn out to be absolutely wonderful.

Btw, welcome to the hockey family! Great to see more countries joining Olympic hockey!

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This is exactly right. I counted 23 squares with my ex husband and we had 15 great years together.

You need really look at this person, his qualities and his defects in the harsh light of day. Is he a good person? How does he act when he's angry? How does he treat other people? What are his values? And how does all that fit with who you are?