posted October 03, 2014 06:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
I never experienced (as far as I remember) lilith conj asc but I recently experienced how it's like if my lilith conjuncts the sun, lilith and/or the south node of a guy and all those guys felt really attracted to me- but in a "bad & hot" way.

I suppose they perceived me as a "dark" lady

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I have the same experience, Enneline. It really drives men over some edge hehehe
(Aqua Lilith in 1st, if you didn't guess already

posted October 03, 2014 07:00 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

I have the same experience, Enneline. It really drives men over some edge hehehe
(Aqua Lilith in 1st, if you didn't guess already

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posted October 03, 2014 09:03 AM            

Lilith doesn't care about marriage.
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posted October 03, 2014 09:06 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Lilith as mistress is a bit of the result of Lilith's "demonization" - the other woman as the "bad" woman.
But I guess it does show the other woman sometimes, because Lilith is freedom and temptation and the temptation of freedom and the freedom to have and enjoy temptations

Lilith doesn't care about marriage.

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Yes, Lilith is the homewrecker

posted October 03, 2014 09:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Isn't lilith considered as being the mistress? So they thought I would be the ideal mistress for them? Or did I thought they are ideal mistresses for me since it was my lilith?

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posted October 03, 2014 09:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Yes, Lilith is the homewrecker

So we could have seduce those men if had the intentions to do so?

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...and your seductress profile (I remember it ) likes that, right??

We can have those anytime

However, I think Lilith is also a feminist so she cares about her gender, the poor wives washing those guys' socks for years

posted October 03, 2014 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
...and your seductress profile (I remember it ) likes that, right??

We can have those anytime

However, I think Lilith is also a feminist so she cares about her gender, the poor wives washing those guys' socks for years

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I am supposed to be a seductress but I can't feel that; maybe because I normally never meet a man who I wanna seduce

posted October 03, 2014 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
Oh yes, even if they are happily married and therefore not really interested: they feel magnetically attracted to you- and it never ends amicably (so far )

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:: raising hand ::

posted October 03, 2014 12:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
I never experienced (as far as I remember) lilith conj asc but I recently experienced how it's like if my lilith conjuncts the sun, lilith and/or the south node of a guy and all those guys felt really attracted to me- but in a "bad & hot" way.

I suppose they perceived me as a "dark" lady

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Interesting! I'd say it's likely mutual. To me, he's got all of the BML-esque qualities -- independent, mysterious, distant yet intense, somewhat brooding, yet absolutely inscrutable. (Oh, yes, my Scorpio loves a puzzle. Guilty.)

But then I'M a SUN-BML naturally, with a strong LILITH. So I grok his natal MOON-BML, and MARS-LILITH. The fact it falls on my SUN likely feels more 'familiar' than completely daunting.

posted October 03, 2014 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
I heard that Lilith was supposed to be the kind of mistress a man would pursue.
I had the experience with a guy I worked with whose Lilith and Venus were conjunct my ascendant. He was married but he took a liking to me from day one and after a few months he was telling people at work! I felt uncomfortable because I was with someone and he was married so I deleted him from Facebook, and him being a Leo that was enough to stop him in his tracks lol.
It is powerful though.

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:: thinking :: How interesting. Yes, I can see that. I'd hate to label him a 'mister', so to speak. That doesn't do justice to the relationship, the dynamics, or the connexion.

I've certainly wanted to astrologically study unconventional, polyamorous relationships, though. I suspect LILITH will be very present -- in both the primary and secondary relationships.

These days, it's less 'primary' or 'secondary'. I'm simply legally married to one and not the other. I love them both. :shrug:

posted October 03, 2014 12:49 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
...and your seductress profile (I remember it ) likes that, right??

We can have those anytime

However, I think Lilith is also a feminist so she cares about her gender, the poor wives washing those guys' socks for years

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Yeah, I had this moment where I was literally folding my husband's socks, reading my partner's latest short story, and answering fan mail, bandying about how I'm such a goddess unworthy of their attention; so powerful and dominant they couldn't fathom to even breathe my air.

Talk about a contrast!

posted October 03, 2014 12:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Enneline:
But recently I met a man who's ridiculously hot I look at him and it's just like "Take me...NOW!" even his business related emails are sexy but he's married (as far as I know)...
BUT you are right with the feminist thing. I don't want to become a mistress because I would feel too much empathy with his wife. No, that's not for me.

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Show us the synastry! Don't tease us! I live for these things!

But, yes, this is why I'm extremely ethical and principled. Never once have I consented to become involved with a man who was also involved. Period. Paragraph.

posted October 03, 2014 01:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
:: thinking :: How interesting. Yes, I can see that. I'd hate to label him a 'mister', so to speak. That doesn't do justice to the relationship, the dynamics, or the connexion.

I've certainly wanted to astrologically study unconventional, polyamorous relationships, though. I suspect LILITH will be very present -- in both the primary and secondary relationships.

These days, it's less 'primary' or 'secondary'. I'm simply legally married to one and not the other. I love them both. :shrug:

Maybe I'm just too Libran about it. Heh!

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posted October 03, 2014 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Haha I've never had such a casual view on the topic (Venus opposes Pluto). And I certainly wouldn't have labeled him my "mister." But I agree with what you were saying about lilith playing a huge part in these kinds of dynamics. I'd love to get a hold of his wife's chart!

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posted October 03, 2014 02:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
The man who showed you interest?

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