posted June 15, 2014 04:10 PM            

--3rd--
Neptune saggy@13°24

--11th--
Saturn leo@17°42
Mars leo@18°34

--3rd house--
Moon scorpio@22.25
Juno scorp@19.51
Penelope scorp@17.36

Jupiter gemini@5.24
Uranus scorp@8.40
IC saggy@15.45
DC pisces@17.27

NN libra@24.26
Eros libra@26.50
Valentine libra@28.54

posted June 15, 2014 06:02 PM            

I'll post the chart so it's easier but here is the activity around my 1st and his 2nd, all libra falls in these houses.

Synastry....
His Pallas saggy@6.06
Me AC libra@7.05
Him Mars libra@7.35
Him Venus libra@8.50
Me Ceres gemini@9.20
Him Vesta saggy@10.26
Me Pluto libra@11.02
Me Neptune saggy@11.15
Me Spirit aqua@12.06

Me Eros cap@9.00
Me Valentine cap@9.50
Him Ceres cap@10.28
Him Vertex cap@13.59
Me Lust cap@14.56
Me Angel cap@16-17

Him Neptune saggy@15.04
Him Pluto libra@14.39
Him Valentine leo@13.41
Him Pan leo@14.43
Me Psyche gemini@15.56
Me Jupiter aries@15.15
Me Pan aries@16.51

posted June 16, 2014 07:05 AM            

The focus here is around your ASC, with those planets clustering there, the Venus conjunctions. But apart from that, the personal planets are not sufficiently aspected for neither of the partners. The house overlay is better felt by the inside person, but the interest of the outside person would most likely be short-lived.

posted June 16, 2014 08:24 AM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
VENUS-MARS conjunct KARMA, Gabby? Wow! What's the orb? 1H, too. That's gotta be noticeable.

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I thought there had to be some significance to that to! I'm not sure if he's a soulmate or what exactly. I figured with a Venus/Pluto conjunction DW, although my Venus to his is 4 degrees.....that makes the composite Venus/Pluto very tight!
We have many of the soulmate connections, but I'm not sure how deep it goes.

His name is on my NN also, a few months ago I was meditating and this name kept popping in my head, I lolled it up and found it on my NN. Had no idea what it meant until I met him....then when I first saw him, without thinking at all my mind said, "no that can't be someone special to me....not him he's bald, I don't like bald guys." Lol
He's cute but I've just never liked bald guys....

posted June 16, 2014 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
This is not the best of synastries, Gabby This is what I call a focal synastry - focused around one or two, three focal points, without a tapestry of aspects between the partners. It shows an attraction like a magnet, at least from one person, but the relationship has a specific purpose, ranging from a passing fling to an important lesson/event, then comes to a dissolution.

The focus here is around your ASC, with those planets clustering there, the Venus conjunctions. But apart from that, the personal planets are not sufficiently aspected for neither of the partners. The house overlay is better felt by the inside person, but the interest of the outside person would most likely be short-lived.

If you are the inside person, I'm surprised you even consider this man - your Venus, Moon, Saturn are not aspected (apart from the Pluto conjunction which is more or less generational), and the rest of your planers receive feeble aspects. His planets are not aspected in a romantic way either (look at his Moon lonely there, with an out of sign Saturn opp ugh), he's just under the impact of Venus/Mars on ASC (he finds you beautiful and sexually attractive, but it is a passing influence without connections to planets and house overlays - you're not his type in the long run)

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I kind of wondered about all that...I didnt feel a huge attraction to him at first...but I'm starting to now?
He's the one really pushing hard for it...and his energy is really growing on me.
I do feel I have a lesson to learn from him for some reason and it if I learn it the way I'm seen will change for the better....he's extremely structured, I have such a hard being grounded and structured but I've never had an example of how to be that...I guess I've thought it billions times, "why can't I find just one person to watch so that I can see what successs looks like on a daily basis and learn that structure?"
Never had a dad and my mom was as flaky as they come! I've tried so hard to learn it without help a and I've done really well....but not as well as I need to really prosper like I would like.
Oddly enough....I kind of knew the moment I met him he was there to teach me something, then he immediately starts talking about how he structured a very successful business from nothing.....my thought was when, my teacher has arrived, lol.
The day before I met him I was also introduced to a business opportunity that I know is the one I'm supposed to jump on....and I was so excited and scared at the same time. I know I'm not what I want to be regarding keeping up with everything.....all I kept thinking to myself is "please please don't let me be stupid and let this pass because I couldn't pull it together well enough!! I have to find a way to figure out how to be so structured i can start n sustain this business, please don't fail me this time!"
My only earth is a unaspected virgo moon in 12th(unaspected so my emotions literally talk to me like they are seperated from the rest of me, lol) and my only fixed signs are leo Saturn rx and scorp Uranus.....squared tightly so they frustrate each other and drive me bonkers!!
For me starting things is easy(3 planets and all angles are cardinal signs)...but following through? I suck!! (5 mutable planets, my only earth is mutable, Ugh!)

I want to change soooo much and I've tried so hard, I've cried so many times because it's just not in my makeup to be that way.....but I want it to be a part of me, I need it become a part of me. I won't give up until I overcome this issue!
I just need to see an example so I see the steps and I can follow it to start with, I need someone to teach me.

Is it possible that I'm right and that's what he's he for? His name is conjunct my NN. Even if it's short lived, I'll expect that and know when he ready to move on it's ok.

Also his saturn is square my Sun, that's a forever bond!! His Sun is a 1 degree square my NN also, lessons I didn't finish in my past.
His IC scorp@23, is on my NN scorp@22
His Karma is on my MC and my SN 0-1 degree

posted June 16, 2014 05:33 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Gabby, I like that you have this wisdom and know that life is a journey and the people we meet are our companions: some meetings are about love, others about self-evolution.

I think what you describe is very much connected to your Virgo Moon being unaspected in your 12th house: she is very strong, but not brought into light yet. A Virgo Moon is potentially very organized and efficient. You have your Juno there as well, no wonder you feel this coming out is connected to a partner, one way or the other. I do however believe that a stable partner for you, enhancing this side for you, will also aspect your Saturn quite strongly, also bring some Saturn aspects himself. But maybe this man has some lessons to teach you, as you very well said.

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I see what your saying as most likely the correct interpretation, although it kind of sux!
I'll let it live n then fizzle out on it's own without getting to attached...sounds like he will be the one ending it anyway, so I won't have to feel like I'm using him and the relationship for personal things.
I'll just let him build it and destroy it if that's how it works, I'll stay focus on learning what I need to learn from him so I'm not to bummed by it. I guess that's what's nice about libra Venus, falling in and out if love is 2nd nature although I'm so so so tired of it! I just want some consistency for once.

I like what you said about my Juno conjunct Moon....I'd never thought of that.
My Hera is exact trine my Juno.....my Dejanira, Asclepius, Huamea, Ganesa and Bried sit right next to my Moon, and Child is a degree after Moon....there is a lot going on right there!