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Topic: Why do i run from relationships?
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Selene
Knowflake Posts: 781
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Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 14, 2014 02:19 PM
  
Feel free to analyze my chart for that question. I will be very grateful for that!  I've never had a real relationship. Only a few dates to month or two. And then i run. I find something that feels not so well and disappear. It frustrates me. I love that man - mr.Uranus (i suppose you know who i'm talking about by now, lol). And he's so perfect for me that noone really has a chance to live up to that role model. I think i may be not ready for relationship, but when i would be? I am soon to be 24, it's not like i am a child. I want it, i need it, but it does not come. Men fancy me, they ask me out and we go out, but then i take a different road. And yes, it has never gone further than just kisses (hello, Cappy!).. I want it. But i can't step over myself and do it with whomever, i want it to be special. But i certainly do not want to wait forever. I'm screwed, aren't i?  Please, share any insights. Thank you!  Sincerely yours, Selene. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 3033
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 14, 2014 02:38 PM
Dear Selene,you have that stellium involving your DSC ruler with Saturn falling on your 5th cusp - it is not easy for you to fall in love or enter in relationships. Plus, Neptune squaring there (especially Venus) shows me you need a tangible fairy tale vibe to a relationship to ever consider entering it. You have a lovely Minor Triangle with an additional idealist flavor, pointing to your 11th house. But it's a lovely config and Moon conjuncts Jupiter, your IC ruler, showing me you have a happy, expanded heart and a great chance for happiness. This is what I think...someone will come your way and you'll forget about all these worries (if you ask me, you know about me and pattern completion lol someone shooting an arrow to your Moon/Jupiter from Aqua). But in the mean time, I tell you this: date people, consider them your potential friends, don't date them necessarily to hook up, just to experience people and life, don't isolate yourself just because you are picky in love. Picky is good. Date or go out just to meet people and make friends. Life is short. Love comes when least expected. And, I think I don't have to tell you this, you know it yourself, I'll say it nevertheless: obsessions always drag us down IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 3033
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 14, 2014 02:47 PM
BTW, my Moon is at 14 Leo, Mercury 11 Libra, ASC 19 Cap and your ASC is on my Sun/Venus mdp IP: Logged |
Selene
Knowflake Posts: 781
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Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 14, 2014 03:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
BTW, my Moon is at 14 Leo, Mercury 11 Libra, ASC 19 Cap and your ASC is on my Sun/Venus mdp
Wow, that's great! That's why you can really understand me! And yes, what you wrote, is totally true. I am picky and i know that it is totally for good, just i think it's not fear for the guys that fall for me, because i reject them literally for no real reason, i wouldn't want that to be done for me, but anyway... i'll try my best to improve my dating skills. IP: Logged |
fishbull11
Knowflake Posts: 48
From: depths
Registered: May 2014
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posted June 14, 2014 07:39 PM
I thought I might add your Virgo ascendant is typically going to be a critical one searching and seeking flaws and thus reasons to volt. We all have not so nice things about our personalities, maybe try to not be so nit picky and focus on the good qualities the person brings to the table, maybe come up with some factors that are deal breakers for you and maybe some you can live with. Good luck, your libra sun does typically lends itself towards wanting to be in a relationship I would think.IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Moderator Posts: 8586
From: the Point of Light within the Mind of God
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 15, 2014 12:27 AM
I thought Hades Moon before I even saw the chart.Yep, Pluto Squares the Moon, big and bold. (Ask me how I Know?) My favourite way to sabotage my own relationships is to go just as far overboard as it takes to run off anyone I am attracted to. That way it is their fault, They were the ones who ran. Twisted Plutonian Illogic. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
Moderator Posts: 2708
From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted June 15, 2014 03:23 AM
I was just going to say; honestly and truly? Don't sweat it. You're not a child, no, but you're also only 24. Perhaps, with your Virgo rising, you're being cautious and avoiding diving or delving too deeply before you're ready? 24 is nothing in the grand scheme. You've got time to bide. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 7514
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 15, 2014 05:19 AM
Hello!  quote:
Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
I was just going to say; honestly and truly? Don't sweat it. You're not a child, no, but you're also only 24. Perhaps, with your Virgo rising, you're being cautious and avoiding diving or delving too deeply before you're ready? 24 is nothing in the grand scheme. You've got time to bide.
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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged | |
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