posted July 20, 2014 08:48 PM
Attraction from my own experience (i.e. I was attracted to someone):(I'm a girl, just in case, since the Mars/Venus has gender references in classic theory.)
My Mars in conjunction to his Sun or Mars + some tight and personal Venus contact (I mean my Venus) at the same time. It seems it doesn't even matter which one, I had Venus square Sun, Venus square Mars, etc.
I never noticed the famous Pluto-Venus thing working for me, but this is what I had more than once:
case 1
Neptune opp Sun
Pluto square Sun
Sun trine Pluto
Pluto conj Moon
Neptune trine Moon
Neptune conj Venus
Pluto trine Mars
case 2
DW Neptune conj Sun
DW Pluto sextile Sun
Pluto trine Moon
case 3
Neptune conj Sun
Neptune conj Mars
Pluto sextile Sun
Pluto sextile Mars
Sun semisquare Neptune
Sun conj Pluto
The orbs are a bit wide sometimes, like 5 for a slow planet, way wide, but I decided to pay attention when I saw a whole big bunch of similar stuff come up every time.
I have natal Venus square Neptune, Pluto and Mars rule my Sun, and Mars is my 5th house ruler in conjunction to my 7th and 8th ruler. My 7th and 8th are ruled by Uranus, but I didn't notice it playing a huge part in synastry so far.