posted June 23, 2014 07:54 AM            

Sun binovile Saturn (probably 0)
Sun semisquare or novile Saturn (probably exact semisquare, although it would have been cool if it had been a novile))

Moon sextile Saturn (apparently 3)
Moon tredecile Saturn (apparently 0)

There is only one major aspect, indeed, but the minor aspects appear exact and there is a DW both for Sun/Saturn and Moon/Saturn. It is a more subtle influence of Saturn, but it is all over the place, and combined with the rest of the good synastry, it matters,

My question is:

What aspect do you have between Moon or Sun to Saturn in the composite or Davison? This should clear up things

posted July 13, 2014 07:50 PM            

We met in highschool, and became instant friends. We were inseparable, but did not become a couple until more than a year later, after graduating. It was hard to tell where it was going, because he did not actively persue me in a romantic way, and it was strictly platonic. Once we became a couple, it was the most passionate love and amazing sex. We were best friends that entertained each other endlessly, and at the same time loved each other so deeply. It was the best of both worlds. Our suns also trine almost to the minute, and our Ascendants are trine by less than 1 degree, so I think that's why we were so in sync. We had so many inside jokes and could communicate telepathically, it was like our own little world that no one else could enter.

We did not fight for the first year and a half, but once that started, I saw a very ugly side if him. He was raised in an abusive (physical, emotional) home and was often verbally abusive to me, VERY manipulative, and at times physically abusive. I'm not saying your guy would be like that, but he shares a birthday with Jodi Arias, OJ Simpson too, but obviously a different year. I've noticed a lot of people around that birthday have committed crimes of passion. My ex choked me once, and I thought he was going to kill me. That was the first time he had ever laid a finger on me, and we had been together for 5 years. Not a soul on this planet that knows this man would ever think he is capable of such abuse. He has a 12th house Mars and can actually convince himself that he is not abusive. My Jupiter, Saturn and Venus also fall in his 12th. My Cancer would turn as cold as ice out of nowhere, and refuse to talk to me for days, with absolutely NO explanation. Then act as if nothing happened, very Jekyll and Hyde. Typical male Cancer mood swings, multiplied by an Aries Moon opposite Pluto. Part of him got pleasure out of seeing me cry, and he would even make up outlandish stories to upset me, then tell me how stupid I was for believing him. Despite all of that, I still love him very deeply, and always will, but ultimately his refusal to take ownership and get help for his abusive behavior is what led to us splitting up. His family is like a viscious pack of wolves, but as a Cancer he keeps them close, which is a huge part of the problem. I could write a book about his crazy ass mom, so I won't even go there ! I would never change my past with my Cancer, because that relationship made me who I am today, but I've also experienced a great deal of pain because of it. I'm actually quite amazed that I made it in one piece, because I've been suicidal over this man countless times.

I'm not trying to scare you by telling you these things, but you share a lot of the same aspects. Your Cancer seems like he has a lot of issues to work through, and might not be in the right place to enter a serious relationship. His Venus and Moon in Gemini would be hard to tie down, and his "love addiction" sounds like a nice way of saying "sex addiction". I personally would not be with someone that's a sex addict, because I would never be able to trust him. It's a compulsive behavior, and they may be able to keep the behavior in check, but they will always struggle with the urges. Trust is difficult for me anyway, as I imagine it is for you too. His Moon and Venus both opposing Neptune is a major red flag of a serial cheater, and he probably deludes himself when it comes to relationships. I get the feeling he idealizes women, sweeps them off their feet, then punishes them for not living up to his ideal. He probably left a trail of broken hearts. If you're like me, then you probably have the wounded bird complex, where you feel like it's your job to save people, even from themselves. I think you should be there as a friend, but I wouldn't try to make it a relationship anytime soon. He comes with a warning label!!!

Linda Goodman's take on the Scorpio woman and Cancer man is very accurate in my case. She says the Cancer will always keep the Scorpio hanging on, because they never want the Scorpio to be indifferent to them. It gives them pleasure knowing their Scorpio will always love or hate them, but never be indifferent to them. The one that they can always come crawling back to, and they know it. I'm sure that deep down this man does have very strong feelings for you, but he doesn't sound like he is ready for a relationship, and you and your daughter both deserve more. If it's meant to be, then in time it will be, but he has a lot of work to do on himself.

Sorry to be a downer, but this is what I would want someone to say to me under these circumstances.

posted July 13, 2014 10:46 PM            

Yep. There will be sex. That's a given.

I hope your MOON's on his SUN. That would be lovely.

As Lee said -- good for 'romantic purposes.' Yep!